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Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Orikinla(m): 11:38am On Sep 08, 2012
It is no cheering news that having a Nigerian girlfriend or even Nigerian wife is no longer something to be proud of these days, except you simply close your eyes and do so for love. Because, Nigerian girls and women have so debased themselves in their desperation for fame and fortune that they have lost their respect.
Nigerian guys now generalize Nigerian girls and women as cheap whores.

The shameless acts of Nigerian girls and women are all over the internet and it can be really disheartening to see what they do to insult womanhood and motherhood.

Nigerian girls are the ones dancing half naked for fully clothed Nigerian guys in music videos.
Nigerian girls are the ones caught and stripped naked for stealing phones and even stealing underwear!
Nigerian girls and women are the ones sending their nude photographs to boys and men showing their private parts like goods being displayed for sale.
Nigerian girls are not ashamed to strip themselves naked while fighting over Nigerian guys.
Nigerian girls are not ashamed to go out without underwear.

You see a Nigerian girl using an expensive smart phone of about N80, 000, but her poor mother goes about in torn and worn wrapper selling fruits by the roadside to make ends meet for her poor family that often go to bed still hungry.
N80, 000 is enough to buy bags of rice and beans to feed their starving family for months.
But the shameless "big girl" would rather die than give up her expensive phone, because she needs it to impress her peers and again for her call girl business, pinging her customers and pimps all over Nigeria.

The X-Rated photos of What Desperate Nigerian Girls Do for Fame and Fortune cannot be posted here, but can be seen on http://kissesandroses..com/2012/09/what-desperate-nigerian-girls-do-for.html for ADULTS ONLY.

The shameless Nigerian girls did not even cover their faces!

Lest we forget these shameless Nigerian girls are the future wives and mothers of the children of the Nigerian men who would end up with them as their husbands and fathers of their innocent children.

Imagine being married to one of the girls in the rogue gallery of shameless Nigerian girls in the nude.
How would the husband walk tall with her at public functions and special occasions when copies of her sex tape or nude pictures are all over the internet?

Why should any reasonable girl allow any boyfriend or man-friend to take nude pictures of her that he would later post on the internet or share among his buddies like a buddy showed me the nude pictures of a pretty and sexy Nigerian girl he had just slept with and she actually posed with her legs spread wide apart for his camera phone!
Then she later returned to her "real" boyfriend.
And tomorrow she would be the Mrs of one man?

They would have fared better going nude for Playboy magazine or in porn movies than to be disgraced for their despicable acts of ignominy.

May God help us all.

Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by claremont(m): 11:44am On Sep 08, 2012
So what do you advise us to do?!
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by MrsChima1(f): 12:01pm On Sep 08, 2012
Like they say....behind every trifling woman....is a trifling man. grin grin grin grin grin lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Orikinla(m): 12:10pm On Sep 08, 2012
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claremont: So what do you advise us to do?!

Nigerian men must stop patronizing them.[/size]
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Acidosis(m): 12:13pm On Sep 08, 2012
This is the best piece I've read in ages..

The causes of the aforementioned include;

Unwarranted fun, pride of life and ego inflicted poverty.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by holyvirgin: 12:30pm On Sep 08, 2012
@op...calm down, nt al naija women dey bad, u may b surprised that ur sister follow 4 d naked girls. Just advice them.... They ar signs of end time
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by MrsChima1(f): 12:36pm On Sep 08, 2012
Orikinla: [size=28pt]

Nigerian men must stop patronizing them.[/size]

Who else would Nigerian men patronize in Nigeria Most foreign women in Nigeria are with their Nigerian partner....so you want Nigerian men to patronize Nigerian men lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by AtheistD(m): 12:56pm On Sep 08, 2012
The girls stripped naked for stealing a BB is a joke. It is why I can never respect this country. Ok, so they were thieves and stole BBs. Were they armed? Did they defraud people? At most a suspended sentence and a warning or a light jail term. Why strip them naked?

Right now a group of oil marketers who stole billions from the country have been given the permission to go on Hajj just because they bear powerful names. No one seems to be slagging them off. Their crime is far greater.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by ArQueBusieR(m): 1:13pm On Sep 08, 2012
I thank God for my family. I'm really blessed. Darn! I thank God for the society that raised me. Many Nigerians have lost their pundonor.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by claremont(m): 1:14pm On Sep 08, 2012
Orikinla:

Nigerian men must stop patronizing them.

