I think I may be falling for my best female friend. We've been friends for over 15 years now and just recently I have started to like her more and more but I have no idea if she likes me more than a friend.


The whole story started back in 1995 when she was celebrating her 4th year b/day. Me and my aunt were both returning from a christmas service when she saw an old friend and they decided to have a little chat. Looking to my left, i saw that they were having a birthday party and so i decided to peep. Few minutes later, they organised a dancing competition and i opted in uninvited. Luckily for me i won and emerging as a winner i have d privilege to sit beside d celebrant, take pics with her and cut the cake 2geda. So that was how we met and my aunt had no choice than to sit like a guest. unknowingly, we were both attending the same primary sch, and since then we've been friends till now.


She's amazing. When we first started hanging out I had a bit of a crush on her but what i feel now is more than just a crush, am in love with her and i dont know what to do. She'll turn 21 this december and its gonna be a grand one but i dont wanna wait till then so that its not gonna be a sorry case. I want to tell her but I'm too afraid, any ideas on how I can tell her that I like her without freaking her out and changing our friendship forever? Pls Help!!! Cos am feeling like a busted bubble already

Am in love with my bestfriend

Dont just dismiss your feelings for your friend. Some of the best relationships are rooted in friendship. If she truely is a friend then she will understand, she won't laugh in your face or make fun of you,there is no way she would let go of your friendship over something like this. So I say go for it! Really when you break it all down, you know you have nothing to lose, but everything to gain. Don't be afraid to overstep the friend barrier and say something...that is the only way you will ever know!...I wish you all the luck in the world

In the most perfect relationship between a man and a woman, the pair are best friends first, lovers second and companions for life.

R u shittin me? Jst get me ha info......i will jst do dat for ya, if u dnt mind homie

I'm hungry

k2039: Dont just dismiss your feelings for your friend. Some of the best relationships are rooted in friendship. If she truely is a friend then she will understand, she won't laugh in your face or make fun of you,there is no way she would let go of your friendship over something like this. So I say go for it! Really when you break it all down, you know you have nothing to lose, but everything to gain. Don't be afraid to overstep the friend barrier and say something...that is the only way you will ever know!...I wish you all the luck in the world

In the most perfect relationship between a man and a woman, the pair are best friends first, lovers second and companions for life.

i couldnt ve written it any better.

Kenistry: R u shittin me? Jst get me ha info......i will jst do dat for ya, if u dnt mind homie

i got mouth so dont worry man

190: I'm hungry

*yawns*
Me too
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k2039: Dont just dismiss your feelings for your friend. Some of the best relationships are rooted in friendship. If she truely is a
friend then she will understand, she won't laugh in your face or make fun of you,there is no way she would let go of your friendship over something like this. So I say go for it! Really when you break it all down, you know you have nothing to lose, but everything to gain. Don't be afraid to overstep the friend barrier and say something...that is the only way you will ever know!...I wish you all the luck in the world

In the most perfect relationship between a man and a woman, the pair are best friends first, lovers second and companions for life.

my thought exactly

21 huh? ....jst d ripe age ....in sync wit ur feelins discovery I guess.

I wonder why you are here telling us instead of telling the said girl