@op, Reading through your post i understand that love is not a key factor in the choice you are about to make. Your goal/target is to settle down before you clock 28yrs of age.

It's a fact that some marriages out there did not start with love at the initial stage.

If a man truly cares about you, he will appreciate you, his appreciation will grow to respect, respect will turn to like and like will eventually becomes love.

So look out for those 3 factors in both men and choose the one that is best qualified. Appreciation, Respect and Like.

stint: @op its simple, just marry the one who is not planning to use u for money rituals, who is rich and does not have a first wife somwhere .

true talk my brother....very right.

aditoomuch: true talk my brother....very right.

that is the summary of the matter.

afrikwin: AND EVEN DISPLAYED OUR PHOTOS ON HIS FB PAGE.

this is not a sign of love, do not mistake it to be.

So one is open about d relationsh and the other is not? And this is d only thing you can say/ write about the 2 men? I need more facts to work wit, even then i cant really advice you.

Do you even love any of them? Which one of them can you not live your life without? Which one has the qualites you look out for in a man? Is your desperation to marry clouding your judgement?

Babe, make sure you make the right decision. Search your soul

please marry anyone that has a facebook account.... thank u.

Dondav: If you're confused, adopt a chinesse baby and never get married... Trust me, you'll be happier.

yes yes ya!

2Igbo men Liar, where're you from?