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Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by obxddon(m): 10:16am On Oct 11, 2012 |
Why I no go dey der...No be me and her do the tin together.....Abeg I go dey der joooooorr!!!! |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by gunners160(m): 10:16am On Oct 11, 2012 |
i kant stand and watch my wife give birth.i just kant witstand d pains and shoutin.it kan even discourage me 4rm havin anoda child.d day i watched a video on hw a ladi gives birth on d phone.i almost collapsed and i culd nt eat |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by UNLEASHED(m): 10:19am On Oct 11, 2012 |
Yeah why not? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Nobody: 10:20am On Oct 11, 2012 |
Freiburger:lol, shey the tin sweet her wen i dey suffer dey wind my waist? Now make do her assignment alone |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Nobody: 10:21am On Oct 11, 2012 |
^Chai |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Tinu4real(f): 10:22am On Oct 11, 2012 |
It's actually no big deal. My husband was with me in delivery and he watched me do my thing. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by jobaskia(m): 10:23am On Oct 11, 2012 |
It is best to experience the pain , the joy and all that. No pain , No gain . We go through a lot of pains in our lives. It is sweet and lovely when one is doing it and by the time the product is coming out one should be happy with the pains and gains. there is a quote that says ''We wont know the essence of parents until we become parents ourselves'' |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Nobody: 10:26am On Oct 11, 2012 |
Yeah, I would want him to be there to provide emotional support afterall na him give me the belle. He should be able to see how his child makes his/her entrance into this world. |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Nobody: 10:28am On Oct 11, 2012 |
ItsModella: Yeah, I would want him to be there to provide emotional support afterall na him give me the belle. He should be able to see how his child makes his/her entrance into this world.Lalalalala.... |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Nobody: 10:32am On Oct 11, 2012 |
hell nahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. if i see all that gore coming out of her coochieee i dont think i will want to stick my poron in their again lailai walahi talahi |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Leadn(m): 10:33am On Oct 11, 2012 |
ItsModella: Yeah, I would want him to be there to provide emotional support afterall na him give me the belle. He should be able to see how his child makes his/her entrance into this world. Funny you |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Leadn(m): 10:34am On Oct 11, 2012 |
obadiah777: hell nahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. if i see all that gore coming out of her coochieee i dont think i will want to stick my poron in their again lailai walahi talahi chai! yu dey mad no be small 1 Like |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by sunny4life(m): 10:37am On Oct 11, 2012 |
Why not.no big deal 2 b by her side during delivery.Afterall,her and the baby are my responsibility 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Freiburger(m): 10:38am On Oct 11, 2012 |
sunny4life: Why not.no big deal 2 b by her side during delivery.Afterall,her and the baby are my responsibility5likes |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by semit: 10:40am On Oct 11, 2012 |
for shizzle. i'm gonna stand & stay by my sweethrt |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by uyiekpenm(f): 10:42am On Oct 11, 2012 |
My husband refused to leave my side from d moment I went into labour till I was delivered of our son. He finally left after d baby was cleaned up and handed over to him. I still wonder if I could have done it successfully without him cheering me on. I thank God for having such a wonderful husband. 6 Likes |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Leadn(m): 10:46am On Oct 11, 2012 |
uyiekpenm: My husband refused to leave my side from d moment I went into labour till I was delivered of our son. He finally left after d baby was cleaned up and handed over to him. I still wonder if I could have done it successfully without him cheering me on. I thank God for having such a wonderful husband. Wow that's so romantic |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by PBundles(m): 10:48am On Oct 11, 2012 |
OF COURSE! I was there for all three ( 2 boys and 1 girl). Its a moment that cant be missed very emotional and to be shared with your wife. Its not easy for some I know but you must provide the support after all she is bearing the pain of bringing life. That one thing that all men must bow for our ladies, its not easy and we men get mouth but to be honest I wonder if we could do it, I dont think I could if Im honest. Thanks Ladies from the heart espeically my beautiful chick ( together for 22 years!) 9 Likes |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by mrperfect(m): 10:49am On Oct 11, 2012 |
We started together, isn't bad ideal is we finished together too. |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by adultebony(m): 10:49am On Oct 11, 2012 |
