Odinaka00: Pls guys I would like to hear from you all.
I am a 25yr old guy, I stay in cape town Sa, my gf is in lagos nigeria.
I just discovered that eachtime we have misunderstanding, we love eachother more, I would like to knw if the same thing happens Ť☺ any of you....muitu obrigado!!!

acidosis™:
It's okay to fight a WWE (World Wrestling Entertainment) type of fight in your relationship esp when dealing with 'cheats' among Nigerian girls... but when you talk of "someone you love" - it is another form of madness influenced by a lustful desire prior to the imagination of your woman's/man's body..

Idowuogbo:
Ur Nigerian gals anthem is so boring... Try oda stunts abeg! Mstewww...

acidosis™:

Run enter bush...

Idowuogbo:
U first!

Idowuogbo:
Ur Nigerian gals anthem is so boring... Try oda stunts abeg! Mstewww...

@op
It cud make or break depending on d level of understanding and communicado.

Odinaka00:

Sometimes I get scared base on the fact that it could lead to break up tins you knw

D-Explorer:
Na-ah!! It makes a relationship lose its value.

k2039: Fights and arguments are inevitable in
relationships,it is learning to resolve differences that strengthens the relationship

Idowuogbo:
Awww... B d bigger person, make peace when u can.But! Wen ur endurance is constantly tested, u follow it up wiv a bold onset.

Odinaka00:


I thought of that too bro buh you knw quarellin in a relationship is inevitable na, we quarel once in a while, d las ┼iϻe we quarelled was juz last week, we didn't talk 4 like 2 days ßŮϯ when I thought of what caused Ŧħåϯ quarel, I realised that I caused it, I had to call her immediately and apologised to her and she was so happy

Odinaka00:


I thought of that too bro buh you knw quarellin in a relationship is inevitable na, we quarel once in a while, d las ┼iϻe we quarelled was juz last week, we didn't talk 4 like 2 days ßŮϯ when I thought of what caused Ŧħåϯ quarel, I realised that I caused it, I had to call her immediately and apologised to her and she was so happy

~vicky~:


quarreling is inevitable, but if you keep inviting it, your relationship tends to grow weaker the more. you speak out all your views, and what ever thoughts come to your mind are disclosed at that time which helps to understand each other in a better way.. indirectly u share so many things and can an understand what the other person wants and then u can solve your problems accordingly and can make better and happy relationship.you have to be matured too.

Odinaka00:


I don't think I in anyway invite quarelling in my our relationship neither do I do it on purpose, it jux happen, ßŮϯ I think d best thing is Ť☺ start avoiding it

Odinaka00:


I thought of that too bro buh you knw quarellin in a relationship is inevitable na, we quarel once in a while, d las ┼iϻe we quarelled was juz last week, we didn't talk 4 like 2 days ßŮϯ when I thought of what caused Ŧħåϯ quarel, I realised that I caused it, I had to call her immediately and apologised to her and she was so happy

AmBeautiful: hmm...

When fighting and quarreling becomes too much, it means there's still alot of immaturity and sincerely this immaturity most times comes from the guy, because its not everything a man sees or hears that he should get into a fight, keep malice or whatever.There are some things you men should just keep quiet over and leave the woman to rant and rant and rant OVER till she starts feeling stupid. And its most likely you both may not be compatible. And it simply indicates that you both will have alot of third party interference much later in the future.....

So its either you both learn how to handle your issues well and maturely or ...........

D-Explorer:

What keeps a relationship strong has always been proper understanding and not quarel. A little quarel does help to appreciate eachother's value but in this context, i think you need to control your emotions.

Odinaka00:


You have a very gud point my dear ßŮϯ would like you to read my post again, I never said we always quarel, I simply stated that I discovered that "our love grow more stronger" whenever we quarel....re you trying Ť☺ say that you nd yur bobo nor dey quarel most times?

Odinaka00:


I so much like ♈☺uЯ comments bro, thanks man

freecocoa: If there's anything good about quarreling in a relationship, then its the make up $ex and the fact that the drama could be funny at times.