D-Explorer:

I still wonder if love dies or am i sounding absurd

sanb: Most people don't go into marriage with divorce at the back of their mind....

Marriage is like knowledge and you never stop acquiring knowledge. You learn something new everyday when married and you can't stop learning about your partner on a daily basis.

binger: you are just sounding uninformed...Yes,Love dies when you don't work on it.Your actions and in-actions can kill it.Your inveterate habits and character can cripple it.Love can diminish into thin air with time if there is no sustenance.

sanb: You got it...

Myne White: Marriage is about agreement and about working together, so how can one do this if they don't know their own personality?

As much of a romantic as I am, I agree that love needs some work if a couple is to match themselves as partners and teammates. For instance, my hubby's organizational skills help us to remain on point with our finances and various schedules, and my more chilled outlook keeps up the fun and spontaneity. But there's something else I like which I think is also necessary, we can switch it up. Like when he gave me a birthday surprise, or when I'm the one driving some of our responsibilities.

I don't put much stock in talk of gender differences or roles, I'm more about knowing who you are as an individual. And then as a couple with your SO, you find out what works for you, with mutual respect. This makes you appreciate that a different perspective from the other person in a relationship is not a gender war, or a call to battle, it could be just another aspect of their personality to discover.

Myne White: Marriage is about agreement and about working together, so how can one do this if they don't know their own personality?

As much of a romantic as I am, I agree that love needs some work if a couple is to match themselves as partners and teammates. For instance, my hubby's organizational skills help us to remain on point with our finances and various schedules, and my more chilled outlook keeps up the fun and spontaneity. But there's something else I like which I think is also necessary, we can switch it up. Like when he gave me a birthday surprise, or when I'm the one driving some of our responsibilities.

I don't put much stock in talk of gender differences or roles, I'm more about knowing who you are as an individual. And then as a couple with your SO, you find out what works for you, with mutual respect. This makes you appreciate that a different perspective from the other person in a relationship is not a gender war, or a call to battle, it could be just another aspect of their personality to discover.

Myne White: Marriage is about agreement and about working together, so how can one do this if they don't know their own personality?

As much of a romantic as I am, I agree that love needs some work if a couple is to match themselves as partners and teammates. For instance, my hubby's organizational skills help us to remain on point with our finances and various schedules, and my more chilled outlook keeps up the fun and spontaneity. But there's something else I like which I think is also necessary, we can switch it up. Like when he gave me a birthday surprise, or when I'm the one driving some of our responsibilities.

I don't put much stock in talk of gender differences or roles, I'm more about knowing who you are as an individual. And then as a couple with your SO, you find out what works for you, with mutual respect. This makes you appreciate that a different perspective from the other person in a relationship is not a gender war, or a call to battle, it could be just another aspect of their personality to discover.

Myne White: When two people spend good, quality time together, more often than not, physical attraction follows.

binger: Do you really think you love your spouse? Here is the best proof of Love-Trust.If you don't trust him,you don't really love him/her

D-Explorer:

That's interesting my dear. That was why i "LOL" at the end. You're right to an extent but people does graduate in the real sense.

190: What exactly is going on here

Everyone is just talking and making noise

Beync:
I don't think one can graduate from marriage because it's a life time learning institution. Except u r referring to divorce and that means that marriage has failed. If u graduate from something means u are thru with it. so marriage is not to be graduated from, rather you continue to grow to advancement, to more fulfilled, satisfying happy married life.

The importance of friendship before marriage cannot be over emphasized.friendship allows you to know you selves better before you can decide whether or not to go into marriage. your spouse should be your best friend not colleagues or other relations. if your partner is not fit to be your best friend then you have no business being together except your are in for benefits.And If each partners can make their main concern to be pleasing one another and giving one another then happiness is rest assured.

190: What exactly is going on here

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