Hello Nlanders, i saw this on Facebook, it was POSTED by Mr & MRs and i decided to share it!!!!

When I was younger I believed in unconditional love. I dated guys with empty pockets, stingy a$$ dudes who would rather pretend to be broke than loan their mother 10 bucks. But it didn’t matter to me. Everything I have and ever wanted, I bought with my own money. So whether a guy spent money on me or not, had a good car or not, or lived with his parents at the age of 30, I wasn’t bothered. Instead I believed in ‘building with my man’. The naïve little girl in me actually believed that ‘if you are with a man when he has nothing, he will always remember you when he has something’.

Fast forward a couple of years and throw in d speed bumps and punches of life, I am now a completely different person. Well maybe not totally different, just wiser and smarter and not ashamed to say so.
From now on before I date a guy he must pass the financial acid test...... Good job, good car, nice flat, generous, with dollops of ambition and drive! Gone are the days where I was fasting and praying for a man to buy his first car only for him to put another woman in the front seat of my own car!. Haba!!! my mother didn’t raise no fool! I will fast and pray with you for that promotion, while the AC of your current car is blowing me on my face. I will get up and seek the Lord early in the morning for his salary increase when I have recovered from our romantic getaway in Paris or St Tropez.

I will cook the best tasting efo riro soup & peppered snails known to man while I am in his fully fitted kitchen and furnished home. I will hold his hand through all of life’s ups and downs while he treats me like the princess I deserve to be whilst proving to me that he was raised by a queen. And if all this makes me a gold digger, then I’ll say it loud- I'm a proud one!!!

To each their own. You will be something he just bought with his money. What happens if he loses the money, apartment and car?

deniyor: To each their own. You will be something he just bought with his money. What happens if he poses the money, apartment and car?

He could do that as long as m in the front seat!!!!

I'll just let dayokanu do justice to this thread.