There is this friend of mine whose heart is broken. He and his girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and were even planning to tie the knot. But ever since he took his girlfriend to workship with him at his church, their relationship has been on shaky ground. it happened that on that particular sunday, been her first time in church, she was seperated from the guy and taken to another part of the church meant for first timers to sit (like they do in some churches).And it was while she sat there that a wealthy brother in the church sighted her and later approached her after the service. they exchanged numbers and began seeing and calling each other without the knowledge of my friend. My friend didn't know nor suspected anything at first but noticed that her feelings and interest in their relationship was becoming cold by the day. he later got to know via someone in the church and that the new guy (church brother) wants to marry her. and cos of the new guy, she hardly picks my firend's calls nor visit him like she used to. Now, my guy is heartbroken...he's afraid he's going to lose his girlfriend to the church brother, who is richer than him and has been spoiling his girlfriend silly with money and gifts...

may the best man win!

so what is ur friend's problem ,cant he find another lady?afterall the lady found another man.i think ur friend is jobless for him to be spending his time sulking over a lady that dumped him.

He's already lost the girl na,i advice he moves on,he'll find his own that girl never loved him anyways.

dis shld not be a great issue. when rich church member can snatch d wife of a pastor,what do u xpect to ordinary fiance?it shows dat ur fiance is not ur wife but a woman who is after riches.its good u knw her true colour nw dan regret later.try to talk to her or u move on with ur life.i hop she dosnt regret her action ltr sha

as far as i am concerned there is no issue in this matter ,the girl is no longer intereted,kaput.no need talking to her ,why should u talk to her to come back?but your friend can wait and waste all his time trying to get her back if he wants but the lady has simply moved on,love is never blind love is most times common sense

Sowee my brother.i also learnt my lesson the hard way...neva give ur heart to a woman again..d best way to be happy is to work hard, b succesful and go to an orphanage and adopt a kid or two.am sure this wld gladden ur heart than stayin wit a woman who is moved by what she feels and sees..
Am already on it already..stil in the working hard stage.

The prnblem is nt with your friend but rather with d girl. The relationship wit d gurl wasn't strong dat y any brother cud come and change her heart wit cash n gift.
Forget d fact that it happend in the church also,it cud be anywhere.
Dust ur shoes n move on n hope he learnt valuable lessons frm dis

Next time, go for court wedding, gbam!! Its a one day affair..no coming to my church,..marriage counselling by pastor,...and then losing your babe to church brother.

outofthebox: Sowee my brother.i also learnt my lesson the hard way...neva give ur heart to a woman again..d best way to be happy is to work hard, b succesful and go to an orphanage and adopt a kid or two.am sure this wld gladden ur heart than stayin wit a woman who is moved by what she feels and sees..
Am already on it already..stil in the working hard stage.

Man you need to relax your e-tendons

Congratulations to ur friend!!!!
It's bound to happen, it might happen during his wedding plans, during d wedding service or after marriage. Lucky him, he hasnt gone too far.
The guy should backspace asap, cos such a woman is bound to relocate someday wen a more favorable place sets in.

lol! Very funny story...especially @ the first-timers separation technique!

Damn! Dat gurl's gotta be a real bitch! What do these bitches want from a nigga? Afterall, the dudeman dey go church na I tire!

what is 'sowee' makes me laugh all the time.
let go please.Painful but that is life.

marvelck: There is this friend of mine whose heart is broken. He and his girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and were even planning to tie the knot. But ever since he took his girlfriend to workship with him at his church, their relationship has been on shaky ground. it happened that on that particular sunday, been her first time in church, she was seperated from the guy and taken to another part of the church meant for first timers to sit (like they do in some churches).And it was while she sat there that a wealthy brother in the church sighted her and later approached her after the service. they exchanged numbers and began seeing and calling each other without the knowledge of my friend. My friend didn't know nor suspected anything at first but noticed that her feelings and interest in their relationship was becoming cold by the day. he later got to know via someone in the church and that the new guy (church brother) wants to marry her. and cos of the new guy, she hardly picks my firend's calls nor visit him like she used to. Now, my guy is heartbroken...he's afraid he's going to lose his girlfriend to the church brother, who is richer than him and has been spoiling his girlfriend silly with money and gifts...

the story is complete na

[color=#006600][/color]its quite a pity bro, just try and pick up because when someone you love walks away just let her go,after all there so many fishes in the sea.........

