she spends on him without love

Is it not women that say that if they collect gifts from u, or u spend on them etc that it doesn't mean they love you or would want to date u and that it's just an act of kindness that afterall you were not forced. I bliv u shud follow their own rule.

Guy, knack your head for wall.

سحيميظل: Guy, knack your head for wall.

knack my head 4 wall?
Why?

سحيميظل: Guy, knack your head for wall.

knack my head 4 wall?
Why?

12 inches!:
Is it not women that say that if they collect gifts from u, or u spend on them etc that it doesn't mean they love you or would want to date u and that it's just an act of kindness that afterall you were not forced. I bliv u shud follow their own rule.

Tanx 4 ur suggestion.
But am afraid of dis lady.

Grow some ballz and tell her you are not ready for marriage yet.
Stop leading her on!

Nip it in the bud.

If girls can collect a guy's money and call him their maga, why can't a guy do the same to girls? *runs off*

U dnt have a big problem..
Tell her not to come over that u stay in the hostel..
Hook up a date with her, explain why u need more tym. (So the cash wont stop flowing), then retain the distnc relatnshp n flux ur mugu on the go..

Bravoe:

knack my head 4 wall?
Why?

knack my head 4 wall?
Why?

Try it and see, the answers will come to you.

digitalgeorgy: U dnt have a big problem..
Tell her not to come over that u stay in the hostel..
Hook up a date with her, explain why u need more tym. (So the cash wont stop flowing), then retain the distnc relatnshp n flux ur mugu on the go..

right on point!
But I already told her I stay off campus and she's very optimistic about cuming.
She even promised to get me a phone.

سحيميظل:
Try it and see, the answers will come to you.

get a life!

Amya: Nip it in the bud.

How?
Expantiate better please

Bravoe:
But I already told her I stay off campus and she's very optimistic about cuming.
She even promised to get me a phone.

then tell her u dont stay alone and u r nt the owner of the place(if she get money,make she rent plac 4 u*no tell her dis oooh**), tell her dat ur frnd wont be happy if u bring anoda prson home...
Agree to c her only if she's ready to go the same day. Dont be intimate wit her when u meet, bt hug and kiss is allowed..
Infact. U go pay 4 my advise..

As i see it there are two ways or more to in about this . Tell her the truth that she very much older than you and you don't think you will be ready for marriage till in five years time but you wouldn't mind continuing the r/ship and see her reaction. Mind you the goodies may stop or not but life goes on,this i will advice you to do or you may continue to lead her on, which is very bad ,but do not make any promises ,enjoy the r/ship while it lasts and know that the bubble can burst any time .

Bravoe:

get a life!

Who needs to get a life here??

Ryabcool: If girls can collect a guy's money and call him their maga, why can't a guy do the same to girls? *runs off*

*drags him back*
Why you dey run?

I don't understand the "guru" part, guy. Guru of 2go


BTW, do not toy with her life please. Forget the "small small change" & work for with your hands for "big big change", or aren't you a guru again

I find it really annoying when people (both male and female) use others for their benefits knowing well that they do not feel the same way about them. where is your pride ? whatever happened to the satisfaction you get from working hard for something and knowing it is fully yours. I am a girl and I just hate it when guys try to take advantage of you because you are in a better position than them. Please you know you will never marry her now or ever so just move on and let her find her true happiness.

At her age, she should know better.
And you, do the right thing. You already know.

poshboots: I find it really annoying when people (both male and female) use others for their benefits knowing well that they do not feel the same way about them. where is your pride ? whatever happened to the satisfaction you get from working hard for something and knowing it is fully yours. I am a girl and I just hate it when guys try to take advantage of you because you are in a better position than them. Please you know you will never marry her now or ever so just move on and let her find her true happiness.

true talk. In all honesty, I for one do not support him collecting her money and gifts. But this blame should be directed the most at girls who started the trend. If African(Nigerian) girls didn't start the trend, this guy's moral values wouldn't have allowed him come to this forum to ask the stupid question on this thread. I do not see African women stopping this anytime soon.

cindyrella:
*drags him back*
Why you dey run?

mommy no vex. I no want make una aluu me, na why I dey run

Yield: At her age, she should know better.
And you, do the right thing. You already know.

what's d ryt thing I already know?

Yield: At her age, she should know better.
And you, do the right thing. You already know.

what's d ryt thing I already know?

poshboots: I find it really annoying when people (both male and female) use others for their benefits knowing well that they do not feel the same way about them. where is your pride ? whatever happened to the satisfaction you get from working hard for something and knowing it is fully yours. I am a girl and I just hate it when guys try to take advantage of you because you are in a better position than them. Please you know you will never marry her now or ever so just move on and let her find her true happiness.

I already told her about d age difference.
But she's so blindfolded by her so called "love".
Is it my fault that she's acting lyk a dummy?

Tell her the truth. She deserves that much... if she no gree cut off ties else she myt turn offensive..

I don't know why women will never learn. it's only 1% of such relationships that ends up happily. it's either the guy is marrying you out of pity considering all you did for him or he's just scared of karma!

see naw, you know what to do but decide not to because of the so called "benefits" you're getting.

i know as a woman we can be so blinded when we think we're in love, but that does not mean the person we're with should not deem it fit to tell us the truth, no matter how it hurts.
you've told her about the age difference and how you won't be ready in the next 5yrs? what if she decides to wait? can you picture what might happen in 5yrs if you decide to dump her for another?

guy, i'll advice you stop leading her on and tell her your feelings now before she takes you to the land of no return! i believe there's a reason why you made mention of her origin.
make hay while the sun shines!

Let the lady know how u feell about her and forget about d small change u re getting frm her. And mind u, awuf they run belle o.

Ryabcool: true talk. In all honesty, I for one do not support him collecting her money and gifts. But this blame should be directed the most at girls who started the trend. If African(Nigerian) girls didn't start the trend, this guy's moral values wouldn't have allowed him come to this forum to ask the stupid question on this thread. I do not see African women stopping this anytime soon.

Two wrongs don't make it right!!!!



@ op.....
Pls leave the chick, make she carry go.....
Stop receiving gifts and things before the situation escalates beyond your control.


Next thread will be......

"Help, Help!! I'm marrying my benefactress tomorrow: and I don't know why"

You better watch out before you end up in her boyfriend's house vomiting money the way a broken tap spurts water!

She wants to marry you indeed!

My comment still stands....Chop her money till u're tired. Afterall many women do it. Don't miss this once in a life time opportunity. When u're tired just leave. Selfish aint it? Guess many girls are selfish then afterall this is 80% of them's normal behavior.

PS: Is "them's" good english?

See how desperate some (girlish) ladies can be..... Im guessin the lady really needs a Mr. Right.

BTW, op, it'll be advisable if you act right.., and the best way to do that is to be a gentile man and walk out on her.. Not withstandin d mergre influx..

Who knows, u may get to really met little-miss-i-love-you-for-real only if let go....