Am confuse and need some good advice.I was dating a lady for some 4yrs back and it was great,but i gave my life to christ some months back and got to know that what we were doing is wrong.i tried to tell her that things are now diffrent and tried to preach to her to also give her life.because she loves me she tried to but still wants us to keep the sexual aspect,i was her first man and am a bit active,so she said she is already use to it and she has tried getting her body in control but can't for long.i've already fell into temptation with her once and since been avoiding her.but she wouldn't let me be,and most times i feel guilty cos she is a nice girl,infact she has all i can ever want in a wife.she is not ready to let go but i can't continue a sexual relationship with her.what do i do?

Listen if you truely gave your life to Christ, you are now a new creature all things that could lead you tp your vomit should be done with including your girlfriend if you truely want to tell Jesus that you appreciate what He did for you.
I know the investment of 4 year is much but REMEMBER JESUS WENT THROUGH MORE THAN THAT FOR YOU ON THE CROSS.
Don't even try to say you would change her you are not the only God knows when each of us would turn back to him. Just keep your focus on Jesus He would help you to live victorously for him.
Meet with people that have gone through a similar thing in the past for expert advice.
See you around.

and now you've given your life to christ, now makes her the devil abi ?

Why run away. I mean she's human being just like you.


_{what madness, religion will do to people.}

Baba God talk say "If ur eyes go lead u go hell pluck am comot" so if d chic would lead u to hell, then send her packing or u cut ur holy rod comot.

@ madamkoko,
U must be a Krishna,

Y don't u just get married & spare us all this born again(st) story.I blv that wld solve the problem.

The bible says"Flee fornication!"Dont wait to explain to her o talkless of preaching or you'll find yourself enjoyin the pussy till u burn in HELL!

cold:

Y don't u just get married & spare us all this born again(st) story.I blv that would solve the problem.

Couldnt have said it better,
@ poster
Remember ur born again pls dnt hesitate.

my guy marry her cos u made her wat she is. so don't start dat born again crap u shld hv known b4 u deflowered. So stop playing games ,be sincere to urself and her. U can't stop it

bollingjoe:

my guy marry her because u made her what she is. so don't start that born again crap u shld hv known before u deflowered. So stop playing games ,be sincere to yourself and her. You can't stop it

Excwuze mii!!!
So because he deflowered her,he must marry her?
Nah wah o!!

Poster
If indeed you've given ur life to christ,den in a pleasant manner let her knw nd if avoidin her will help you ,pls do so.

cold:

Y don't u just get married & spare us all this born again(st) story.I blv that would solve the problem.

Just like your username you are cold.What of if he does not have enough money to get married?

o boy na wao, this kind people still dey
because u join church u no wan Bleep again,just wait until ur pastor don they finger ur wife before u go open eye
mumu like, u supo like u, abeg make we hear word
no Bleep oooo, maybe when u finally reach heaven u go go self-service there

Well, marry her then. Or, if you dont love her. leave her.

u better prepare for wedlock!! after u scatter toto finish u think u can jus run and marry another person

Cut the dick!!! If you dont have a dick she would find alternatives or buy her a vibrator

i think she doesn't believe you really gave your life to Christ, maybe she feels like you wanna end the r/ship for some other girl. Show her that you are really a changed man and she'll love you more, or hate you forever. Lets hope she doesn't pick the latter cos I already see a Sun news cover story in the making.