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What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by foxvilles: 2:33pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
I've been having this problem for quite some times now. I'm more of an Introvert kinda guy. No gf, not too many female friends either, mostly indoors except when going to class for lectures or church service. Sometimes, whenever I try to engage talking with a gurl, they start by being normally confident and all that but, within that very same minute, they won't be able to look straight into my eyes. I've experienced this several times on different occasions. Not that I'm handsome, I'm just an average guy (I think). There was a time, close to whre I stay in school, a nearby filling station, there's this lady who works in the filling station mall, she's very nice, sometimes she gives me her phone to help her fix some stuffs which I usually find out there's nothing wrong with the phone most of the time. All of a sudden one Saturday evening, when I went to buy few groceries, I greeted her and she greeted too but the greeting ended with 'pastor', I thought I didn't hear it clearly until she repeated it one more time with "what do you want to buy 'pastor'? I just acted like it's nothing but what bothered me was that, when I was talking with her, she couldn't look at me in the eye anymore unlike before. It has happened so many times. There was a time too when I went to a bank inside my school to do some transactions, when I entered, I saw people sitting down, most were female students though, I noticed some were staring, I wasn't having a pen with me so I had to go borrow a pen from one of them. Not long after, while I was busy writing, she tapped me and calmly said I'm going, then I immediately understood she was politely asking for her pen. That was when I discovered she was really beautiful, I smiled and try to be friendly, tho I'm very shy too but sometimes you just have to pocket shame before you let something precious slip away. I was still smiling and trying to be friendly and saying few funny things, her friend was laughing not far away, she just couldn't keep the direct eye contact and had to face somewhere else but smiling too, then I gave her back her pen and she left. Staring somewhere else actually made me feel somehow and till I went back home that day , I was just wondering why that happens everytime. I'm just furious, what could it mean when ladies try to avoid looking directly at you when having a conversation with them? |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by INTROVERT(f): 2:34pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
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Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by flexxyworld(m): 2:35pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
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Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by flexxyworld(m): 2:36pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
I wee tell you later.. Brb 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by braine(m): 2:36pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
it doesnt mean anything. |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by gab264(m): 2:42pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
She is probably not into you. Because if a girl is likely inlove wit you, she makes all the efforts just to look at your face. If in case she is shy she will just look at you and bend her head immediately. (Datz the power of being shy) If she doesn't look at all probably she is not dah into u. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by foxvilles: 2:42pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
This one that everyone is booking space, I need answers from thinker-heads not space bookers. |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by ikbnice(m): 2:42pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
they are just being polite. |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
either you've got chronic mouth odour or .... 12 Likes |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
if u ar an introverted guy, try to be humor with it. and also, do u really have feelings for girls that refuse to stare at you at face cos i dnt really grasp ur point here? 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by foxvilles: 2:45pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
gab264: They actually do feel normal in the first place and could talk without any ish, buh afterwards they still talk but won't be able to look directly. |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by hazukah: 2:46pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
It's either you have sexy eyes ,pity face or frightening facial properties。 3 Likes |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by foxvilles: 2:47pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Stevaz01: Lol.............God sef can testify my mouth doesn't ooze after brushing in the morning till night comes. |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by AfricanApple(f): 2:53pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
when I hate someone, I don't look them straight in the eyes 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by faith551(m): 2:54pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
I think it's because the eyes can transmit messages more than the tongue, what makes it more interesting is that the eye only pass across hidden messages in the heart, so it sells us out when left on its own. But brother I think you've not met a confident girl yet, maybe you just keep on meeting the timid type 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
It depends...some ppol are NOT into eye to eye contact while having convo & I'm one of em...it's juz like so awkward looking at d face of the person who's looking at me as well.. but it doesn't mean anything.. |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by rottennaija(m): 2:59pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
foxvilles: Sorry to ask, how old are u? |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by rottennaija(m): 3:02pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
AfricanApple:That's true, you are not even looking at the camara |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by Demmocrats(m): 3:06pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by ifex370(m): 3:07pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Stevaz01:madman |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by foxvilles: 3:26pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
rottennaija:What's age gotta do with what I'm talking about? Alright, I'm 20somthing.......so tell me why you asked 2 Likes |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
It really means nothing.... Sometimes we just get shy |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by pinkiberry(m): 3:36pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
it means she is shy. unless u av crossed eyes 4 Likes |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by trapQ: 3:43pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Usually when a girl likes you, she finds it difficult to look into your eyes. When a lady is too bold to you, she most definitely doesn't like you. 13 Likes |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by pearl360(f): 3:44pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Actually I'm guilty of that too, but mine happens when I like the person. I won't be able to keep eye contact with him I keep moving my eyes away. But when I'm not shy of the person I'm able to keep eye contact. 4 Likes |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by elantraceey(f): 3:46pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
trapQ: That's a very wrong philosophy which is not always the case. 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by pearl360(f): 3:51pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
elantraceey: I agree with you. Being too bold doesn’t mean a girl doesn't like the guy. |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by AfricanApple(f): 3:58pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
rottennaija:which one kon be camara |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by ijustdey: 4:08pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
she isn't into you....... hope you get that |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by czarr(m): 4:10pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
AfricanApple:wetin you de find for ground? |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by Hannysmilez(f): 4:12pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
The mall girl called you pastor? If you are one,it could be that the Holy Ghost Fire annointing in your eyes is just too much or maybe them girls are shy. 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean When Ladies Can't Look At A Guy Straight In The Eye? by foxvilles: 4:19pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Hannysmilez: Hmmmm.........when I'm still praying for Holy Ghost anointing to come upon me. This one is gidi gaan o 1 Like |
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