k2039: [size=13pt]Lodge her in a hotel
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jhydebaba: Did you think OP is that dull to think of that? The fact is that he can't afford it hence the 'sardine arrangement'

Mynd_44: I still think it is a bad idea

Mynd_44: Put her in an hotel

koseepaaro: Thank you for giving me your opinion on this. But how would you feel if I tell you that I`m not a hotel person? Personally, what I thought was that if I let her know my level that I was not born with a silver spoon in my mouth as I`ve been telling her since early stage of our relationship then it won`t make her to be having mixed feelings about me in one way or the other. I thought doing that to her would make her confirm what I have been telling her that I`m still a struggling man for now. Though, I`m not a lazy man as she has seen it herself (I`m a computer technician managing his own repair shop. But I`m yet to "eat it big" in the field).

Goldieluks: Try cutting your coat according to your size. Meaning, if you don't have a comfortable place for now, then don't invite your gf to spend the night at your brother's. Its not rocket science common. Get your own place, so you don't inconvinience your bro with your personal bags and bagagges.

kunlery911: @poster
dont mind does ppl joor dont bring her to hotel that doesn't sound good.if a girl love u she wouldnt even mind sleeping on the floor with u plus she knows u dont have ur own apartment yet plus she knows thats ur bro house so its not big deal trust me real girls like when a guy can come out just they way they her not trying to impress her by lodging her in a hotel dont sound good to me

jhydebaba: Did you think OP is that dull to think of that? The fact is that he can't afford it hence the 'sardine arrangement'

koseepaaro: Thank you, thank you very much indeed, all advice noted! But one more thing: what do you suggest I should do when I take her to a hotek just to sleep there overnight and she says I shouldn`t lodge her in any hotel that she will be comfortable sleeping in our house, even if she have to sleep on the mat, that she wouldn`t mind? The lady is the type that always tell me that I like to waste money each time I buy anything that is a little bit expensive for her that instead of me wasting my money on that thing that I should have given her the money that I used to buy that thing for her. Or I should have phoned her to tell her that I want to buy such a thing for her. Should I still tell her that she shouldn`t worry that she should let us go that I want comfort for her? What would you advise me to do at that point? To answer one of the questions that you guys are asking me, my brother was the one that told me to bring her down to his place to come and sleep overnight when I raised alarm to him that I don`t know where she would sleep because I`m quite sure that she can`t go back to their town on that same Saturday. And see, this lady didn`t tell me that she would like to meet both my mum and my siblings when she comes until yesteqday evening when a message enter into my phone and I opened up the message and read this meeting my mum and my siblings issue of a thing. But to be honest with you, house, I`ve got only 7k from which I planned to use in preparing food for her and give the remaining one to her as her fare (though her fare from their town to my place is just N1,600, making it roughly about N3,500 to and fro including fare on bike). That`s the plain truth, house! Now tell me, how can I achieve all these with the 7k that I have?

koseepaaro: Thank you, thank you very much indeed, all advice noted! But one more thing: what do you suggest I should do when I take her to a hotek just to sleep there overnight and she says I shouldn`t lodge her in any hotel that she will be comfortable sleeping in our house, even if she have to sleep on the mat, that she wouldn`t mind? The lady is the type that always tell me that I like to waste money each time I buy anything that is a little bit expensive for her that instead of me wasting my money on that thing that I should have given her the money that I used to buy that thing for her. Or I should have phoned her to tell her that I want to buy such a thing for her. Should I still tell her that she shouldn`t worry that she should let us go that I want comfort for her? What would you advise me to do at that point? To answer one of the questions that you guys are asking me, my brother was the one that told me to bring her down to his place to come and sleep overnight when I raised alarm to him that I don`t know where she would sleep because I`m quite sure that she can`t go back to their town on that same Saturday. And see, this lady didn`t tell me that she would like to meet both my mum and my siblings when she comes until yesteqday evening when a message enter into my phone and I opened up the message and read this meeting my mum and my siblings issue of a thing. But to be honest with you, house, I`ve got only 7k from which I planned to use in preparing food for her and give the remaining one to her as her fare (though her fare from their town to my place is just N1,600, making it roughly about N3,500 to and fro including fare on bike). That`s the plain truth, house! Now tell me, how can I achieve all these with the 7k that I have?

ijigbamigb:


Gud.
Immediately she lands. Don't pretend. Let her know u have 7k budgeted. Since she know u r very gud financially yet, she will understand. Give here 3500 immediately she arrives to cover her transport expenses. Get a hotel for 2k on saturday, organize dinner for her from you brother's house. Since she's going on sunday, she will check out by 12, then use to balance to give her a nice treat with fried rice with beef o (not chicken), salad and a drink. Barely 800. Naira.
Then u r OK