simple marry the one u love

or marry both em

39yrs??..

Nnekacherry: 39yrs??..

What's your point

Who makes you happy?

*confused*

For you to reconcile with your first boyfriend means he is the one you love. Just be bold and tell the second one the truth and stop playing with his emotions

Dondav: If you're confused, adopt a chinesse baby and never get married... Trust me, you'll be happier.

very true

**singing "same girl" by R Kelly and Usher**

Both of them are 39years old?? Both of them are igbo?? Both of them are from imo state?? Both wants u to go meet mama and family??
Am i d only one smelling a rat?!

booqee: Both of them are 39years old?? Both of them are igbo?? Both of them are from imo state?? Both wants u to go meet mama and family??
Am i d only one smelling a rat?!

Me I siddon dey look

booqee: Both of them are 39years old?? Both of them are igbo?? Both of them are from imo state?? Both wants u to go meet mama and family?? Am i d only one smelling a rat?!

Lolz, I smell the rat too sef. But, you and rat ehn..wetin? Better check under your couch/sofa, you probably have a dead 'okon calabar' somewhere in there...

r231:

What's your point

You know exactly what my point is...

afrikwin: I AM 27 YEARS OLD, SOON TO BE 28, HENCE MY YEARS ARE RUNNING OUT...
I WANT TO GET MARRIED BEFORE AM 29, AND LAW AND BEHOLD 2 ABLE BODIED HARDWORKING IGBO MEN HAVE ASKED FOR MY HAND IN MARRIAGE. THEY ARE AGE MATES (39). I DATED THE 1ST GUY THEN WE BROKE UP, AND I MET THE 2ND GUY DURING MY BREAK UP. HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE WANTS TO MARRY ME, INTRODUCED ME TO HIS FAMILY AND EVEN DISPLAYED OUR PHOTOS ON HIS FB PAGE. HE HAS A LARGE FAMILY AND IS SO OPEN ABOUT HIS RELATIVES,UNLIKE THE FIRST.SHORTLY AFTER OUR BREAK UP, THE FIRST GUY CAME BACK AND MADE IT CLEAR THAT WE SHOULD PUT THE PAST BEHIND US. OF COURSE I COULDN'T TELL HIM THAT I ALMOST MOVED ON. NOW THEY HAVE BOTH ASKED ME TO ACCOMPANY THEM TO IMO STATE TO SEE MAMA AND FAMILY. WHAT ARE SOME OF THE GUIDELINES WHEN AM CHOOSING WHO TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH? PLEASE CONTRIBUTE...
THANKS

y.

If you are marrying simply because you are rushing against a ticking clock....your marriage will not last no matter who you marry. Marry for the right reasons and don't make a mistake that will haunt you for the rest of your natural life.

Nnekacherry: 39yrs??..

They are looking for a second wife that is younger. Family men tend to start around late 20's to early 30's but then again they can be some special type of men that doesn't want any kids.

All the older Igbo men I know are married with kids working toward retirement.

Plz seek divine direction. Pray!

Mrs.Chima:


They are looking for a second wife that is younger. Family men tend to start around late 20's to early 30's but then again they can be some special type of men that doesn't want any kids.

All the older Igbo men I know are married with kids working toward retirement.

hahahahahaha
You are so funny... but that is the simple truth.. 39 is too much, it's just like getting married to her uncle's agemate..

@OP.. It's your choice to make dear..
Just pray over it.. May God favour you and direct you...

Nnekacherry:

hahahahahaha
You are so funny... but that is the simple truth.. 39 is too much, it's just like getting married to her uncle's agemate..

@OP.. It's your choice to make dear..
Just pray over it.. May God favour you and direct you...

I no that is where you are going

So a 28 or 29 yr old cannot marry a 39 yr old in your village abi.....what a crazy mentality

Uncles agemate my foot.....so what

r231:


I no that is where you are going

So a 28 or 29 yr old cannot marry a 39 yr old in your village abi.....what a crazy mentality

Uncles agemate my foot.....so what

No need to vex....i will go out with you. Haba.

r231:


I no that is where you are going

So a 28 or 29 yr old cannot marry a 39 yr old in your village abi.....what a crazy mentality

Uncles agemate my foot.....so what

Lol.. Abeg uncle no vex..
We are not quarreling, are we??
And as i said before, it's still a matter of choice...

You r right ....it is a matter of choice. I wouldnt marry a man that old ...i like the idea of growing llder with my man....not playn catch up.

You expect people who don't know the two men to advise you on which to marry. This kind of question shouldn't be asked on an online forum

Nnekacherry:

hahahahahaha
You are so funny... but that is the simple truth.. 39 is too much, it's just like getting married to her uncle's agemate..

@OP.. It's your choice to make dear..
Just pray over it.. May God favour you and direct you...

Miss, 39 may be a lil late, but same goes for the girl at 28 if you have to be objective.


Just as some men are thinking of retiring in their early 40's, so are some ladies planning to conclude child bearing in their early 30's.


Btw, she isn't complaining of age difference, is she?


You can keep the first paragragh of your comment, however the second paragraph is good enough to work with.

Haha, interesting topic.

@ op cant help, sorry, know nothing about the subject matter, but you do have a very catchy thread title.

Nnekacherry:

Lol.. Abeg uncle no vex..
We are not quarreling, are we??
And as i said before, it's still a matter a choice...

Luv you too

booqee: Both of them are 39years old?? Both of them are igbo??
Both of them are from imo state?? Both wants u to go meet mama and family??
Am i d only one smelling a rat?!

Right beside u, we dey smell am together

First of all i do not know why u chose to mention the fact that they were igbo,do u have a problem with the tribe?secondly in as much u might be getting older,u need to get it right,marry a man who will always love and cherish u and if u look hard enough devoid of sentiments,u will see which among them fits the bill.And then u need to pray,talk to God about it,u could ask a few trusted pastors u know to pray about it for u but dont let them be the ones to choose,u make d final decision because you and you alone will live with ur decision.

I think this lady need accomplished man .

Men at 39 should have achieved their dream thus looking for younger girl to toy with.

r231:



Luv you too

Hahahahaha
you just cracked me up there...
Luv you plenty...

@op its simple, just marry the one who is not planning to use u for money rituals, who is rich and does not have a first wife somwhere .

Dumb comment

stint: @op its simple, just marry the one who is not planning to use u for money rituals, who is rich and does not have a first wife somwhere .