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Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by MrsChima1(f): 4:41pm On Oct 02, 2012 |
Gracious10: Riggggggggght. |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by esere826: 10:10am On Oct 26, 2012 |
I'll break this to you in bits. Gracious10: I have been dating my guy for almost a year now. He is 15 years older than me. I am in my late twenties. He doesnt feel the need to be commited to you. Neither does he want people to raise eyebrows when the next girl comes along 2. He never returns my call promptly, he returns calls in 48-72 hrs and when i demand explanation, he gives excuses of being too busy and would call back when he has time for it! He also accuses me of insulting him and i still apologise. I have never used a curse word on him cos i understand what respect is This guy actually feels that he is beyond your league
He sure doesn't consider you his 'mate'. He would like you to be aware of this just in case the r/ship breaks up 4:He loves to ignore me for days no matter how worried i am of his welbeing.. Commitment phobia
He is a stingy person. Used to receiving and not giving. Your commitment to God does not phase him one bit. He's had relationships with hundreds like you Recently, he treated me his normal way in public, practically avoided me and sneaked out of the event without informing me of his exit. He later asked me to join me in a resturant, i refused to go. He appologised but i think this guy has been planing to leave me. So i decided to stay away for a while and since then, he hasn't called. The handwritting is clear. (Umhh, familiar setting replaying itself) |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by esere826: 10:22am On Oct 26, 2012 |
Gracious10: I have peace within me, I believe i shouldnt force anyone to be with me. Relationship is a two thing. I believe he has his own side to the story. Apart from what i have mentioned, this guy is nice.....But with what i have presented, should i still hope he will come back? I am not dating anyone and dont wish to date till i understand what went wrong here and how i can fix it moving on . I might be wrong, but his profile actually fits the description some pastors I know. If such is the case, you're not his first and wont be his last -Quit bothering yourself about him. He won't change. He has no side of the story. -has he even introduced u to his mom? -You'll drive yourself to a point where you will be the one to have s.ex with (seduce) him. When this happens he would feel no sense of guilt or wrongdoing towards you by rationalizing that you lured him into it -Don't... I repeat dont defeat yourself by hoping to get explanations before you move on. This is a 'mind game' that is turned against you -Gracious10. This guy is going to I'm saying this, because I've seen this same thing play out so many, many, many times Great for the guys, bad for the girls ...Its your choice 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by fairygeh(f): 10:53am On Oct 26, 2012 |
He is not worth your love 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by dacutie1(f): 10:39am On Oct 27, 2012 |
he hasn't called you since you decided to stay away........a man dat loves you cant go a day without calling you or checking up on you.i knw you are thinking with your heart right now. my only advice is that you should think with your head, keep yourself busy, take urself out,work on yourself. YOU ARE FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE and you deserve the very best. the choice is yours tho |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by Nobody: 10:51am On Oct 27, 2012 |
try he is married. he is super nice but he only returns call after 2 or 3 days |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by darmiex(f): 11:16am On Oct 27, 2012 |
you say this guy is nice, how do you mean? you do not need anyone to tell you to leave this guy. deep down, inside you, you know the answer. please do yourself a huge favour, leave this man, he is probably married or commitment phobic, with all those signs you described. lastly, that guy has no iota of respect for you, the handwriting is very clear on teh wall. |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by tpia1: 4:43pm On Nov 07, 2012 |
Thought you said you can foresee the future? So why asking questions on nl. |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by esere826: 5:25pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
tpia1: Thought you said you can foresee the future? Make I help am answer: Sometimes, seers loose their magic when emotions are involved |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by Gracious10: 5:29pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
esere826: Esere! |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by Gracious10: 5:33pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
tpia1: Thought you said you can foresee the future? Mr Tpia, its always good to read properly before you respond. Ever figured the time frame? Ndo! |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by lkings0000: 7:26pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
My dear,dnt bother urslf,frm wt u wrote u ddnt give him d ladylike requird attitude nd class frm d start...so now dt u av messd d whole tin up,call it quit 4 him nd let him see dt u ar hapy abt it evn if u ar nt...famz beta guyz,I'll gve u som rules (1).dnt expct him back (2).move on wit ur life (3).do tins dat'll make u acceptable 2 oda guyz (4).be classy if u ar nt (5).nd make mor money....I'll gt bak 2 u |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by Gracious10: 7:44pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
lkings0000: My dear,dnt bother urslf,frm wt u wrote u ddnt give him d ladylike requird attitude nd class frm d start...so now dt u av messd d whole tin up,call it quit 4 him nd let him see dt u ar hapy abt it evn if u ar nt...famz beta guyz,I'll gve u som rules (1).dnt expct him back (2).move on wit ur life (3).do tins dat'll make u acceptable 2 oda guyz (4).be classy if u ar nt (5).nd make mor money....I'll gt bak 2 u Please explain the "Lady like attitude" I would love to get ur opinion on that. |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by eunisam: 10:04pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
just waka no look back just waka no look back just waka no look back just waka no look back just waka no look back just waka no look back
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Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by esere826: 1:39am On Nov 09, 2012 |
Gracious10: The vanity of women is everlasting sha Just let go, bikonu |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by pleep(m): 2:24am On Nov 09, 2012 |
Gracious10:haha You go girl! |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by Gracious10: 2:25am On Nov 09, 2012 |
esere826: That r/ship has been long dead. Well NL doesn't give the liberty to delete posts so people still comment and I respond. It's fun though atleast you get their opinion. |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by Youngpo413: 8:28pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Gracious10: are you now married? |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by Daresh(f): 8:49pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Gracious10: I have been dating my guy for almost a year now. He is 15 years older than me. I am in my late twenties. My dear, you are dating a MARRIED MAN |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by LEAFLET(m): 4:46am On Aug 29, 2014 |
I really do wonder how a woman will be in a relationship with a man she claims she love and still deny him sex!...That's treacherous if you ask me.. |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by pinkycute(f): 8:43am On Oct 02, 2014 |
So" why is he Super nice" when his acting is unknown to you!!!! by dear, just back of, the guy is not urs Gracious10: I have been dating my guy for almost a year now. He is 15 years older than me. I am in my late twenties. |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by ancashy(f): 10:05am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Sweet heart u are in luv with urself. A great mistake ppl. Keep making,it taked two to tango,do not be clouded with ur own emotions,he does nt feel what u feel.Probably just wanted sex and u did nt give,u ave ur whole life ahead of u,live it forr urself and odas who deserve it on ur own terms |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by ancashy(f): 7:38pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
gunners160:Kindly re-read d OP post and let me know if u'll luv to have a relationship with dat sort of man.d relationship had always been like dat nt dat he changed.better a break. Up than a broken life and home |
Re: Help! Am Loosing The Man I Love! by Nobody: 8:09pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
This is so sad |
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