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Is CC trying to steal my show behind me?

Where is my lawyer?




[size=4pt]Nice one BTW. U should take up d offer instead and put that talent to use.[/size]

chaircover: This is a Preview LOL (I am not on the show ooooo!) but I just had to share this cos its friday and I love fridays

Woke up this morning to find one of the back fence panels in the garden flat on the ground and the whole world can see into our back garden. There was heavy rain and wind all night long

Spent half an hour looking for my skinny jeans this morning. Dress down Friday Yayyyyyyy!!! Ive lost some weight and wanted to show off my new figure . . . I am certain mr CC hid them cos I eventually found them in his side of the wardrobe nonsense!!!

Mr CC, My SIL and I just got back in from cheering my daughter on at she interschool 1000 metres cross country run. It was freezing, windy, wet and very muddy and my heels of my boots are

By the way she came 17th out of 20 Bless her, but we still cheered her on loudly like she was usain Bolt brand new trainers that we purchased less than 24 hours ago are a right state as you can see from the picture.

Driving home from work this afternoon a light on the dash came on. Gen Gen Gennnnnnnnnnnnn! Well its like this. My car normally goes to the dealer for a service but 2 weeks ago Mr CC thought he would save some money by taking it to a local gbogbo ishe garage. I wasnt too keeen at the time but i didnt want to make a fuss so it didnt look as if i didnt appreciate his help. Since that car came back from service its been one thing after the other and Ive been complaining since. I mean which kind of garage services a car and doesnt valet it or update the onboard computer. It even had grease fingermarks on the door

. . . . . . So I whinged about this light coming on the dash and he went to fetch the car manual. . . . . The manual says its my brake pads!!! break pads ke!! I thought your gbogbo ishe garage changed the pads and charged you for it . . . . anyway I gave him the silent "its ok" "im fine" treatment and a few minutes later I heard him call his gbogbo ishe garage up and complain to them. He is taking the car back tomorrow. . . . so the silent treatment "its ok" "im fine" mode is deactivated and we are cool again

The show don start - unofficially.
Good CC. This is exactly what T-bebe has in mind.

@Tgirl - that my number no complete o. There's supposed to be a 'half dozen' single number somewhere, put it anywhere and we have it.

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Oya na,wher are d oda peopl,so far only cc has contributed

Tgirl ow bout this,to get d show on d road,since most of d peopl nominated avn't been abl to contribut yet,wat if any person,that has smthn entertainin or teachabl moments to share bout their marriage ,is allowed to do so

Although this is a family event, we all know that in families there r the good, the bads, and the uglies. It will b nice 2 also focus on the hard reality of life for some families out there. So I will like to nominate myself 2 bring a complete different aspect 2 family as we know it. I have a happy family home, successful, very proud of my family and have many extra marital affairs and gf on payroll. My spouse knows about my many escapades and I don't try 2 hide any of it from her. I will try 2 keep it as clean as possible but also as real as possible, if u care 2 accept my nomination since I am fairly new on NL.

RudySmith: I have a happy family home, successful, very proud of my family and have many extra marital affairs and gf on payroll. My spouse knows about my many escapades and I don't try 2 hide any of it from her. I will try 2 keep it as clean as possible but also as real as possible, if u care 2 accept my nomination since I am fairly new on NL.

Are you serious??

How long have you been married for, if you don't mind my asking?

Efe why can't you stay tuned I can't wait !

Efemena_xy:
Are you serious??
How long have you been married for, if you don't mind my asking?

We r not here 2 judge others but I think this will b a way 2 shed light on the reality of family life, and not the dream that many think they will end up in. We have been married +3 yrs, dated on and off 4 close 2 10yrs, we have 1 child 2gether, I have 1 child from a previous relationship. I have always been honest about who I am and what I am able to offer as a partner. The family struggle is on all front, the relationship front, the parental front and the personal front.

RudySmith:

We r not here 2 judge others but I think this will b a way 2 shed light on the reality of family life, and not the dream that many think they will end up in. We have been married +3 yrs, dated on and off 4 close 2 10yrs, we have 1 child 2gether, I have 1 child from a previous relationship. I have always been honest about who I am and what I am able to offer as a partner. The family struggle is on all front, the relationship front, the parental front and the personal front.

You are tripping buddy! why are you spilling the beans!

Sorry guys 4 d silence. Will make updates later.

For now, pls joins us at the Lit Debate.

Happening live.

https://www.nairaland.com/1102291/use-child-soldiers-good-phenomenon

jidegirl12: You are tripping buddy! why are you spilling the beans!

Spilling da beans is what has kept us 2gether 4 so long, like going 2 da supermarket and knowing exactly what u r buying.

RudySmith:

Spilling da beans is what has kept us 2gether 4 so long, like going 2 da supermarket and knowing exactly what u r buying.

Noo I meant you are giving out the story before the show starts.... Whatever rocks your boat man .... it doesn't concern me.

^ Sorry, I just wrote about who I am, 4 people 2 understand where I am coming from since I am new here. I thought that what is important is the everyday juicy details, and the main focus of this thread, like a diary.

RudySmith: ^ Sorry, I just wrote about who I am, 4 people 2 understand where I am coming from since I am new here. I thought that what is important is the everyday juicy details, and the main focus of this thread, like a diary.

Of course the juicy stuff's what makes the show interesting....I can't wait to read your page....like I said if it works for you ... Why not ....

Efe I'm being nice o!

