Is it possible for a girl to know that her man aint proud of her I mean without the man actually saying it. I once dated an ugly gal, and i swear i couldnt hold her hand while we went for a walk or date and i always had to lie to maself that people would think she is a colleague and we are just taking care of business.
I doubt if she noticed i was not proud of her IN PUBLIC cos i tried to cover-up as much as possible!!!

If you are not proud of your girl, why ask her out in the first place. A lot of times, we are the biggest cause of our problems as we tend to think that we can over-look a quality in a spouse with is very important to us.
And BTW, beauty is subjective

Yeye boy, mumu girl

FlowerPower: Yeye boy, mumu girl

how can you blame the girl in this case?

playah P: Is it possible for a girl to know that her man aint proud of her I mean without the man actually saying it. I once dated an ugly gal, and i swear i couldnt hold her hand while we went for a walk or date and i always had to lie to maself that people would think she is a colleague and we are just taking care of business.
I doubt if she noticed i was not proud of her IN PUBLIC cos i tried to cover-up as much as possible!!!

What's wrong in being ugly?

Mynd_44:
how can you blame the girl in this case?

When a person is ashamed of you, their actions are OBVIOUS. She is aware of his behavior, and continues to let him treat her like street dust. Both of them are at fault.

From what the guy typed/said, he refused to hold her hand and that might just mean he does not like PDA to her. Perhaps he makes up for it behind closed doors

FlowerPower: When a person is ashamed of you, their actions are OBVIOUS. She is aware of his behavior, and continues to let him treat her like street dust. Both of them are at fault.

Obvious? Or ur assumptions? Are u d gal?

Idowuogbo:
Obvious? Or ur assumptions? Are u d gal?

You dey mind am?

Idowuogbo:
Obvious? Or ur assumptions? Are u d gal?

Tory don wowo... As a matter of fact, I've never had a man be ashamed to be seen with me . However, I once dated an ugly guy, but it never bothered me. It was his character (and generosity) that I admired.

FlowerPower: Tory don wowo... As a matter of fact, I've never had a man be ashamed to be seen with me . However, I once dated an ugly guy, but it never bothered me. It was his character (and generosity) that I admired.

Ur reply shares zero correlation wiv my question.

Not her fault nah. Her English teachers failed her

sexkillz: An ugly girl was sitting alone. You noticed she was ugly from afar, yet you approached her. You got closer to her, she was ugly, yet you spoke to her, you asked her out, she accepted.

You even went on dates. But you couldn't hold her hands, or show that you cared. You were ashamed of a girl whom you approached willingly. You were not proud of her. Now, as dumb as you are, you are asking if she would notice if you are not proud of her? Of course she will notice. But that is not the problem. . .

The problem is that you have a problem. You are discombobulated. And until you sort yourself out, no one can help you. All your problems would have been avoided if you had used common sense to know that it is very unfair to toy with anyone's emotion, whether ugly or pretty, but then again, common sense is not so common. . .

Yes. It is possible for her to know you ain't proud of her. . .

Well Said!!

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By their user name, we shall know them...... Op's user name has said it all. People like him go for anything on skirt......... Cover a stick with a skirt, he will go for it.

Sijo01: By their user name, we shall know them...... Op's user name has said it all. People like him go for anything on skirt......... Cover a stick with a skirt, he will go for it.

lol

You are well in the know of how ugly she is and yet you went ahead to ask her out. now you are here talking nonsense! What you are doing to her is so unfair, if you really are not proud of her, why not let her be? Between their are lots of guys out there who will be willing to treat her right! Be a man and let her go rather than given her false hope.

I agree with Soji, the OP is a skirt chaser

Pls yall shld take a chill pill!! This happened when I was 18-19... I was quite young then and yesterday I was thinking bout the whole thing!!! I really wish she didn't notice then!! But oh well!!

sexkillz: An ugly girl was sitting alone. You noticed she was ugly from afar, yet you approached her. You got closer to her, she was ugly, yet you spoke to her, you asked her out, she accepted.

You even went on dates. But you couldn't hold her hands, or show that you cared. You were ashamed of a girl whom you approached willingly. You were not proud of her. Now, as dumb as you are, you are asking if she would notice that you were not proud of her? Of course she will notice. But that is not the problem. . .

The problem is that you have a problem. You are discombobulated, complicatedly discombobulated. And until you sort yourself out, no one can help you. All your problems would have been avoided if you had used common sense to know that it is very unfair to toy with anyone's emotion, whether ugly or pretty, but then again, common sense is not so common. . .

Yes. It is possible for her to know you ain't proud of her. . .

Chei Killz, you dey harsh o!

playah P: Pls yall shld take a chill pill!! This happened when I was 18-19... I was quite young then and yesterday I was thinking bout the whole thing!!! I really wish she didn't notice then!! But oh well!!

Sharrap!!! It's obvious you are 18-19yrs at the moment.

i see alot of hypocrites here!!
First of all im not a fan of PDA(public display of affection).... all my guy friends (and some female) yabbed the shit outta me when the saw me with the girl!! since then, i kept her on a low key!! passionate love in the bedroom; perfect strangers outside the bedroom. As a guy, if you never had that sorta experience whilst growing up then u really missed!!

D-Explorer:

Sharrap!!! It's obvious you are 18-19yrs at the moment.

I really wish i was that young!! i dont mind being the next wizkid!! IYEAA YEAA YEAAAA!!! oooh naah nooo noooooooo

playah P: i see alot of hypocrites here!!
First of all im not a fan of PDA(public display of affection).... all my guy friends (and some female) yabbed the shit outta me when the saw me with the girl!! since then, i kept her on a low key!! passionate love in the bedroom; perfect strangers outside the bedroom. As a guy, if you never had that sorta experience whilst growing up then u really missed!!

This poo just screams that you are a kid and nothing else