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Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by jhydebaba(m): 10:14am On Sep 28, 2012 |
koseepaaro: But to be honest with you, house, I`ve got only 7k from which I planned to use in preparing food for her and give the remaining one to her as her fare (though her fare from their town to my place is just N1,600, making it roughly about N3,500 to and fro including fare on bike). That`s the plain truth, house! Now tell me, how can I achieve all these with the 7k that I have?To run long distance relationship expensive oh! But what is the aim of relationship? No be to ease konji? Abeg, continue chatting with her on the phone while you enter one ashewo house ease ur konji (Thank God Its Friday). Atleast, u give ashewo #500 for short time or #2000 for day break, I no say make you do olosho because dat one na 3k to 5k and u go still need hotel accommodation. Be wise man until ground don level. 1 Like |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by koseepaaro(m): 12:34pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
Alright, once again, I say thank you all. I`ve made enquiry on the available hotels in my area and I was told by a friend to one of my brother friend of mine told me to come and meet him anytime tomorrow that he will take me to the hotel he do lodge in, that I can even get a room of N3,500 for N3,000 mean that he is a regular customer in that hotel. That two of us shall go together when I want to go and pay that he would tell the attendant that I`m his brother. So, I think that`s the update that I have for now. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by sunnshyn(f): 1:18pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
Eeyah! Its your sincerity I admire!! I hope she enjoys her stay when she eventually visits! Bless you bro! 1 Like |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by koseepaaro(m): 2:01pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
sunnshyn: Eeyah! Its your sincerity I admire!!Amen my sister |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Kx: 2:13pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
Why take her to a hotel when ur bros has agreed that u bring her home? For crying out loud, this girl wants to meet your family. There is no better time to assure her that you love her other than now. Except if you guys are merely seeing without any plans for d future. Let her come to ur brother's house. The sardine sleeping arrangement as funny as it sounds is just perfect especially since ur brother and his wife okayed it. If u must blast, u can do shortie in a nearby joint and pay shortime. 1 Like |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Networkmaster(m): 2:34pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
190-the-clown: Come on man, don't crack my ribs with laughter. I think you are right anyway, some Nigerian girls often put their men in a high jump. @op, i suggest he continue with his plan, seems the girl have no problem with that, or better talk over it with the girl before she arrived. I believe hotels are meant for such situations, if only you could consider it. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Mynd44: 5:10pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
Another thing I am concerned with here is ventilation. People breathing on each other has health issues oooooooo |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by boron10(m): 6:29pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
Waiting for mr Desh's comment, i always enjoying reading his comments however funny. No homo please |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by kpolli(m): 10:22pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
It depends on the kinda girl |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Goldieluks: 10:39pm On Sep 28, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Another thing I am concerned with here is ventilation. People breathing on each other has health issues oooooooo that's true oh, but its only one or two nights. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Mynd44: 4:34am On Sep 29, 2012 |
Lets hope they all come out of this healthy |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Nobody: 4:50am On Sep 29, 2012 |
See wetin poverty don cause! Chai! E ₪O go beta for u poverty! Lai lai! @op, †ЂΞ simple truth be say, u neva mature reach o. Maturity nor be only by age o. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Nobody: 6:21am On Sep 29, 2012 |
EVERYONE TO THEIR VIEWS ANYWAY SO I WONT SAY PEOPLE WERE WRONG WITH THEIR ADVICES. PERSONALLY THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG CHOICE IN THIS SITUATION. 1) YOUR BROTHER DOESNT MIND; YOU MAY EVEN OFFEND HIM IF YOU DONT STAY OR YOU MAY EVENTUALLY PPAINT THE GIRL BLACK TO HIM LIKE SHE IS PROUD. 2) YOU ARE NOT UP TO THE CAPACITY TO LODGE HER IN AN HOTEL SO DONT GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO IMPRESS A LADY WHO LOVES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE CONSIDERING THE FACT THAT YOU WOULD STILL HAVE TO PAY HER FARE. 3) I KNOW A LADY WHO LOVES YOU FOR REAL WOULD FIND IT MORE FUN AND SATISFYING TO STAY IN YOUR BROTHERS APARTMENT IN SUCH SITUATIONS. 4) YOUR SINCERITY WHICH OFCOURSE YOU ARE IS ONE OF THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE A WOMAN. BE REAL WITH HER. 5) YOUR IDEA IS NOT BAD ATALL AND YOU DIDNT NEED TO THINK TWICE ABOUT IT. GO AHEAD BRO. 6) LASTLY, NOT BAD TO PUT HER IN A HOTEL BUT ITS NOT LIKE ITS THE RIGHT THING TO DO, ITS ONLY ANOTHER OPTION. GOODLUCK. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by darmiex(f): 10:08am On Sep 29, 2012 |
