Mynd_44: What you need to do is relax. When you are alone, take a pen and paper, and make a list of the qualities you want in a guy. List them all, his wage, behaviour and stuff, dîck length and everything.

Then make a list of your flaws too. You odour, you talk too much and so.

Then you look at the man's list and knock out those things which are unreasonable. The things which are just childish cos INFLATED EXPECTATIONS is a real bad thing in relationships then when you have streamlined your list, look at yours and see where you can adjust. Make yourself more lovable.

With all that, have an open mind. Don't close up and be rude, smile more, wear colourful clothes and don't look like you are morning, [b]plant your hair [/b]and try to get into more conversations with guys. Don't just stay there and say "hi"

if a guy walks up to you, listen to him. Stop rolling your eyes and just be you.

If these fails, I will personally find a guy for you, I swear

what will she plant on here hair pls? cassava, yam or vegetable? am lost


Op u don't have any issue as much as i can see. just be sure u r not at the wrong place. be more out going, always dress decent and smart with good your personality, the right person will come ur way.

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**Player**

Stop having expectations, people change.

They are not cars with particular specifications.

Good men are scarce.so.are women.

wow. with all this @OP i wish yu all the best. seem yur new here welcome.

Yes I am new. @davito. I love you all for the comments. You guys are the best! When the man comes, you guys will surely hear about it. *winks*.

omoladeade: I hope these answers your question:
I want a man who is open,I mean not secretive(this will enable me to trust him). A responsible,cool headed guy. I don't want a hot tempered guy who gets aggressive to the extent of slapping or beating. Never been assaulted by any guy tho. He shd be working(not to collect money 4m him o) but at least,he shdnt be idle lest he becomes d devil's workshop. Shd be a christian,yoruba. Then, a man who will appreciate a good girl for who she is and not take her for granted. I'm not looking for a perfect man cos I aint either but at least a good and serious person. Thanks

You need a guy with all these qualities huh?

Goodluck with your search

omoladeade: I hope these answers your question:
I want a man who is open,I mean not secretive(this will enable me to trust him). A responsible,cool headed guy. I don't want a hot tempered guy who gets aggressive to the extent of slapping or beating. Never been assaulted by any guy tho. He shd be working(not to collect money 4m him o) but at least,he shdnt be idle lest he becomes d devil's workshop. Shd be a christian,yoruba. Then, a man who will appreciate a good girl for who she is and not take her for granted.


I'm not looking for a perfect man cos I aint either but at least a good and serious person. Thanks

You first went ahead to give the description of a perfect guy in your first paragraph. Only for you to come back in thesecond paragraph to tell us you aint looking for a perfect guy.

Elebiju: I detest people like u,just because she needs counselling does not give u the flimsy chance to throw a cheap proposal around Pooh!idiota!

Wetin be your business inside? na so una dey drink panadol for anoda man headache. Gbeborun jatijati!

Mtscheweeeew!

omoladeade: I hope these answers your question:
I want a man who is open,I mean not secretive(this will enable me to trust him). A responsible,cool headed guy. I don't want a hot tempered guy who gets aggressive to the extent of slapping or beating. Never been assaulted by any guy tho. He shd be working(not to collect money 4m him o) but at least,he shdnt be idle lest he becomes d devil's workshop. Shd be a christian,yoruba. Then, a man who will appreciate a good girl for who she is and not take her for granted. I'm not looking for a perfect man cos I aint either but at least a good and serious person. Thanks

Btw, i discovered you didnt mention anything about your sexual preferences. Please state those as well cos na those ones concern me pass

omoladeade: Yes I am new. @davito. I love you all for the comments. You guys are the best! When the man comes, you guys will surely hear about it. *winks*.

we'll join you in prayers . hope we get to knw wen it happens. All the very best Omololade.

omoladeade: Hi nairalanders! I feel frustrated and rejected everyday as though I am in my own world alone. I am a homely and good girl that I knw I have what it takes for a guy to wanna propose/marry a girl. Been in relatnship in d past but one thing or the other would make us to break up like religion issues,sayin I'm too good to be jilted(so dey leave cos dey claim they aint ready to settle so dey wouldn't wanna waste my time). Not tryna paint myself white here cos we all have flaws. It just baffles me dat girls dat are not half as good as I am are lucky wit guys. Is it that something is wrong with me or I haven't just met the right one. I'm not the outgoing type. Should I start going out to meet a good guy(to where?) Or what do I do cos I'm lonely. I'm 28. I'm a makeup artiste so I go out whenever there is job and I go to church or visit friend n dats once in a while. Please advice me. I'll be waiting to answer any question. Thanks

Can we go indoor and have a chat?

wow,a lady looking for a good husband with all this features will have to be very patient,do you remember that the patient dog eat the fattest bone,i believe that with patient everything will fall into order,but first u said u are 28 years old and u are still single,come on which kind of guys have u been attracting since ur teens days,have u checked ur personality for instance,who do ur behaviour attract to u?is it guys that want just flings or casual relationships or guys that want to settle,my advice to you,check urself,check all possible areas of ur life and look at that single mistake u keep on repeating that makes this kind of men be attracted to u,becos u know that something has to change to attract the right kind of people.

^^