Mynd_44:
It is simple, if a girl does not meet up to your standards of what should be in a relationship, talk to her about it. If she does not hanger, dump her and find one that meets your taste and stop ranting

Its not simple and u know it.

@ OP please save your breathe and time for other things, imagine, I expected the ladies to do the attacks here but it's the other way round the ''she-men'' are attacking and defending them. Going by the previous posts by some guys here I dare say the ladies are right in naming some guys mugu.

frank3.16:


Its not simple and u know it.

It is as simple as that to me. If you have somethings to share, donta let me keep you

@op, that is the norm, except you find a girl who truly loves you and is not selfish, then she'll spend on you happily while demanding less from you. Just don't let any girl take you for a f00l if she's too demanding without being considerate, then just free any such girl

Mynd_44: A lot of guys on NL are broke

true talk bro! We have lots of broke a$$ niggas in the house claiming to be big boys! They can't even spend for their woman.awon alaroro!

jhydebaba:
Some girls actually spend for guys heavily. Look before you choose next time.

Look b4 i do what??... Choose from a naija gal?... I rather nyash ashana til i quech！

Moral of this thread is that Ladies should be considerate when demanding and also try as much as possible to be independent. For the guys, is not a do or die affair, if you can afford to assist your girlfriend financially, then no big deal but if you are not in the capacity to do that, simply tell her you don't have and if she sincerely loves you, she will stay with you no matter the storm.

Not all girls are demanding and that is for sure because my chick is not hence the reason why I used her as a reference. Their is no law that says a woman can't help her man! In my own case, I take care of my woman when I can, and when am not financially ok, she helps me.

Stop dating beautiful broke girls. Get an average looking girl with some cash ...

Start by changing where u hang out.

@ UncleJJ thanks it is noted

Guys dont have to be the one spending but please broke men save your whining and complaining.

because it's a man's world, you owe you spend

Mrs.Chima:
Guys dont have to be the one spending but please broke men save your whining and complaining.

True

OP has a point though, cos "most' girls i have met are the demanding type, (it boils down to the beautiful and broke ones )

@OP the answer is simple you know, tell them you don't have the MAGA money (as you termed it)... Na the surest way to test the love you and your babe get, i bet you don't want to tamper your unlimited access to the "Reverred moist cave"