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How Best Can You Explain This? by freecocoa(f): 10:54am On Aug 27, 2012 |
"I think its a mistake to have asked you out but that doesn't mean i love you any less" Now you are having a conversation with your partner on how you think the relationship is boring and he just blurts out the above lines after taking a long look at you. Ladies, how will you react to that?will you pick offense and feel insulted?heck will you call it quits? Guys, if you were to be the one that said that to your girl, how best can you explain what that means?does it mean you are tired of the relationship? Discuss |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by slimyem: 11:00am On Aug 27, 2012 |
maybe he was trying to say you both would have been better as friends... If it were me.i would press him into breaking the statement futher down and the interpretation would help my decision... |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by ndividual: 11:11am On Aug 27, 2012 |
@OP, Words have failed me this day!! I'm afraid i'm just as confused. You can't make that kind of mistake BEFORE, so it must be AFTER. My gut? Damn. Just damn. WTF? slimyem: maybe he was trying to say you both would have been better as friends... I honestly never thought of that. maybe because I have no idea why I didn't choose a way less cryptic way of saying it. What was he thinking?! Obviously 'mistake' means if he could rewind time he would have done things differently. |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by lolaluv1(f): 11:15am On Aug 27, 2012 |
Coco I'd go with Yemi's suggestion. He should break it down further. But you'd have to be watchful though, cause in breaking it down, he will try coating his words to pacify you. But it was the truth he blurted out the first time. And whatever he says next, keep that TRUTH at the back of your mind! |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by freecocoa(f): 11:24am On Aug 27, 2012 |
Lol @ individual , e reach to leave someone speechless my dear. Slimyam & lollipop, i see una. |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Nobody: 11:34am On Aug 27, 2012 |
He probably meant you are not good enough for him to 'ask u out' but you are nontheless, useable for 'other things'-if you know what i mean. #Whispering 'kele kele love' as i shut down my computer# |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Nobody: 11:41am On Aug 27, 2012 |
Haba cocoa, can't you read the handwriting on the wall? You said it yourself; the relationship is getting boring, meaning that 'spark', that love between you too is dying down! And trust me when relationships start to get boring, it's either the man or the lady in question has his eyes and attention fixed elsewhere. And in your case, you partner is already cheating or is definitely walking along that path. It's as easy as that my dear. |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Bab3: 11:46am On Aug 27, 2012 |
hmm,how old is dis relationship? I think he is confuse. Dis is where d babe should say " i think we need a break, to decide want we really want" |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Nobody: 11:48am On Aug 27, 2012 |
It means that he considers you a nice person. But he doubts if you guys are compatible. |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Idowuogbo(f): 11:53am On Aug 27, 2012 |
Hahahaha! See something eeee... Emmh... My dear cococlario! Press for more. |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by bknight: 11:53am On Aug 27, 2012 |
I can't say a thing lyk dat except as a prelude to a break up. After such utterance, d centre will no longer hold. Things will fall apart, surely. Even in a break up situation, I doubt I'd say a thing lyk dat |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by DukeNija(m): 11:54am On Aug 27, 2012 |
All these small small children of nowadays using love anyhow. What do they even know about Love |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by ikekings(m): 12:12pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
Duke_Nija: All these small small children of nowadays using love anyhow. What do they even know about LoveAll these grandpa of nowadays wetin una dey come nairaland to do? Especially romance section.....Mtschewwwww...... |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by ikekings(m): 12:14pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
@op if i were to make that statement, that means am tired of the relationship.... Shekina... |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by freecocoa(f): 12:23pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
Make una calm down o,everything one writes on NL doesn't mean it resolves around the person's personal life o, joor o. |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Meeky(m): 12:28pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
blogger1.0:well said bro.it cudnt have bin said better |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Meeky(m): 12:33pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
freecocoa: Make una calm down o,everything one writes on NL doesn't mean it resolves around the person's personal life o, joor o.dat means u dey test our intelligence or u dey hold us on job abi? |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by freecocoa(f): 12:36pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
^Bros mellow o, the land is green ni o |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Xionez(m): 1:14pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
freecocoa: "I think its a mistake to have asked you out but that doesn't mean i love you any less" All this people wey go jus dey speak in parables, I dey fear them. They fit just sell you and you wouldn't even know. freecocoa: Guys, if you were to be the one that said that to your girl, how best can you explain what that means?does it mean you are tired of the relationship? Discuss IMO, he means that date didn't turn out as he expected it should be but that doesn't affect his love for you. He MAY give another try. The way he put it shows he is likely to make a come back since he may have noticed that the time, location and your mood on that day didn't fit well. But that's just English. In reality, I think bknight is right. It may be the 'Opening ceremony' to a breakup. Just poking the walls to see if the roof will cave in. Funny how we are all gathered to access a statement made by an individual. Reminds me of this pic.
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Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by ayobase(m): 4:14pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
ndividual: @OP, Words have failed me this day!! U answere it perfectly! . Dont know why slimy is still waiting for explanation.....maybe she is BLINDLY in LOVE! . See an open embarrassment o.....the power of ''if'' |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by ayobase(m): 4:17pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
ikekings: All these grandpa of nowadays wetin una dey come nairaland to do? Especially romance section.....Mtschewwwww...... Ose! Ori e wa n mbe! |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by MMM2(m): 4:28pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
Freecocoa are u still single |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by ikekings(m): 5:15pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
ayobase:English please..... Thanks... |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by skydeep(f): 5:19pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
Maybe she is a friend with benefit |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:12pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
ikekings: English please..... Thanks...Cool down... D bros dey hail u na! 1 Like |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by ikekings(m): 7:16pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:Lol.... Na knw i knw nw... Thanks to you...##cheers.. |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by IZUKWU(m): 7:44pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
freecocoa: "I think its a mistake to have asked you out but that doesn't mean i love you any less"IMO , it Means that even though he has grown to love you and still do,that the r/ship is costing him and if he had known that it will be like this he would not have entered into the r/ship . In otherwords he was not ready/ prepared for the r/ship and its responsibility and now in,he does know how to stop without hurting you and hurting himself in the process. If he didn't love you ,he would have ended the r/ship . 1 Like |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
This girl knws hw to stir up confusion. The thing are just words jaw. It means what it means & it doesnt have any say on what happens in the reltationship, u people do. Any1 can jst say anything. |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by freecocoa(f): 8:21pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
^You don craze ni? Are you by any chance referring to me? |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Wi3ter(m): 8:23pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
freecocoa: "I think its a mistake to have asked you out but that doesn't mean i love you any less" Have you done the obvious and asked him what he meant ? Isn't the one who made the comment the best person to explain what it means ? |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:24pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
freecocoa: ^You don craze ni? Are you by any chance referring to me?Loool.... |
Re: How Best Can You Explain This? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Aug 27, 2012 |
freecocoa: ^You don craze ni? Are you by any chance referring to me? I wud ignore what u said... I ws only kiddin wit u. Perhaps u dint knw it ws a light joke. What matters most in relationships is motives & intentions. |
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