please lodge her in a hotel jo, and if you are concerned about your family thinking you are doing each other,(because that your arrangement that she will sleep in the bedroom with his wife, bla bla bla makes me think you are trying to prove that you are not being intimate ) don't spend the night with her. please give her that respect, and trust me, if you eventually marry each other, your family would respect her later. your gal is just being modest by agreeing to that your arrangement, for chrissakes, she is meeting them for the first time. if you go to such lenghts for her, she would know that you are ready to sacrifce to make her happy and comfortable and love you the more for it. PS- if your family has no qualms about you spending the night with her in the hotel, then knock yourself out,just pack plenty condoms o, cos from your long tory, you never ready to procreate o |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by xtenxive(m): 3:25pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
Hmmmmmmm! see permutation and combination of extreme options. Here comes NAIRALAND . . . . . . . . .The Land of laughter Poster and Commentators, una don try |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by 2goodbobo(m): 3:53pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
Cut that crap about you not wanting to let her know you were not born with silver spoon! Even a poor man car afford Hotel. Hotel is the best option for you. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Mynd44: 4:49pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
Do you been know how your brother's wife will feel? I mean you will be disturbing their lives na |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by koseepaaro(m): 10:49pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
Alright! Thank you all for your contributions. But I`m happy to tell you that she phoned me early this morning to inform me that she wouldn`t be able to make it today that she was planning to stay in the town with me for a week but the key to their room (the room she jointly rented with a friend of hers) was with her friend because her friend is still sleeping there that her friend told her that she forgot to keep the key down for her. That she can come and meet her in another state she travelled to (and her friend will be staying there for a week before she comes back) to collect the key, as my girlfriend will like to stay there for that one week she wants to spend in the state with me and moreover, she would need to pick some things in the room when travelling back to her state. She then told me that she can`t travel to that state to collect the key from her friend because her cell phone was faulty that she always put her SIM card in someone`s cell phone (her neighbour). That she can`t be making phone calls from one business centre to another. Though, I was a little bit angry initially, but later reasoned with her. But we haven`t talked on the day she would then come later. I only told her that there is no problem that we shall talk later. And when she phoned me in the afternoon, we didn`t talk about her not coming of a thing at all. We just talked about another thing entirely and say "bye", then ended our conversation for the day. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Coefficient(m): 11:47pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
I sense a lot of sincerity and fondness towards your babe in your post. I'm happy for you and i do hope you guys would make it to the aisle together. I pray not for your breakup as that would have serious consequences on you. Good luck (without the Jonathan) to you. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Exponental(m): 6:44am On Sep 30, 2012 |
That ur arrangement shld come from ur brother or his wife. Respect urself.....plan a hotel! |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Nobody: 7:19am On Sep 30, 2012 |
°ºH boy sofree carry woman mata for Ūя̅ head o! because as i dey see u so, if dis babe leave u, Йą die u dey o. |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Mystiqme: 7:25am On Sep 30, 2012 |
koseepaaro: Alright! Thank you all for your contributions. But I`m happy to tell you that she phoned me early this morning to inform me that she wouldn`t be able to make it today that she was planning to stay in the town with me for a week but the key to their room (the room she jointly rented with a friend of hers) was with her friend because her friend is still sleeping there that her friend told her that she forgot to keep the key down for her. That she can come and meet her in another state she travelled to (and her friend will be staying there for a week before she comes back) to collect the key, as my girlfriend will like to stay there for that one week she wants to spend in the state with me and moreover, she would need to pick some things in the room when travelling back to her state. She then told me that she can`t travel to that state to collect the key from her friend because her cell phone was faulty that she always put her SIM card in someone`s cell phone (her neighbour). That she can`t be making phone calls from one business centre to another. Though, I was a little bit angry initially, but later reasoned with her. But we haven`t talked on the day she would then come later. I only told her that there is no problem that we shall talk later. And when she phoned me in the afternoon, we didn`t talk about her not coming of a thing at all. We just talked about another thing entirely and say "bye", then ended our conversation for the day.Hmmm..you seem like you love this chick. All the best for you guys o. The only thing be say your story long no be small. 1 Like |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by mozonto(m): 7:40am On Sep 30, 2012 |
may be u should go to tb joshua for money,i hear he is sharing one million naira each to the poor,so u cant get enof money to pay 4 ur gf a gud hotel and a nice treat afta such a long journey.abi o. Haba |
Re: I Honestly Need An Advice From The House On This by Nobody: 9:20pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
koseepaaro: This is Poverty speaking. Broke guys arent supposed to be dating. May God provide for your needs bro |
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