Dignitary: I love Nigerians...

So gullible and sheepish!!!

Someone who is not a journalist, whose view is not authoritative..someone who has not elicited any evidence to show that Pastor Adeboye indeed said all he has alleged said the man of God said 'don't marry frm RCCG' and y'all believe!!! So sick!!!

Many have not only believed but they have started hurling insults at the man of God...Well, I now know the reason why so many ppl have problems without knowing the cause of their problems.

My friends, let's exercise caution when we talk about men of God!!! Even if u don't believe they are men of God, it will do u a whole lot of good if u exercise restraints...God can do anything to ppl that despise his prophets and pastors !!! He's a consuming fire!!!

Assuming but not conceding that he said all you said, I believe the context in which that was said must be considered too!!! Sincerely speaking, I believe Christians from different denominations can marry each other!!! My Bible does not tell me otherwise and I do believe that Pastor Adeboye will share this view since he allows Pastors from other churches to preach in RCCG!!!

But if indeed he said all these, it must not be isolated from the context in which he said it!!! It's end time guys...D devil is desperately Interested in bringing down men of God that are constant threats to his kingdom!!! DON'T ALLOW URSELF TO B USED BY THE devil

dammytosh: Do we comment for comment sake ?

He said his opinion and gave reasons. Every church expresses and lean towards this same opinion that it is highly advisable that you marry within the folk cos of the place of doctrinal issues and teaching back ground in your marriage (Christ Embassy even have this in their marriage guideline.

I can't hear "GOD SAYS or DADDY Says " IN HIS STATEMENT. And If you don't understand , Imagine a Winners Member marrying a C&S member ?

Even Apostle paul gave a lot of advices in the bible that he clearly stated that God did not say that but he felt it is d best.
So Dammy, lets go mathematical. what chances are there for a lady finding a fellow Redeemite who is well paid and still single. The present church must also start focusing on economic empowerment rather setting strict rules.

Secondly, is there any lady or guy on Nairaland challenging the fact that a GUY must have a job before marrying ? That is the dumbest thing i have ever heard in recent times. No wonder marriages crash per second and spouse kill one another, when the basic things are not followed.

Even the bible says that a man who does not work deserves no food. Not to talk of marriage.

All those launching unnecessary attacks should think. That you hate a man does not mean he is wrong and must be hated at all times.


- My Opinion.

Gracious10:

Mister listen:
1. Am not a guy
2. I don't live in Nigeria
3. I know how most bums like you sits on the couch and watch the ladies bring in the Bacon.
4. How about a man bringing goodluck to his wife? That one na crime?
5. How about you studying ur bible or whatever religious book straight up than upside down?

I don't understand how men of these days Belive this crap that a woman you should be protecting, shielding turns around and picks up the tab yet they joyfully mentions it.
What kind of men are they breeding these days?
Right from time, men are never ever known to be spoon fed. They know their priority is to be responsible and responsibility is providing for their family!
Any man waiting for a woman to help him rise is a serious Anumpam period!
It's even annoying when they don't make efforts to work.
This isn't about being rich, its about getting a job, have a sense of fulfilment that your hands are busy providing for ur family.
Even if he's collecting cans, works in a restaurant,a cleaner, cashier,the Issue is that he's got something doing and no correct headed woman will see such determination and not give credit to such man.

Again, men should get a job before marriage!! It is common arithmetic!

Yemotiroro: This generation amazes me. If you were a student under his tutelage when Dr Adeboye was a lecturer in UNILAG in 1973 (when a lot of NLers had not been born) would you have considered him an ignoramus. Is it that we are so uncultured that we have forgotten that the man in question (whether he truly said what is credited to him or not) is old enough to be our grand father.
Besides, as a man of God he does not speak to impose himself on his flock. I have known and studied him over the years. If truly he said this, it must be a problem-solving directive to contain the myriads of issues that come before him day by day. You need to be close to a man of his calibre to know how their hearts bleed for the errors and repercussions of wrong marriages. If you think this is not a wise counsel, then leave it. It's regretful how many young people think themselves wise until they fall into their own error.
The great undoing of today's youth is the inability to listen to, let alone distill the wisdom in the utterances of the elders. BTW I do not attend RCCG.
Just remember that what the elderly see in the horizon while sitting a youth will not see though he climbs the tallest of trees. A word is enough for the wise.

acidosis™:


This is not a good way to approach matters and words from a man of God pls..