Who should we patronize then, foreign ladies?! Surely, that's not possible for a Nigerian male living in Nigeria.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Rocktation(f): 1:17pm On Sep 08, 2012
No jail term can be light enough, in the Nigerian prisons abeg. undecided
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by AtheistD(m): 1:21pm On Sep 08, 2012
Rocktation: No jail term can be light enough, in the Nigerian prisons abeg. undecided

For stealing a BB? Then maybe community service. They can help clean the streets etc. Surely stripping them naked and taking pics is not the answer. Also, people who commit worse crimes are getting away with it just because they are powerful, why pick on these girls alone. I would like to see Honourable Farouk Lawan stripped naked and pics sent to all the newspapers for indiscretions.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Rocktation(f): 1:35pm On Sep 08, 2012
I doubt that stripping off their clothes was done by the right authorities. I was thinking it's a punishment metted out by the angry owners. If the case is the former, then...hmmnnn.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by AtheistD(m): 1:39pm On Sep 08, 2012
^^^

This is so not right. If someone stole my BB phone, car, eanything. I would never strip them. I would prefer to hand them over to the authorities. This jungle justice is ridiculous.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Rocktation(f): 1:50pm On Sep 08, 2012
Of cos, do I even have the strength to strip anyone off their clothes? Hmmn, this world is just funny in a weird sort of way.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by AtheistD(m): 1:52pm On Sep 08, 2012
^^^

The worst thing is that nothing will be done to the girls after that. Is the act of stripping enough to discourage future acts of criminality? I do not believe so.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by vislabraye(m): 2:17pm On Sep 08, 2012
@poster. Complaining about Nigerian girls. What would you say about other countries like Liberia,Ghana and even the Westerners. Evil is everywhere my brother. E be like say you no go marry.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by MrsChima1(f): 2:37pm On Sep 08, 2012
Let me get this right....because a chick takes off her clothes...it justifies a man acting like a nigga

It is her body...what does it have to do with you
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by drnoel: 2:39pm On Sep 08, 2012
Orikinla:

Nigerian men must stop patronizing them.


beside what do they do that is not done inother countries
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by honeric01(m): 2:52pm On Sep 08, 2012
Women in general are becoming less of a "brain box" and more of a "bimbo". A woman who seek knowledge and is always around educative stuffs won't be seen doing this kind of things but when you're empty and brain dead, you resort to using your body as a center of attraction.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by MrsChima1(f): 2:55pm On Sep 08, 2012
drnoel:

beside what do they do that is not done inother countries

I guess what he saying is although women in other countries do it as well but Nigerian women are pros at it.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by 49cents(m): 4:01pm On Sep 08, 2012
@OP but are the guys any better?
ignorance is the biggest problem with both guys and girls, just that the males feel they are more justified to misbehave then our ladies.
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by vivianc(f): 6:43pm On Sep 08, 2012
Why do people keep complaining about Nigerian ladies when their foreign counterparts are even worst? Nigerian women are the stRongest women ever! If u doubt it come down to Nigeria and stay for a month....you will know the difference between 6 and half a dozen!
I'm proudly Nigerian, if that ain't good for anybody then the ocean is not far from u, take a dive!
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by vivianc(f): 7:20pm On Sep 08, 2012
Well, guys don't disrespect or bluff me in real life. When I talk they listen! Nigerian lady or not the respect you command is a function of how u caRry urself! Treat urself like an object people will play with u. So its not peculiar to Nigerian girls alone!
I have seen girls from other parts of the world and they are not better, just that Nigerian people blow things out of proportion! No spirit of oneness!
Things that happen in Nigerian are nothing compared to the ones that happen in US, UK, other African countries, Carribeans etc.....
What's that lady that gave a one time US president a Mouth Action? Is she Nigerian? People should suck it up joor! Thank God for the current research that is going on (tho US is the case study), the wind will soon blow and the fowl's butt will be seen!
Like I always say, if a Nigerian lady ain't good enough for u, Chinese ladies might be better!
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Nobody: 7:56pm On Sep 08, 2012
So sad, so sad...it hurts me too, even my friends and every man I see, including those patronizing them, they still snare at them but they refuse to learn, to wake up. Students from poor homes using exorbitant handsets, wearing exorbitant hairs, nails, wears, jewelry while their parents wallow in abject poverty, seriously we have lost it all. men now walk up to the altar angry, cos they married out of no choice- to please the family, society and all, not just cos of the passion to be with someone so special and rare. smh...lord pls have mercy...have mercy. I keep blaming NOLLYWOOD, Musical Videos that our censoring agency refused to control, which misled majority of our youths, so bad. something urgently needs to be done about NOLLYWOOD, music videos, social network sites, etc, cos these things have done more harm than good to Nigerians, especially the females cos females copy faster than males, females feel more peer-pressure than males, hence their quest to live a life similar to the one they saw a particular actress or singer, etc live, hence their desperate quest to be like their friends, whom they know nothing about their income source. Everywhere I go, all men are crying and singing this same song, and no wonder more and more married men in Nigeria are becoming more unfaithful, cos the single girls, especially the ones in higher institutions have made it so easy and cheap for men to cheat so long as they can afford to give them money, gosh, God save me and my unborn children from this immoral generation pls. the best piece so far on nland romance section, thought-provoking. sighs

