chucky234:
What is this one saying sef

Am saying or asking are you for real?

All has been well my dear, of atruth, the journey has been tough but god has been faithfull.

I relocated to another state to start all over again but honestly speaking, in a couple of weeks it ll be five years but i ve not yet strong, bold and confident to hit the dating scene yet .

I love my life and routine as it is presently though will not hesitate if the opportunity present itself to remarry.

My son is doing great as well.

To every one that rendered their advice, i say god bless you, to all that that chastise me, i thank you and to all that made a mockery of my issue, god is still god.

To a very special person that reached out to me financially on this faceless forum, i may not know u but god sure does. God bless u plenty.

Thank u all for the time and concern.

bukatyne:


Dear OP,

How did events go?

All has been well my dear, of atruth, the journey has been tough but god has been faithfull.

I relocated to another state to start all over again but honestly speaking, in a couple of weeks it ll be five years but i ve not yet strong, bold and confident to hit the dating scene yet .

I love my life and routine as it is presently though will not hesitate if the opportunity present itself to remarry.

My son is doing great as well.

To every one that rendered their advice, i say god bless you, to all that that chastise me, i thank you and to all that made a mockery of my issue, god is still god.

To a very special person that reached out to me financially on this faceless forum, i may not know u but god sure does. God bless u plenty.

Thank u all for the time and concern.

bukatyne:


Dear OP,

How did events go?

All has been well my dear, of atruth, the journey has been tough but god has been faithfull.

I relocated to another state to start all over again but honestly speaking, in a couple of weeks it ll be five years but i ve not yet strong, bold and confident to hit the dating scene yet .

I love my life and routine as it is presently though will not hesitate if the opportunity present itself to remarry.

My son is doing great as well.

To every one that rendered their advice, i say god bless you, to all that that chastise me, i thank you and to all that made a mockery of my issue, god is still god.

To a very special person that reached out to me financially on this faceless forum, i may not know u but god sure does. God bless u plenty.

Thank u all for the time and concern.

bukatyne:


Dear OP,

How did events go?

kemtol:
All has been well my dear, of atruth, the journey has been tough but god has been faithfull.

I relocated to another state to start all over again but honestly speaking, in a couple of weeks it ll be five years but i ve not yet strong, bold and confident to hit the dating scene yet .

I love my life and routine as it is presently though will not hesitate if the opportunity present itself to remarry.

My son is doing great as well.

To every one that rendered their advice, i say god bless you, to all that that chastise me, i thank you and to all that made a mockery of my issue, god is still god.

To a very special person that reached out to me financially on this faceless forum, i may not know u but god sure does. God bless u plenty.

Thank u all for the time and concern.All has been well my dear, of atruth, the journey has been tough but god has been faithfull.

I relocated to another state to start all over again but honestly speaking, in a couple of weeks it ll be five years but i ve not yet strong, bold and confident to hit the dating scene yet .

I love my life and routine as it is presently though will not hesitate if the opportunity present itself to remarry.

My son is doing great as well.

To every one that rendered their advice, i say god bless you, to all that that chastise me, i thank you and to all that made a mockery of my issue, god is still god.

To a very special person that reached out to me financially on this faceless forum, i may not know u but god sure does. God bless u plenty.

Thank u all for the time and concern.All has been well my dear, of atruth, the journey has been tough but god has been faithfull.

I relocated to another state to start all over again but honestly speaking, in a couple of weeks it ll be five years but i ve not yet strong, bold and confident to hit the dating scene yet .

I love my life and routine as it is presently though will not hesitate if the opportunity present itself to remarry.

My son is doing great as well.

To every one that rendered their advice, i say god bless you, to all that that chastise me, i thank you and to all that made a mockery of my issue, god is still god.

To a very special person that reached out to me financially on this faceless forum, i may not know u but god sure does. God bless u plenty.

Thank u all for the time and concern.

God be with you and will provide another husband when He is ready.

God be with your son

5 years and counting. lord I thank u for d strength and enablement.

olapluto:
Why not look after your son for now? Best answer to your question is this:
If you were dead and able to see your living husband, how long will you be OK for him to mourn you for? For real love, it is usually for the rest of the spouse life. For marriage based on money, it is between 1 second - 1 month. Others may vary

what are u saying? the marriage vow says 'till death do us part' so she can start a new relationship.

kemtol:
5 years and counting.
lord I thank u for d strength and enablement.

You have been mourning for five years?

Why?

Will it bring back your husband? Does it make your life better? Is it giving him rest and peace?

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Mindfulness:


You have been mourning for five years?

Why?

Will it bring back your husband? Does it make your life better? Is it giving him rest and peace?

not mourning nor sad mood.
just thanking God for the strength to be able to carry on.

kemtol:
not mourning nor sad mood.
just thanking God for the strength to be able to carry on.

This is good. Ask for more.

HOW TIME FLIES.
THANK YOU LORD FOR THE GRACE AND STRENGTH SO FAR. ITS BEEN YOU (GOD) ALL THE WAY

kemtol:
HOW TIME FLIES.

THANK YOU LORD FOR THE GRACE AND STRENGTH SO FAR.
ITS BEEN YOU (GOD) ALL THE WAY

Madam,you better remarry. Many of you women think you are smarter and more holier than God.If you're a christian, read and understand where it is advice for a young widow to remarry. Stop fooling yourself,else you will destroy your son who is yearning for a father figure.

kemtol:
not mourning nor sad mood.
just thanking God for the strength to be able to carry on.

Your strength comes from your ignorance.

nkwuocha1:

Madam,you better remarry. Many of you women think you are smarter and more holier than God.If you're a christian, read and understand where it is advice for a young widow to remarry. Stop fooling yourself,else you will destroy your son who is yearning for a father figure.

sir, where did u see in my post where I proved holy holy or intention of not remarrying. pls understand a post before u conclude.
n.b
learn to criticize constructively

kemtol:


sir, where did u see in my post where I proved holy holy or intention of not remarrying. pls understand a post before u conclude.
n.b
learn to criticize constructively

Well,I read all your posts from the beginning. Sorry if you're offended by my bluntness. Seeking others permission to move on with your life aint no way to live a life young woman! Not by business though, but in your bid to get people's opinions before you get a life may be stopping your young son from growing up with a male figure in his life.
Peace!

nkwuocha1:


Well,I read all your posts from the beginning. Sorry if you're offended by my bluntness. Seeking others permission to move on with your life aint no way to live a life young woman! Not by business though, but in your bid to get people's opinions before you get a life may be stopping your young son from growing up with a male figure in his life.
Peace!

thanks for the advice.
the thread was created over 5 yrs back. I've longed moved on

what a strange advice.

He is dead, so she is free to remarry , imo after 1 to 2 years after the funeral.

To suggest otherwise is imposing unnecessary burdens on a young woman.

this is a simple advice. She should just put herself in her husband's shoe,from there she can decide

kemtol:
Hi nlers. I am a young lady who unfortunately lost my husband after four years of marriage. Its been two and half yes now since my husband death.is it okay for me to start a new relationship now. How many years is a widow required to mourn his husband before moving on. Thanks a lot as u respond.

My sister, if u are Yoruba, abeg please for the sake of yourself and your child.. Make it at least 20years.. Its important..

iyimide:

My sister, if u are Yoruba, abeg please for the sake of yourself and your child.. Make it at least 20years.. Its important..

tnx for d advice sir

This is the reason I came back to the world to tell you guys about integrity