I only enlightened those that attend the church..not to look outside. The message was delivered in a youth convention this evening.. and am very sure, many of their members are unaware..

Ileke-IdI:


Verse plz?

If Adam was a Gardner before eve came about, why wasn't didnt he continue to garden afterwards?

acidosis™:


This is not a good way to approach matters and words from a man of God pls..

I only enlightened those that attend the church..not to look outside. The message was delivered in a youth convention this evening.. and am very sure, many of their members are unaware..

Gracious10:

Ur comment is just appalling! Sorry ooo... Ndo!

Really, No jobless man is entitled to a wife! Same way no woman who lacks good xter is entitled to a husband. How can the man take care of a family if he's got no job? Gettin a job should be a priority before marriage...That's just common sense. Any responsible man knows that!!

Jamisco:

i want to enlighten the members and you post it on public website?

what my Bible tells me is that God is going to judge all our doings including what we say, think, do and even post on nairaland.

may you reason and stop posting unreasonable things in Jesus name Amen

IYA NGBALI: no problem,dem fit dey fok non members sha?

IYA NGBALI: no problem,dem fit dey fok non members sha?

bankylan: [
I have been married for two years now...and thank God I married from my Church, and thank God I have a job. It is not compulsory that you marry from your church, but it is very advisable. A lot happen in marriage nowadays,and the rate of divorce is very high. Feeding from the same fountain[Church] helps a lot. It has a way of making partners stay committed to their marriage...But the primary focus should be that both of you are of the same faith, and you are both born again Christians attending a bible believing church.

As regards marrying without adequate source of income, I will advise that a man should have a good job or lay a foundation for a good business before getting married. You will understand when you get married. The number one cause of divorce and strains in marriage is finance. Even the bible says a man that can not provide for his own house is worse than an infidel. Guys, you may not enjoy your marriage at all if you are poor. Your children are at higher risk if you are poor and broke. What legacy do you want to live behind for them. But the caveat here is that, if the man is not rich today, you don't need to disqualify him totally. Does he have potentials? This is what you should go for. If is rich now and gets stripped of all he has, does he have the character to stand high and still be himself. Above all, I will advise all young men to please prepare very well before they get married. But if you think money is not a factor..ask your dad, your mum or any married man.

I totally agree with Pastor Adeboye. He has seen it all, he has achieved a lot, he is a grandfather, and a spiritual father. He is a true servant of God. I tap into the grace of God upon him to be able to achieve and even do more than he has done.. For those saying negative words about him.....I pity your generations...and I cry for your you and your generations.....As a son of a prophet, I know the implications of this....

aku626: They are very many incencitive people amongst us, i have heard this statement before in my church RCCG YES! They never said if you bring another girl they wont wed you guys, they are only trying to say that they have youths looking for spouses in the church and it would be very welcomed if you start your search within. My girlfriend isnt from redeem. Please watch your words before speaking someone said the decision of Adeboye is foolish hmmm, to say that to any individual is demeaning talkless of an elder or a man of God becareful so you don't end your future before it begins, I don't think God takes it lightly when you insult his servants wether he is right or wrong, if you have a different judgement do it your way. if people decide to folloew what he has to say let them follow its not your business, i'm a member and would get married to whom God says i should get married to.

slimdamatrix: Well, he's human. A man of God, yes! But he's still human. We re all bound not to be perfect always. Please don't say too much and bring curses on yourselves! Remember I said, he is a man of God!. *drops pen*