Ivynwa: @hoodboy

I understand that you are feeling scorned,abandoned, terrible, lovelorn right now, try and pull yourself together. Find something positive and immerse yourself in, that way you can take your mind off it and maintain your sanity. Leave the environment as soon as your exams are over and go channel your energy into something that will yield more positive than that.

I never supported s-exual relationship while in the university, the one or two love nwantinti that I did in the university were platonic. I avoided s-ex at school and I am glad I did. One should concentrate on the studies, get the grades and come out. Look around you there in school, you will notice that the smart students don't mess around with s-ex there, they concentrate on their studies. Channel that energy into your exams and leave that place in one piece, don't get caught- up in a drama where some are already threatening to bath some in acid and another man nearly fought you over a girl. If one of you loses his life in that kind of passionate/angry fight, the other fighter may end up wasting his life in jail so be wise avoid all that drama. If she wants the other man now, let her go with him-------she may end up running back to you. Concentrate on what is important now which is building up a beautiful future for yourself.

thanks for your kind words of advice

@op now you're behaving in the same clingy way that scared you away from her.

The world is a strange place, where things repeat themselves infinitely. As one mumu dies, another is born to replace him in the hemisphere, and this guarantees a never-ending cycle of mumu-ism until the end of time.

In this day and age, peeps still get worked up over women's feelings and whatnot - mortgaging their peace of mind and mental acuity over a woman's fleeting, brittle, and ultimately worthless 'love'. Such self-imposed pain is almost indicative of some kind of masochism.

hello,
most of this problems could be minimize , if only most people know what to do right from the onset in thier relationships.

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making a relationship to work takes knowledge, understanding and working on the relationship by giving, sharing and sacrifice for each other .
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Life is too short to make unnecessary enemies..save ur energy for life's real battles(getting a good job, raising a family, running your business)
Live life in such a way that you never have cause to look back and regret...
Before you take any action: look 5-10 yrs into the future and judge what your reactions would be if someone asked you for advice for a similar problem...
Remember; nobody is worth dying for...
Enuff said!!!

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Pls face ur studies..........too much story.