I got a call dis evening from a friend of mine, who is in a deep poo cos of her lies &she urgently nids advice on wot 2do. I knw most of u wil find it difficult 2 believe but pls believe it cos its real,& if u want 2 criticize,do dat wit a solution pls. Dis friend of mine is a final year student of covenant uni, which she had d opportunty 2 study there thru d help of her bachelor uncle workn wit NNPC, her dad is a bus driver in a private nursery sch, while her mum is a yam trader. According to her, she said she went 4 her friends wedding 5months ago& dia she met a very comfortable, caring & loving guy whom she didn't knw wud end up considering marriage, & she has already startd wit lies about herself from day one. She said when d guy askd about herself & wot her parents does,she told him dat her mum is a matron @ UCTH while her dad works @ NNPC. D guy in question has already told his parent about his choice of life partner & he is 2 present her to them on sunday. Right nw she is confused on wot 2do, whether 2 tel him d real truth about herself or 2 call it quit wit him. Matured advice pls

@op what is ur advice to the girl first

Tell her to
Knack her head for wall, it will come naturally.

Nigerian girls (a.k.a pride & ego)

Una dey see am ?!

ikananwa: @op what is ur advice to the girl first

Well, IMO I told her she shud jux tell him d truth, dat if he rily luvs her he wil acept her d way she is

PREGNANT GIRL GETS ON THE BUS* BUS DRIVER:EXCUSE ME SIR COULD U GIVE HER UR SEAT MAN:NOOO SHE SHOULDA bleeped SOMEONE WITH A CAR.. Simple answer, she should let the guy know what's up before she end up single

she shud tel d guy d truth...al dis fake gals, so ur ashamed of ur parents dats y u had 2 lie 2 a guy. Hw e b na

I didn't want to say anything, but I just have to state the obvious fact.
She has lost the guy, except he's a maga!
How do you expect him to marry a liar? That's what is going to run through his mind, she only told me because she knew I was about to catch her, I haven't even married her yet and she has lied to be someone else. Do I really know this girl? What else is she not telling me.
He's not going to trust any word that comes out of her mouth again. That my lady friend is a recipe for disaster.
So, she tell or she no tell, its a train wreck.



This is my opinion.

*in olamide's voice* First of all....., the frequency of your 'she say', 'he say', 'dem say' tempts one to think u must be a certificate holder in gbegbórun/asiri, no? See as ya fingers (mouth) dey run.

Back 2 topic, my question is this - when he decides to see her parents nko?
On the other hand, if she decides to go on with the lies, please fail not to youtube and send us link.
Where is @redmosquito when u need him(her)?

[quote author=جيمس بوند]I didn't want to say anything, but I just have to state the obvious fact.
She has lost the guy, except he's a maga!

Abi? Choi! & she has bin prayn 4 a lyf partner

lightheart: Secondly, what if I am that guy you so speaketh of this hour?

Are u about taking someone 2 ur parents on sunday?

Nemesis will surely catch up on the girl sooner or later whether she likes it or not. The best she could do right now in my opinion is to let the guy know the truth before he finds out and face whatever consequences thereafter.. It's better late than never...
and hey! tell that babe to check her self esteem!

جيمس بوند: I didn't want to say anything, but I just have to state the obvious fact.
She has lost the guy, except he's a maga!
How do you expect him to marry a liar? That's what is going to run through his mind, she only told me because she knew I was about to catch her, I haven't even married her yet and she has lied to be someone else. Do I really know this girl? What else is she not telling me.
He's not going to trust any word that comes out of her mouth again. That my lady friend is a recipe for disaster.
So, she tell or she no tell, its a train wreck.



This is my opinion.

yeah she's lost him for real but what if she's not by some miracle, or what if the guy also has his own confession to make?
Miracle or no miracle! Confession or no confession! She should tell him all he needs to know.

CoxyB:
Are u about taking someone 2 ur parents on sunday?

Yes

Toppié2:
yeah she's lost him for real

I disagree.
U know how many lies go along with couples as they get seated in the marriage institutions?

Everyone lies. She can say, her dad works at a primary school and her mom is a businesswoman - she should also mention that her NNPC uncle provided her with a scholarship to school.

What she is doing is called branding and packaging - I wouldn't view them as lies.

Theres no much option here coz no matter how she try to keep it away from him, his going to find out one day...so the only thing she can do is to tell him and if she's lucky the guy might forgive her and overlook her lies if he cannot forgive her life goes on (lesson learnt)

Minion: My King! She lied to her bf from day one now things are serious what should she do?
Hades: Hmmmm!! She loves him! She lied! Tell her to hug the transformer at Ojo Street, Akoka. Most transformers dont kill. That particular one dey kill well well. I have seen it in action.
Minion: But why My Lord! Why must she die?
Hades: Young one! Death is the only release from foolishness
Minion: Ooo Dark One! I bow to your IQ

She should confess, shikena.

obowunmi: Everyone lies. She can say, her dad works at a primary school and her mom is a businesswoman - she should also mention that her NNPC uncle provided her with a scholarship to school.

What she is doing is called branding and packaging - I wouldn't view them as lies.

Shut*up ur mouth there,which kind of brandin is dat

1. I just hope that dude didn't affirm his love for her because of the job of her parents.
2. I also hope she won't dare go straight to him and spew this shyt to his face.
3. After all, if they remain together, that is LOVE.

Let me remind you guys that this two simple lies are definately going to lead to more and more! A lot more!
So in all honesty, the relatinship is built on lies..
Use your imagination for the rest

جيمس بوند: Let me remind you guys that this two simple lies are definately going to lead to more and more! A lot more!
So in all honesty, the relatinship is built on lies..
Use your imagination for the rest

so many lies, lies to cover up lies..n more lies..wat a wannabe..denyin ur poor parents lyk dat..d relatnship has bin a lie frm d stat. I dnt c any reasn why d guy shud even mary her..i hate dose gals..sew ur coat acordin 2 ur cloth

Well it is very wrong dat she lied abt her parents but who am I to judge her, well she cn right her wrong by telling the guy everyything about herself & family if the guy is still interested,he will tell her but is wrong to go into a. Relationship with a lie, all the best

Only a lie can protect a lie. Hw looooooooonnng can she keep lying?
Only d truth is d solution here.
She shld confess n tell him anoda lie...... + "i just dont want u 2 lose interest in me, I said it cos I admire u and want a chance with u, I'm sorry"...

Exponental: Only a lie can protect a lie. Hw looooooooonnng can she keep lying?
Only d truth is d solution here.
She shld confess n tell him anoda lie...... + "i just dont want u 2 lose interest in me, I said it cos I admire u and want a chance with u, I'm sorry"...

dats smart LMAO

Tell the truth . Nothing but the whole truth. Ask God for forgiveness whilst she is at it.

A liar deserves no pity or respect.

obowunmi: Everyone lies. She can say, her dad works at a primary school and her mom is a businesswoman - she should also mention that her NNPC uncle provided her with a scholarship to school.

What she is doing is called branding and packaging - I wouldn't view them as lies.

Mtchew...! Branding my foot!#extends 3 hot e-slaps to Obowunmi,apologises at the same time while trying to prove the slaps were 'branding and packaging'.

hmmm...this his a sirious things. a girls like that his a very big lie,she shld tell the men onlest troubled can hapund.

I think she should tell the guy the truth about herself. But if I were the guy I'd dump her.......she is fake.

She should tell him the truth and pay the price