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| 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nobody: 3:16pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Perhaps you don’t meet people in the course of your daily life, or you’re not connecting with the right type of person. First of all decide what you have to offer to a future partner, by working out what sort of things interest you. No one is going to like all these options, but they are ways of widening your circle of friends. 1. GOLF Golfing is a male activity, get lessons and join them on the course. Men network on the golf course all the time, take it further and progress to flirting. Even if you are not good at sports, the men will most often be encouraging of your efforts. 2. GO TO A SPORTS BAR ON GAME NIGHT Why watch big sporting events at home when you can hang out a sports bar complete with big-screen TV, electronic sports games? This is a particularly good way to meet people if you are sporty yourself, impress the guys with your knowledge. Sport is a participation event and it is a lot more fun watching in a group than alone. 3. VOLUNTEER TO WORK FOR A NON PROFIT ORGANIZATION People who are prepared to give a little of their free time are often very caring people, capable of passion and commitment, there are loads of group activities, that mean you can widen your circle of friends, with the same interests. There is always the possibility of a relationship progressing to a date. 4. JOIN A POLITICAL CAMPAIGN If you are politically inclined and have an interest in which you are prepared to give up some time, this is a good way to find a date. Not only that but you can be sure if you have both joined to fight for the same cause, then you have at least one thing in common. If it does not work to find a date than you have lost nothing, but will have at least widened your circle of friends. 5. EVENING CLASSES You do not have to be academic here, it is not necessary to study Physics. Find out about something that you have always wanted to learn. Take the time to study another language, or do something “arty”. Art classes depending where you live, cover a very wide base from sculptor, to water colors. Men can always be found in a class about car maintenance etc. 6. TAKE SOME CRITICISM FROM YOUR FRIENDS Marketing yourself to find a mate is not always easy. Take some advice from friends who have embarked on a successful long term relationship. If you are always attracting the wrong sort of person, ask a friend why they think that is the case. If you have a healthy emotional life, you should spot fairly on in a relationship that someone is going to hurt you. Realize your own worth, some women do really believe that they are not worthy of being loved. Boost your self esteem. If low self esteem is a problem, then try and look at the tip below. 7. ENROLL IN A SELF-IMPROVEMENT WORKSHOP Men sometimes tend to be more into self improvement than women. However, any body who has taken the steps to enroll and participate in this type of activity are probably sensitive, the chances are they are also looking to interact with other sensitive people. It’s a great way for men to find out how women think. Be positive you may not meet the man of your dreams but will probably have boosted your self esteem. 8. JOIN A GYM Even if you are fit and healthy you can always find men in a gym. If you are not fit, then getting fit is a great way to boosting you self esteem. Being fit gives you a better outlook on life and you feel much better. You are also more relaxed when you look your best. 9. READ “IF THE BUDDHA DATED,” BY CHARLOTTE KASL Buddha means the enlightened one, or one who is awake. Kasl gives you the best advice about how to make, but very significant changes in your life. Part of her advice is to literally make room for a partner in your life. If you have a single bed get a double, if you have only one pillow buy more. She also has some great tips for attracting new people in your life. This isn’t mandatory by any means but it will appeal to you once you start reading. 10.STAND BACK AND TAKE STOCK Men are not lost souls, they are not hiding away. You will have far more chance of connecting with someone if you are personally fulfilled. If you are into sports big time consider competing in a marathon. Take a creative writing course, change you career. Make yourself happy, and have some fun 11 JOIN A HISTORICAL SOCIETY Even small towns have historical societies, which will search and record the local events in your area in the past. Most of the will probably be male. 12. GET COOKING O. K. so you know how to cook, often men do not and they will join a cookery class. This is a good one – believe me. 13. LEARN HOW TO PLAY POKER Most poker players are men, find out how to play, and then join a game. 14.GO TO A BOOK SIGNING Here is were you can guarantee that you will find someone with similar interests and intellectual pursuits. 15. MAKE MEN FIND YOU Since the earliest days of mankind, a woman can show a man she is interested in him, the smart one’s let him think he is doing the chasing. This is the twenty first century and you can show a man you are interested in him. Catch his eye and then immediately look away, but then look back at him. If he finds you attractive, he will think he has fond you, and will most often make a move. Just doin' this for the Ladies  |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by MrsChima1(f): 3:18pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
You are giving tips on how to find a husband....but no tips on how to KEEP THE HUSBAND. Women do not have issues getting a husband but many of issues of keeping a husband. 3 Likes |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Mynd44: 3:25pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Na juju sure pass jorh 1 Like |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by tpia5: 3:28pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
you forgot to add the babalawo option. |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by tpia5: 3:36pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
