hey landers,longtime i guess.pls u guyz should pls help me dissect this question.is it wrong for a guy to show more love and affection than the girl?coz a colleague of mine just recently called it quit with his girl just because the babe took advantage of his over-love for her.why do the babes always see a guy that shows more love than they do as a 'MUGU'?

LET THE SECTION BEGIN/////////////////////

Love should be 50/50 so no one feels over loved or under loved.

Why don't I ever find guys like that?

No one should feel its their responsibility to love their other more.

Granted; in relationships the level of love coming from either side can and may never be equal. They should both strive to love the other more.

@ Busta

Am sure you will, jst keep searching if you r looking 4 one.

tngtech:

@ Busta

Am sure you will, jst keep searching if you r looking 4 one.

Lol. . .ok

ewons_1:

hey landers,longtime i guess.please u guys should please help me dissect this question.is it wrong for a guy to show more love and affection than the girl?because a colleague of mine just recently called it quit with his girl just because the babe took advantage of his over-love for her.why do the babes always see a guy that shows more love than they do as a 'MUGU'?
LET THE SECTION BEGIN/////////////////////

Because the guy in question is a MUGU?

What is the rationale of continuosly showing love to a person who does not reciprocate?

Abeg life is too short for one to waste affection to an ingrate.

It's like showing love to a crocodile

When two people are in love. The love can never be equal, one will always be more than the other. If the two persists, it gets to a time the love flips over & the other person does more loving.

All the same i think its beta for the guy to love more. relationships where the men loves more, makes sense to me. Although I think its better when its 55%-45% (man to woman) thing. Anything more than 10% difference could result to men being called mugu. And if its the woman that loves too much, men mostly take advantage of that & cheat on their girls.

dont let us deceive ourselves there is no how both love will be 50 50 it is either is 99% to 100% but i knw it can be 50 50

it cant be equal

Let it be balanced, on lopsidedness. If you by any means shows love more than it's reasonable, you run the risk of losing your love. So what becomes of all the I love you's.