That friend of yours should be happy that this happened now so he knows the kind of girl she is and he will start looking for another woman now

marvelck: There is this friend of mine whose heart is broken. He and his girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and were even planning to tie the knot. But ever since he took his girlfriend to workship with him at his church, their relationship has been on shaky ground. it happened that on that particular sunday, been her first time in church, she was seperated from the guy and taken to another part of the church meant for first timers to sit (like they do in some churches).And it was while she sat there that a wealthy brother in the church sighted her and later approached her after the service. they exchanged numbers and began seeing and calling each other without the knowledge of my friend. My friend didn't know nor suspected anything at first but noticed that her feelings and interest in their relationship was becoming cold by the day. he later got to know via someone in the church and that the new guy (church brother) wants to marry her. and cos of the new guy, she hardly picks my firend's calls nor visit him like she used to. Now, my guy is heartbroken...he's afraid he's going to lose his girlfriend to the church brother, who is richer than him and has been spoiling his girlfriend silly with money and gifts...

my man the problm we guys dnt understand is that a womans lov never dies.dat is 2 say a woman dat lovs u wil never compromise 4anytn.so let hm thank hs stars dat d guy is takng d lady away cos she is nt down wit hm no mater hw she pretends.if a lady dnt lv a guy in hs present state wat wil hapn if she ends up in a marage nd conditons change.

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@Mai gaskiya: Correct but are you worthy of such lady

mai gaskiya: my man the problm we guys dnt understand is that a womans lov never dies.dat is 2 say a woman dat lovs u wil never compromise 4anytn.so let hm thank hs stars dat d guy is takng d lady away cos she is nt down wit hm no mater hw she pretends.if a lady dnt lv a guy in hs present state wat wil hapn if she ends up in a marage nd conditons change.

who told u a woman's love never dies? Love, when it is not nurtured, will simply fade into thin air. If u dnt treat ur woman right, dnt expect her to keep loving u. Frm the op's story, i will not judge her coz we havent heard her own side of the story.

Tell ur friend to forget about the girl and move on. Such is life. No hard feelings..

It is simple, the guy should leave her

This is what happens when pple jump from one church to the other
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They will definately find what they are looking for

Ow can he be afraid of losing wat he has already lost? Obviously, d girl isnt 4 him.good riddance if u ask me....

He should move on, d ryt girl ll come along

Another tale by the op.
Anyways your friend is a lucky man, he just dodged a bullet.

She wasn't for you then, move on..a lot of ladies out there just throw your net..that's if you are attractive or wealthy.

CAMEROONPRIDE: She wasn't for you then, move on..a lot of ladies out there just throw your net..that's if you are attractive or wealthy.

True but that does not mean he should not show his anger

Mynd_44:
True but that does not mean he should not show his anger

what is the point of expressing his anger? Will his angry state bring her back or cause health problems for the op? There is no need to cry over spilled milk. Let him move on with life and act like such didnt happen...

uboma:

what is the point of expressing his anger? Will his angry state bring her back or cause health problems for the op? There is no need to cry over spilled milk. Let him move on with life and act like such didnt happen...

People have different ways of healing

@OP

ur friend date the girl for 2 yrs and no marry am
U think say d girl na mumu?

She don realise say ur friend never grow reach to dey do man work

Have learnt my lesson hard way too bro,when love turns sour,never go hunting for it,you loose more,just back out,the girl is GONE,as in G-O-N-E. Let your friend hustle hard,and make it,ladies would swoop over him.

Money,power,and respect.