and add "15 ways to find a wife" for the likes of coogar and other bitter males here such as pro01, orikinla, etc who live on nl and always want us to know how much they're enjoying life yet their rants say otherwise. |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Mynd44: 3:37pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
^^ |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by LongOne1(m): 3:47pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Hmm, I wonder how many Nigerian men will go golfing, do not-for-profit things, go to a gym, go to a historical society, be humble enough to attend cookery classes, go for book signings, etc. *Just thinking out loud* 1 Like |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by k2039: 4:03pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
[size=13pt]Now I know why the divorce rate is extremely high [/size] |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by mumumugu(m): 6:39pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
In esence, in order to find a man, u need to be lyk a man and start golfin, gymning, folowin socer, politics etc |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by bknight: 7:59pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
 dis otapiapia girl get bad mouth...rotflmbo! |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by tpia5: 8:19pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Long One: Hmm, I wonder how many Nigerian men will go golfing, do not-for-profit things, go to a gym, go to a historical society, be humble enough to attend cookery classes, go for book signings, etc. The list was obviously written for white people. |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nobody: 2:06pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Mrs..Chima: The Words In Bold i can really prove Wrong Sweetie -- Ma Hood has got Grannies who're still keepin' faith of meeting Up with that ideal Husband, what do u really fink happened in the days of their Youth? Ans = Cos they Ignorantly Missed Out on an Article of tis Kind! tpia@: Our Issues are Solved more On Simple Basis Hun, for every 96 men there are 100 women due to the high death rate in males, so we've got all reason to say 'We're Living Perfect' and can easily pick Up any Female as a Wife, Companion, House BJ-ist etc Long One: Hmm, I wonder how many Nigerian men will go golfing, do not-for-profit things, go to a gym, go to a historical society, be humble enough to attend cookery classes, go for book signings, etc. Recreational Spots are almost everywhere these Days -- Nigeria shouldn't be an Exception.  |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Mynd44: 2:26pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
tpia@:And are they special humans? |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nobody: 2:06pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Depends On how u Understand It all |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by iyatrustee(f): 2:08pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
must you broadcast how you met me?  |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nobody: 2:11pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
iyatrustee: must you broadcast how you met me? Lol -- Well, This is what they call Genuine Love and u gotta be proud of it all And more Importantly it was the Number 8 that did the Magic -- U Came into the GYM with ya Sagging Protruded belly and GBAM! i begin trip |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by iyatrustee(f): 2:20pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
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| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by skydeep(f): 3:00pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Sports centers like Enyimba football pitch?  |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by cindyrella(f): 3:58pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
 All these just to find a husband? Thank God I am not searching! #whew# |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by MyneWhite1(f): 4:16pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nobody: 4:18pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
cindyrella: U can opt for few or one not necessarily all. Been a long time boo, where would u take ya asss to? |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by xynerise: 4:25pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
cindyrella:both husband, sugar daddy and boyfriend for ur info. So I guess you must be searching for one |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nobody: 4:36pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
xynerise: |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nobody: 4:47pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Elguapo, is that naija in your pic? |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nayah(f): 5:45pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Hi poster, for me husband comes himself, there's no need to search for him |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Mynd44: 5:48pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
El Guapo:Msheeeew |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Complete balderdash. |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by xynerise: 6:18pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Nayah: Hi poster, for me husband comes himself, there's no need to search for himo yea? Lets see when you approach 30. |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Mynd44: 6:20pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
xynerise:Before or after her dad chases her out? |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by xynerise: 6:30pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Mynd_44: . Then she will be wearing cloths that read "am I not beautiful enough?" |
| Re: 15 Ways To Find A Husband by Mynd44: 6:38pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
xynerise:By then, no guy will come hear her |
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