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190-the-clown:
why dont u try having se-x with him who knows maybe the feelins would come there after

lol...

Gratia: Fellow Nl, I need ur advice because am so confused right nw,

You are really confused,your post says it all

he has proposed marriage to me but my problem is that I don't feel anything for him,funny enough he hasn't ask of Sex from me.He's caring and I think he loves me but I don't love him.

Explain the situation to him(exactly the way you told us).
He won't be happy about your not wanting to be with him but he will understand and go find somebody else to be with(atleast you are honest with him).

what do I do because am afraid of loosing him,I have tried everytin to love him but the love is not forthcomin..

Afraid of loosing someone you dont like,you are funny(you are really confused)

pls help me what wil I do to have affections for him.

Dont bother wasting your time,you dont feel anything for him,so dont force the feeling on yourself

uboma:

lol...

dnt try sex, it wnt help matas, instead it'l leav u wit regrets

There is absolutely nothing you can do about this, just tell him the truth about how you feel and move on.

190-the-clown:
but its the truth now

It's not the truth. What if she gets pregnant and gives birth to an unwanted bastard after the father denies his involvement in the 10 minutes enjoyment

Then simply tel him...u rili dnt wana get attached wit him cz u dnt feel anything strong....u dig?

Tell him to make more money...That will change your mind.

you dont have feelin for someone nd u dont want to luse the person which means you care abt about him but you have somethins in your hrt that make you thinks you cant lov him,may be you are thinkin the way you met .just search your heart and dont be confused

Just be honest with him and let him know.

Well I hope you've not milked this guy dry only to start looking for a silly excuse now, if that's the case then nemesis will surely catch up with you.

However if trully you've tried loving him and making your affection for him grow, call him this moment ant explain to him in a subtly manner why you can't concede to his request.

I'll advice everybody both man/woman never to marry out of pity.

Ohh sweetheart its very simple. Make this known to him and stop further deceiving or whatever you have been doing. You will do him and yourself a favour if you act and act fast as regards letting him know how you really feel about him. Besides, you don't force yourself to fall in love. If after all the time you guyz have spent together the feeling is not forthcoming as you said, just let him know. The earlier, the better.

Good luck

Its better to be with someone who loves u than to be with someone you love. U can always learn to love him.

Tell ur self the truth to avoid problem in the future

190theclown:
why dont u try having se-x with him who knows maybe the feelins would come there after

What?!?! Which stupid reasoning be this? Goodness gracious.

davidif:


What?!?! Which stupid reasoning be this? Goodness gracious.

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