RudySmith:

We r not here 2 judge others but I think this will b a way 2 shed light on the reality of family life, and not the dream that many think they will end up in. We have been married +3 yrs, dated on and off 4 close 2 10yrs, we have 1 child 2gether, I have 1 child from a previous relationship. I have always been honest about who I am and what I am able to offer as a partner. The family struggle is on all front, the relationship front, the parental front and the personal front.

No one's judging you here. It's all about sharing experiences and having a peek preview of other people's marriages and understanding what works for them.

I'm curious though, how does your wife cope with the knowledge that you're embroiled in extra-martial affairs? Or do you have an "open" relationship where she too is free to have a man / other men on the side too?

What about your kids? Are they aware of what's going on?

jidegirl12:

You are tripping buddy! why are you spilling the beans!

He's not. He's giving us a sneak preview.

jidegirl12: Efe why can't you stay tuned I can't wait !

I'm hooked on his story already. It's definitely unconventional (to me, that is).

Rudysmith, are you and your wife Nigerians?

See all of you are like sharks already surrounding the man..that's what I view in my head

Rudy I'd say you keep it as it is until you are endorsed by Tee and then you can open the can

^^ Killjoy

How else am I gonna get my "kicks" this dull, grey, wet Sat?

Lol @ Sharks!

Efemena_xy: ^^ Killjoy

How else am I gonna get my "kicks" this dull, grey, wet Sat?

Lol @ Sharks!

I've been looking for you to save me from kobo on that thread!

^^ Lol!

Babes wetin Kobo do?

Anyway, looks like coogar's got your back - your knight in shining armour, I daresay

Efemena_xy: ^^ Lol!

Babes wetin Kobo do?

Anyway, looks like coogar's got your back - your knight in shining armour, I daresay

He is indeed.... that guitar! ... just tell him to back off..he cannot save me!

I had to resolve to liking cooger's post( looks left and right) you know I don't like too much wahala ... we just want them to be family again since the child's involved!( whispers).

Sorry o Tee... I need to talk to Efe ASAP that's why I'm here

Lol! You'll be fine. It's an internet forum, people are bound to have differing views.

I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Now tell me, what's this "ish" between you & your ex, Mr G? You falling for his devilishly good looks (again)? Even though the guy nor get substance?

He's gonna run back to his wife sisi at the slightest hint of wahala...

Of course.

Abi wetin I for do now?

I know all his agenda.... I'm watching him like a hawk
Sisi needs to share too ....lmao ... I think Guitar just came back to his Annie ( or wait who's Annie here?)! I can't laugh jor I'm exhausted!

Sharp girl! So you got my drift, re: Annie

Efemena_xy: Sharp girl! So you got my drift, re: Annie

You are bad! I learnt from the Pro

Well here is my two cents: I think the "reality show" is a good idea if it indeed depicts the true "reality " of marriages today and not the ideal or pre concived notion of one individual perception of marriage i.e the OP. So here we go with a "so called reality show" but its not a reality show because the cast is selected by the OP who already has her opinion set in stone of what a marriage truely should be. When here "reality" of marriage may not be the same as another person's reality of marriage.
This show can only work if the following is in placed, so far the concept is totally skewed and is rally a figment of the OP's imagination, the concept itself lacks dept. The bottom line is if you want to reach the audience on NL, you should try to incorporate the following:

1.) Include many participants @ least 5 married couples depicting their live, like most reality shows their are usually 5+ people they are following.
2.) These people should be all sorts of charecters, with different personalities, i.e people with open marriages, long distance relationships, etc.
3.) Married couples who are newleweds, long term marriages etc.

The concept of "a couple with a good marriage" and a "bad marriage" is so old and 1920's variety need to be put in place to make the concept a little more exciting. Also if possible you can be non bias and actually moderate the thread that would be a welcomed gesture!

Hmmm. I smell a bomb about to go off on this thread.

@tgirl. I have a question though. How graphic are these married couples supposed to get concerning their 'good' and 'bad' experiences. You do know that the more colorful a couples' lives are, the more interested members will be in their stories and in effect, the other 'politically correct' couples will quickly lose relevance. So, how do you propose to cope with that?

agiboma: Well here is my two cents: I think the "reality show" is a good idea if it indeed depicts the true "reality " of marriages today and not the ideal or pre concived notion of one individual perception of marriage i.e the OP. So here we go with a "so called reality show" but its not a reality show because the cast is selected by the OP who already has her opinion set in stone of what a marriage truely should be. When here "reality" of marriage may not be the same as another person's reality of marriage.
This show can only work if the following is in placed, so far the concept is totally skewed and is rally a figment of the OP's imagination, the concept itself lacks dept. The bottom line is if you want to reach the audience on NL, you should try to incorporate the following:

1.) Include many participants @ least 5 married couples depicting their live, like most reality shows their are usually 5+ people they are following.
2.) These people should be all sorts of charecters, with different personalities, i.e people with open marriages, long distance relationships, etc.
3.) Married couples who are newleweds, long term marriages etc.

The concept of "a couple with a good marriage" and a "bad marriage" is so old and 1920's variety need to be put in place to make the concept a little more exciting. Also if possible you can be non bias and actually moderate the thread that would be a welcomed gesture!

I agree with some of your points. It would be a good show if we can get away from the conventional happy marriage idea. I'll love to see couples that are very happy in :
Open marriages polygamy
Atheist/no religion marriage.
The "supposed " happy marriage
Etc.

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yea, I agree with CC.
NO JUDGING, NO SNEERS, NO RAISED EYEBROWS OR 'ADVICES'.
Just a REALITY show.
The participants should lay it down as it is, NO ONE is perfect.
There are no prices to be won. No marks to be awarded.
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There'll be reactions though, to spice it up