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by dontador(m): 8:16pm On Sep 08, 2012
It seems like the guys typing this trash about nigerian girls are born and breed in the village.... All i will have to say to all these guys typing trash about nigerian girls should just for once travel out of this country and see wot other foreign countries girls are doing.... The only awkward thing i noticed about nigeria girls is that they are too materialistic... All other things are less compared to the foreign countries i have been to.... If i am to get married tomorrow my only choice will be a nigerian girl cos they are more homely and well trained (for those i have seen) more than most of the foreign countries.... So, to me i prefer nigerian girls... ##God bless nigerian girls (the good ones ooo)...
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by vivianc(f): 8:42pm On Sep 08, 2012
dontador: It seems like the guys typing this trash about nigerian girls are born and breed in the village.... All i will have to say to all these guys typing trash about nigerian girls should just for once travel out of this country and see wot other foreign countries girls are doing.... The only awkward thing i noticed about nigeria girls is that they are too materialistic... All other things are less compared to the foreign countries i have been to.... If i am to get married tomorrow my only choice will be a nigerian girl cos they are more homely and well trained (for those i have seen) more than most of the foreign countries.... So, to me i prefer nigerian girls... ##God bless nigerian girls (the good ones ooo)...

Thank you brother! Pls help me tell them ooooo
Guys from otheR countries appreciate NigeRian ladies! My former Korean boss adoRes Nigerian giRls.....he used to tell me how betteR they are compared to Korean ladies!
I have a fRiend who is a PA (personal assistant)to one time NigeRian governoR who imports foreign giRl. FoR the governor! Most of my fRiends in Canada don't complain about Nigerian giRls cos they are nothing compared to caRribean giRl! Then talk of ghana, south afRica, zimbabwe, malawi, mozambique, cameRoon, ivory coast etc. Then are we talking about the US where eveRything oRiginated fRom?
I head someone talking about nollywood? What about ghollywood and hollywood? Nollywood is the most decent movie industRy in the whole woRld! In hollywood A list super staRs act nude yet they aRe still Respected! Talk of ShaRon stone (Basic instinct), these AA women that staRed BRown sugar and how stella got her grove back. Then are we talking about their music industry where the likes of J.lo, Beyonce etc shoot musical videos almost nude? The list is endless...,..
Abeg make we heaR woRd jooR..... I only blame some of ouR giRls who allow these bullies to tear them apart to boast their egos! After all it takes a con to know a con!
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Nobody: 10:59pm On Sep 08, 2012
We are Nigerians, our women used to be so reserved with pride. Men used to honor our women because our women used to be so wise and reserved morally, traditionally, etc. Comparing ourselves with any other nation is a mistake that is leading us to more harm. Americans and Europeans brought all these immoralities, agreed, and we are pure Africans and we disgust that lifestyle cos we respect our culture and value our tradition and reserved way of life. If anyone is comparing Nigeria with any other country, the person is absolutely getting wrong. What the person ought to do is to compare Nigeria of today to Nigeria of yesterday. If anyone denies the negative effects of NOLLYWOOD and our today musical videos on the immoral lifestyles of our today youths, then the person is not being honest and real to himself. Nigerian females learned to be materialistic which is the root-cause of their rampant immorality to get money and material things, from NOLLYWOOD. Check how most girls of today dress, its just a replica of some half dressed girls they saw in one naughty music video or one NOLLYWOOD movie. students now hardly buy textbooks and educating books, instead they spend their pocket monies on high-fly magazines where they can copy celebrity dressings and attires when they are not even graduates but ordinary students living under parental care. if you doubt the negative effect of NOLLYWOOD and today musical videos and social networking sites, just try from now and observe how young girls n guys of today speak, dress and behave if it is different from what they watch on the aforementioned places. I don't need to talk much anyway, we all know the truth if we are honest to ourselves. All these technologies- NOLLYWOOD films, musical videos, social network sites n BBM have greatly affected Nigerian youths negatively, especially the females. And it is also affecting relationships and marriages because u can hardly find a purely faithful relationship or marriage in Nigeria, when a girl or guy in a relationship or marriage will be busy discussing immorally with people online via the aforementioned mediums, and most even go as far as having multiple partners online, why? this is a truth everyone knows and the earlier we Nigerians start telling ourselves the truth, the better for all of us. I keep begging God to please save me and my innocent unborn children from the hands of evil women trying to consume our dear nation!
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Nobody: 11:07pm On Sep 08, 2012
well to be frank i honor some Nigerian Women but its really getting hard, and worst part is when i meet a girl i'm always casual in my approach and the statement they utter just shows how cheap and low they must think i am; to participate in their games. sometimes i worry a lot for my cousins and female relatives because i have one who is really exposed at 16, and she practically talks to me (26) like we are on the same level. if i ever have daughters am not sure how i am going to cope.

