Marriage is honorable in all.

Johnsinia:
u r totally out of point. There may nt b a commandmt on marriage bt there was teaching thru d inspiratn of d holy spirit 2 his servants on dat. Dnt 4get paul teachin on marriage.
I preffered Church wedding 2 any type bc its a union done right in d presence of God as a wittness n blesser. U dnt ve 2 spend excessivly if u dnt ve; u can stil keep it low. minus dat, if u r a true member of ur church n belong 2 1 group or d oda, u will recieve assistance n donations.

Am afraid you are NOT talking scripturally. Paul's teaching on marriage doesn't say a Christian should explicitly do church wedding. You can do ANY type of wedding depending on your financial power but NOT compulsorily in church even as Christian. If you have two or three witnesses in a wedding, you are married. Am not condemning church marriage, don't get me wrong. Am saying, there is no one type of marriage a Christian MUST do in order to make it a better marriage. Even marriages done in church do crumble.

Oga Sexkillz,werin U dey do for here dis early mornin?I no say U wan contribute but me go advise U to go for court weddin o.U no say NLers for som sections no too gbadun ur commando style so if dem form for ya weddin dat day,judge go just sentence dem straight away....good mornin everyone viewin dis thread

For me sha, i will do everything!
On thursday, we'll do d court wedding,
on friday, its the traditional wedding or wat we call engagement.
On saturday, its d church wedding. God help me oh.

I prefer court marriage, no church wedding, no fanfare but my fiance no gree. He wants church wedding and picks a 440 when I mention c-o-u-r-t. I don't know what he's afraid of. My wedding is in two months and I so hate the stress involved with the planning. Always wanted a quiet wedding with just a few friends and family involved. Now that's out the window. Hmmmmmph.....

A man that wants a court marriage (wedding) is too stingy to spend and a woman that wants a court marriage(wedding) is not proud of her husband .....shikina

Very helpful and interesting. If I can have a compromise with my would be, I would do court wedding and later do blessing of marriage since it's even allowed in my church