hello
just wanted to run this by you guys and hear your opinions
i have two friends who i actually introduced together and now they are dating
i will spare you the details, as that is not the real issue here.
just 2 days back the guy called me that the girl sent him a text saying "that they should take a break so she can sort things out"
i asked if there was any problem and he insisted that he didn't do anything wrong.
according to him a guy has been disturbing the girl on facebook for a while now, and when she told him about it,
he suggested that she deletes him from her friends list, but instead the girl turns round and tells him they should take a break.
but she insisted that he doesn't tell anybody and that includes me, but the guy told her he was going to let me know since i was instrumental to their coming together.
i couldn't say a word as her reaction beats me. i taught it wise not to interfere or say anything to her.
i advised he takes things easy and let issues play out if he knew he didn't do anything wrong.
then yesterday i received a call from her, and she was complaining how my friend was refusing to pick her calls, cos to say the truth
the guy was really hurt by her words.
so i acted like i didn't know anything and asked her what the problem was, of which she insisted there was nothing wrong, which was quite unlike her
i promised to talk to my friend, which i did via text message. obviously he listened to me and answered her,
only for the girl to stand him up, where they agreed to meet.
right now he has made up his mind to give her the break she needs, and if i know my friend very well that could as well be the end of the whole
relationship.
although they are not kids, they are both really new to this dating stuff.
the girl has had a really bad experience with her first boyfriend,
while the guy hasn't really dated in the right sense of the world. he didn't even date a girl all through our stay in the university

she is a good girl, and he is a great guy, and i know he really loves this girl.
i can't quite fathom why she would say she wants a break to sort things out when he obviously wasn't the cause of the problem
What the heck does "lets take a break mean" because seriously i have absolutely no idea, is it that she has watched too many soap operas and
now wants to practice what teenagers say when they are having a mood swing, or she just wants out.

i don't know if to interfere and sit them both down and talk this out,
cos i really think they both need talking to.
otherwise i see immaturity destroying what up till now has been a wonderful experience for both of them. (at least thats what they have been telling me)

or do i just sit and watch them make their own mistakes and allow fate to decide.
or probably just support my friends decision to let her be.
as for the girl i am not even gonna ask her any question until she is ready to tell me herself.
i don't really like interfering, but right now it looks like i might have to.

your thoughts are welcome
thanks.

It's means comma!
I'll say dats bera dan a fullstop

Idowuogbo: It's means comma!
I'll say dats bera dan a fullstop

comma ko exclamation mark ni


i asked for opinions not mockery

It means, I don tire. .
Abeg make I rest small

cindyrella: It means, I don tire. .
Abeg make I rest small

what if when she decides to begin the journey again, the guy now wants to take his own bathroom break

Kingsleyinfo:
what if when she decides to begin the journey again, the guy now wants to take his own bathroom break

Well,he is free. . . They can continue going on "break" until one of them decide to grows some ballz to call it quit!

Kingsleyinfo:
what if when she decides to begin the journey again, the guy now wants to take his own bathroom break

Den.... na dat time me go add hyphen join d fullstop
Nansense!!!

Op, I think u've to intervene,immaturity is killing them both. Ask her d reason why she sent dat message first,her responses wi guild u to settle d matter.

Idowuogbo:
Den.... na dat time me go add hyphen join d fullstop
Nansense!!!

its possible you just read the topic and started posting,
it would do you well to not always judge the book by the cover
read again.....

D sage: Op, I think u've to intervene,immaturity is killing them both. Ask her d reason why she sent dat message first,her responses wi guild u to settle d matter.

yeah am thinking that too,
but we are actually quite close, so i am trying to figure out why she didn't want me to know in the first place.
i just wanna help, not cause more problems in their relationship.
thanks

op,stop taking pain-reliever for someone else's headache!

slimyem: op,stop taking pain-reliever for someone else's headache!

is this an advice or an opinion, cos honestly i can't understand it's relevance to the topic

Kingsleyinfo:
is this an advice or an opinion, cos honestly i can't understand it's relevance to the topic

ok..
You wan make i open mouth talk everything...
..it simply means 'mind your own business'
let your friends sort out their issues themselves!

slimyem: ok..
You wan make i open mouth talk everything...
..it simply means 'mind your own business'
let your friends sort out their issues themselves!

Thank you ma, for talking everything