I've been in the delivery room with my wife TWICE! The last one was on the 5th of April this year. It certainly was scary and awesome! I stood behind the bed overlooking the tommy and birth canal, saw the baby pop out while the doctors and nurses do their job. Wow! She held onto both of my alms while pushing out the baby. The doctor kept yelling 'push, push, ma, you have to push now!' And then he turned to me and said, 'sir let madam do the pushing, ok?' Didn't realise I was pushing along with her. The doctor, nurses and myself had a good laugh later. The baby boy, Tunmida, is crawling now! The experience certainly makes me cherish my wife and mum more and more. Enough respect to womanhood! 17 Likes |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by zoedicus: 10:53am On Oct 11, 2012 |
the day i see her deliver is d day i decide she's nt gonna hv another baby. . .and i'm nt gonna be slpn wt hr again. Cos of d emotional and psychological tn wl affect me die. |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Costa2000(m): 10:54am On Oct 11, 2012 |
Here the doctor will invite you to come and stay with her,if u dont honour the invitation the doctors will see you as careless husband and father to be.I have done it before and will still do it again,not because of what the doctors will think about me but for the love i have for her and the lovely child about to be born.But i still respect those that cant,because not all men can stand it. |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by greatgod2012(f): 11:00am On Oct 11, 2012 |
**sighs** guys, do u have d gut?i bet it , u would become something else after d experience. In my previous labours,my hubby would drive me and my mom or my MIL as d case may be, stayed 4 a while,only to come back after d baby is born and therafter feel happy and carry d baby joyfully, its not dt he doesnt appreciate me but i wasnt satisfied with d fact dt he has not been there personally to witness it, so i begged him to stay with me in my last labour experience, which he accepted, so on dis d-day, he took me to d hospital and asked d doctor to allow him in d labour room which d doctor accepted but asked him if he has d mind and he responded affirmatively, hhhmmm, u men no get liver o, come and see dis man, even me dt was labouring was pitying him, see d way he was shouting and screaming on d doctor and d widwives, infact, he was just saying rubbish things, even till now i still make jest of him abt dt day, he was just too emotional, words like, "doctor, e rora now"," is she still alive", "eje(blood) yii ti poju o,","pain yii ti po ju fun iyawo mi o" among others are d words he was uttering, and when d baby finally came out,i expected him to be happy, but he was just shouting "my wife, my wife". After d whole exercise, he said "honey, pls, pardon me, i never knew this is what u experience each time u go into labour, i think we've had enough number of children. My suggestion: men who dont appreciate or who brutalise their wives should be allowed to witness d experience, maybe, dt will make dm, to a greater extent appreciate dir wives. My conclusion: men who beat up their wives are not appreciative and are ANIMALS. 7 Likes |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by zannie(f): 11:00am On Oct 11, 2012 |
I am someone who doesn't handle any form of pain well at all. I wud like my husband to be there. At least looking at his face or shredding his hands with my nails wud be such motivation to push the lil minion out. Tehehehe 1 Like |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Leadn(m): 11:09am On Oct 11, 2012 |
greatgod2012: **sighs** WOW! are you sure,,, uhmm am I sure,,, I don't think I would like to be dere me don't have heart o, I can't see blood |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by dabrake(m): 11:12am On Oct 11, 2012 |
nah. can't watch my wife go through that agony |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Leadn(m): 11:13am On Oct 11, 2012 |
zannie: I am someone who doesn't handle any form of pain well at all. I wud like my husband to be there. At least looking at his face or shredding his hands with my nails wud be such motivation to push the lil minion out. Tehehehe Lolzz so your husband must feel the pain too |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Yinkwamo(m): 11:13am On Oct 11, 2012 |
I Would not, cz i'm highly emotional.. Bt if dt's wat she wants, i'll be there for d sake of d love i hv for her. However, d way i go cry eh! Infact na she go dey Pet me |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Nobody: 11:14am On Oct 11, 2012 |
I'll gladly do that provided I'm around when she's delivering |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by Freiburger(m): 11:17am On Oct 11, 2012 |
dabrake: nah. can't watch my wife go through that agonyThe fact that you cant stand her going through that pain doesn't mean the pain isn' there. I must say this, i cried when i first experienced it, but it thought me how to love and respect women, but the second time was just a something i could deal with. |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by k2039: 11:17am On Oct 11, 2012 |
greatgod2012: **sighs**I think I have the gut,I will love to go through similar experience as your hubby. I wont say it will me make me appreciate her more(because that will mean that I wont appreciate her before the labour). I just want the experience (But seriously I think I will be worse than your hubbby,cos I am also emotional(highly)) |
Re: Would You Stay In The Labor Room With Your Wife?! by frainc(m): 11:23am On Oct 11, 2012 |
toyintiwal: There's nothing bad in it guys. I witness the birth of my first son. The doctor ask me to come in and talk to my wife. And I was there with him for good 1hr. I saw my coming. I was smiling/rejoicing and in the other hand feeling sorry for my wife cos the pain is too much... What a daysecret don leak ooo. u dey lie o:ur id show say u be female. |
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