I am 27years and a very beautiful lady although I'm petite but all the same people warm up to me all the tym. I'm in love with a guy but I'm too shy to tell him(funny enough a lot of guys are in love with me but he is the only one I love).he always use endearments terms and I know he is attracted to me(we r always tense around each other knowing that although we're attracted to each other it is against our religion to act on it)but I couldn't say anything dearing to him.I'm really confused should I tell him outright that I've fallen in love with him or should I wait for him to say it?

Until he tells you he is in love with you,you cant assume he loves you yet.

If you decide to wait for him to tell you he loves you,I'm sorry you may have to wait till eternity.


My2Cent:If you tell him you love him,you have absolutely nothing to lose,except that you will know where you stand,so baby girl tell him how you feel(so your mind can be at rest)

Send him hearthwarming signals,smiles whenever you two are together,try to touch him if possible and send him sms occasionally.If he is a sharp guy like me he go decode the message.

I strongly support the idea of a lady expressing herself to someone she feels right or in love with... its a free world and there is no time to waste, life is too short for delays.

Tell him ur mind there is nothing wrong in expressing ur feelings even if he turn u down just bear in mind dat u have done urself a favour by lifting a bundle and being able 2 express ur feelings, I dnt rule out the possibility of the guy going thru what u are going thru "inability or 2 shy or afraid 2 express his feelings" my friend only gf were a gal dat express her feeling 2 him nt because he dnt luv her but he was 2 shy 2 do it

Input: Send him hearthwarming signals,smiles whenever you two are together,try to touch him if possible and send him sms occasionally.If he is a sharp guy like me he go decode the message.

I will go wit this

L ol,u might not wanna send the wrong signals cos if he isn't in love with you,dts a great turn off.so my brothers tell me

k2039: Until he tells you he is in love with you,you cant assume he loves you yet.

If you decide to wait for him to tell you he loves you,I'm sorry you may have to wait till eternity.


My2Cent:If you tell him you love him,you have absolutely nothing to lose,except that you will know where you stand,so baby girl tell him how you feel(so your mind can be at rest)

Thank God I don't have to type anything. He just typed it all

eduson002: I will go wit this

correct... Just do am codedly.

Naija gurls de form o

Op

U did tell us if u re a virgin

It doesn't concern you I need an advice that's y I posted here.thank u

M M M: Op

U did tell us if u re a virgin

Exactly

fairygeh: L ol,u might not wanna send the wrong signals cos if he isn't in love with you,dts a great turn off.so my brothers tell me

That's a good one tnx

Input: Send him hearthwarming signals,smiles whenever you two are together,try to touch him if possible and send him sms occasionally.If he is a sharp guy like me he go decode the message.

M M M: Op

U did tell us if u re a virgin

Hehe...you nko? Abi dem tell you say man no fit be virgin?

jiddah4eva: I am 27years and a very beautiful lady although I'm petite but all the same people warm up to me all the tym. I'm in love with a guy but I'm too shy to tell him(funny enough a lot of guys are in love with me but he is the only one I love).he always use endearments terms and I know he is attracted to me(we r always tense around each other knowing that although we're attracted to each other it is against our religion to act on it)but I couldn't say anything dearing to him.I'm really confused should I tell him outright that I've fallen in love with him or should I wait for him to say it?

I don't get that part. What were you implying there?

You can loosen up abit but not to the extent of intimacy or telling him that you love him. Case being, what if he's just been nice and want no commitment, others: what if he's taking his time, what if he's shy or probably hoping for the right time. Whatever reason, you loosening up will create a good 'environment' and help him come up with the right words; the words you want to hear

You are asking the public a question that you should be asking him! *mouth sealed*