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Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by dontador(m): 12:18am On Sep 09, 2012
@dailynews you made a good point about the difference between nigeria of today and nigeria of yesterday... But, take a good look at how the op addressed nigerian girls as if they are the worst girls on planet... For those guys talking about hw nigerian girls send nude pics for money (i call it swag.. At least they get returns for their nudity)... You guys ain't see shit... I once stayed at russia for 3yrs... Damn!!! Come and see girls acting nude live on their web cam without seeing the face of whom they are chatting with, girls looking for who to hook up with for sex and its all free, girls getting hor.ny every second..... Mehn!!!! Some of you guys need to leave this country and see what is happening then come back and testify to what you have seen and noticed.... Only in nigeria have i seen how humble and loyal the girls are to the men..... All i can say is that nigerian girls are 90% better than the girls of most foreign countries.... Also, to the guys whenever you meet a good and decent nigerian girl hold onto her, never let go cos who never can tell the type you might meet tomorrow when you dump her or on the course of being a player you will lose your soul mate, and then come back here talking trash about nigerian girls (I call those guys he-goat, in igbo they are called ”MKPI“).....##To my future nigerian wife keep waiting for me cos once i get there, the sky will be your starting point##... Grazie...
Re: Why Nigerian Guys Now Bluff And Disrespect Nigerian Girlfriends by Nobody: 7:13am On Sep 09, 2012
dontador: @dailynews you made a good point about the difference between nigeria of today and nigeria of yesterday... But, take a good look at how the op addressed nigerian girls as if they are the worst girls on planet... For those guys talking about hw nigerian girls send nude pics for money (i call it swag.. At least they get returns for their nudity)... You guys ain't see shit... I once stayed at russia for 3yrs... Damn!!! Come and see girls acting nude live on their web cam without seeing the face of whom they are chatting with, girls looking for who to hook up with for sex and its all free, girls getting hor.ny every second..... Mehn!!!! Some of you guys need to leave this country and see what is happening then come back and testify to what you have seen and noticed.... Only in nigeria have i seen how humble and loyal the girls are to the men..... All i can say is that nigerian girls are 90% better than the girls of most foreign countries.... Also, to the guys whenever you meet a good and decent nigerian girl hold onto her, never let go cos who never can tell the type you might meet tomorrow when you dump her or on the course of being a player you will lose your soul mate, and then come back here talking trash about nigerian girls (I call those guys he-goat, in igbo they are called ”MKPI“).....##To my future nigerian wife keep waiting for me cos once i get there, the sky will be your starting point##... Grazie...

You are so right my brother, but we cannot compare our women with foreign women, and thats why we are different. What I beleive Nigerian guys are complaining is this- why is our women now trying to be like foreign women we disgust their wayward lifestyles? why is our women copying so much of western life to their detriment? do you know that 99% of crimes committed by Nigerian guys are because of women, how? guys are desperate today to make fast money to please girls, cos girls have now made them understand that money is they care about, hence the Nigerian guys resort to doing virtually anything both morally right and those considered evil just to acquire money to please their women. so to say, men are gradually getting to see that women are pushing them to the walls, u may ask how? remember in the Bible, where it was recorded of how the first woman, Eve pushed Adam a loyal and righteous man to disrespect his God just to please his woman, Eve. same thing happened king Herold and Jezebel. Or have you forgotten how John the baptist was murdered? just because a woman request that she wants the head of John the baptist and the king did it just to please the woman. so my brother, women control the world, God gave them that power, and the Nigerian women are the ones directing Nigeria to wherever it is going today, see James Ibori former Delta state governor, all his looting was just to please one lover. In a summary, if Nigerian women turn from their present fun-seeking and materialistic lifestyles which they are wrongly copying from the western world via movies, musical videos, etc, Nigeria will become good again, but I doubt if it will ever stop again. Happy sunday man!

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