sexkillz: Like i always say, having a "spare tyre" is not a license to be promiscuous. . . Having a spare tyre is recommended for both genders. In the words of my friend, a "shock absorber". Sadly the mindset of many is in the gutters. Some sleep around serially with their spare tyres while some self righteous nutters may even condemn you for choosing to have a spare tyre. . .

I say fark them.

It's all about the mindset!

A-ZeD:

Hope you mind being a spare tyre?

A-ZeD:

Hope you mind being a spare tyre?

A-ZeD:

Hope you mind being a spare tyre?

adefash:
there is nofin wrong if u know u are a spare tyre.u just know and maintain ur level or terminate ur relationship.quarel dey am? if u are dating another man's wife secretly, u wan be main tire?
I once met a lady who told me she had a bf she could not drop easily.i wasnt interested in taking her completely away from her guy and she didnt mind seeing along side side.wetin i be? No quarrel na! She respected me whenever my gf called, i gave her chance to be wif hers.we are all cheat.so...

sexkillz: Yes. Nothing wrong on it. She is yet to make a choice. It is not her fault if 4 different men are interested in her. She cannot say yes to them all, but how will she differentiate? She has to date them and be able to reach a conclusion. . .

If i am one of the four guys, i know i am in a race, and i have to prove to her that i am the better of the four.

If you think that dating four guys means sleeping with four guys, you are seriously farked app!

sexkillz: Yes. Nothing wrong on it. She is yet to make a choice. It is not her fault if 4 different men are interested in her. She cannot say yes to them all, but how will she differentiate? She has to date them and be able to reach a conclusion. . .

If i am one of the four guys, i know i am in a race, and i have to prove to her that i am the better of the four.

If you think that dating four guys means sleeping with four guys, you are seriously farked app!

dBard:

dat mod isn't wat a spare tyre means
spare tyre implies dres already a man in her life,committed t her n u r her fall back option.

*Shollypopz:

I think u meant to say or I wan't you to say; "Hope you don't mind being a spare tire!!"

@Thread: I'm against "spare tyrism". It's bad and shouldn't be encouraged, it's like u're hving an open relationship. How can u hv a serious relationship w/o commitment?? Hving a spare tyre erases that

dBard:

so u gave her a reason t not invest wholly in her relationship,gave her reasons t doubt,compare n split her emotions? it depends on d mindset abi?? anybody dat opts f a spare tyre isn't ready f a true relationship. in luv,u make d leap (wisely). its an almost absolute investment xcpt ur still not ready t settle. focus on ur partner,its dat simple.

sexkillz: Yes. Nothing wrong on it. She is yet to make a choice. It is not her fault if 4 different men are interested in her. She cannot say yes to them all, but how will she differentiate? She has to date them and be able to reach a conclusion. . .

If i am one of the four guys, i know i am in a race, and i have to prove to her that i am the better of the four.

If you think that dating four guys means sleeping with four guys, you are seriously farked app!

Mynd_44:
Dude, if I am asking a girl out and she is telling me that she wants to assess four different guys including me to see who the best is, I will rather walk away and find someone else.
When did love become a game where the best player wins? She wants to find out if she is worthy of my heart? I call that bull.
She might not be sleeping with the guys but she must have personal preferences. I will rather drop my 'CV' with her along with how I feel about her and leave her to make her decision when she wants to.
But to think I will be 'fighting' to find and get her attention and be her choice is my definition of sleeping on okada

sexkillz: You dont even understand what you are talking about.

jammyng: The believe in double dating to avoid heartbreaks.

Daresh: I had a spare tyre till the day I got married.