i have this girl i met last year June but i was in a relationship then but we still continued after i had a problem with my ex we now became stronger after like 3mths i started having an affair with a girl in my office which now escalated into a very serious one and they both now know dat i am seeing someone else dat i should choose between them i must confess i love the girl in my office more than the first girl but the first girl has been there for me and i don't know what to do cos she is really feeling betrayed already but i cant marry her because of sentiments please advise.

you already know what to do.

You should marry the one you love.

u just said u cant marry the other gal then go for the one that u know u can. marriage is not wat u walk in and walk out make up ur mind and do the right thing cos u have the answers to ur question right in ur palm.

marry bot of dem

Wait, your post is confusing. You had a girl, then met another girl in june then started an affair with a girl in your office and now the office girl and the girl you cheated on your ex with want you to choose?
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Clearly you're not in a position to pick one and get married.

*yawns*

tony_issey:

i have this girl i met last year June but i was in a relationship then but we still continued after i had a problem with my ex we now became stronger after like 3mths i started having an affair with a girl in my office which now escalated into a very serious one and they both now know dat i am seeing someone else dat i should choose between them i must confess i love the girl in my office more than the first girl but the first girl has been there for me and i don't know what to do cos she is really feeling betrayed already but i cant marry her because of sentiments please advise.

Clarify this, Is the girl you met last year June the same girl from your office?? If yes, then marry the one you love, though love is not enough factor for a strong long lasting marriage, at least you can deal with problems better if you love her.

i met the first girl in December and i met the girl in my office in march @ Desiree said love isn't a strong factor for marriage right but the fact is why am confused is that they both know about each other now but the girl i met in June i.e the first girl has discovered that i love the other girl more than i love her and she is trying to win me back at all cost and it really hurts me that this was someone that has always been there for me, she even promised to stilll be my friend even if i stil don't date her anymore but it would really hurt her 2 see me go.

Love is a feeling that dont come easily.The first girl loves u and would do anything for u,but d other one is the one u love,hmmm. Ladies are way too complicated u know,but as for me,i'd advice u choose d one that loves u instead of the one u love

Man, you are just plain promiscous, jumping from girl to girl, pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaase,

sparta:

Man, you are just plain promiscous, jumping from girl to girl, pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaase,

i tot i was the only one who noticed the pattern!
bera learn to zip up.

Duh!!

You are not ready to get married, you are just looking to satisfy your infidel conscience.

@ujujoan,
where have u been!

marry the one you love jor.

The dude is sowing his wild oats jare, how would you know if there is a better girl out there if you only date one girl and then marry her. The good thing is that you have found the one you love and obviously loves you back.

PS
Why does our opinion count anyway?? we don't even know these girls, you are in a better position to decide who you want to spend the rest of you life with.

desiree:



PS
Why does our opinion count anyway?? we don't even know these girls, you are in a better position to decide who you want to spend the rest of you life with.

flesh and blood has not revealed this to you

@poster

U be Casanova Within 6months u don date up to 4 girl.
I tire ooo!
That is y u're confessed
U shld have stick with 1 n find love from her.

'poster

marry the two so u can die young.

You're holding on to the office girl because you love her.You're holding on to the first girl based on sentiments. Will you marry based on love or based on sentiments?

my 2 cents

mikkyphp:

You're holding on to the office girl because you love her.You're holding on to the first girl based on sentiments. Will you marry based on love or based on sentiments?

my 2 cents

seconded, but 2 cents? wat 4 arh,

I hope you know the true definition of love; stay away from both of them for some days or weeks, that break will make it easier for you to know which one of them you really want and which one will trully make you a good wifey.

marry the one with the bigger bobs!!

@izeek, true story,
boobs is always good,

mikkyphp:

@izeek, true story,
boobs is always good,

when u are confused, its when to consider thier enhancements.
these case boobs!!!

why this man is so confused

He got himself confused in the first place. He was greedy, or beter still not content with what he had and thus complicated his love life with the office gal who'd do everything to steal you away for the other. young man steer clear from making a decision for at least 2months. allow youself to breath and let oxygen circulate your brain,

izeek n mikkyphp r just crazy set of guyz  

@nethacker,
there's nothing crazy bout this talk ,
apparently his has weighed their qualities, and found it difficult to decide.
so i simply asked him to weigh the quantites.

izeek:

@nethacker,
there's nothing crazy bout this talk ,
apparently his has weighed their qualities, and found it difficult to decide.
so i simply asked him to weigh the quantites.

8inch+:

flesh and blood has not revealed this to you

you are so funny. she said truth tho. very soon you will get question like should i eat with my right or left hand? accept i am man or woman, continue saying hi to my mum and dad on NL.

follow your heart but in the course of ur decision pls don't sleep with any of them.