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Re: My Mother Inlaw by 2sexy(m): 8:06pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:Thank you... you just want me to those say nice words or say I will do this for my wife, I buy this.. eh no, I wont take nonsense from anyone who speak of my wife any how. You talked about me being sentiment but I see you are being sentimental too in this case just because you are a woman and have chosen to take side along that line. If that is what you want me to say, I am sorry to disappoint you. I repeat she has to earn it. I dont care what that means to you. Thank you. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by 2sexy(m): 8:14pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
Ujujoan: My mother is different and she didnt just decide to cook. She heard that at about 5pm or so, someone who was sick hasnt eating. common... we are humans. Before the man was taken to the hospital, he was battling with the illness at home and did wife care? NO! it was after her saw that he could no longer cope that he went to the hospital himself. I followed him because he could no longer support himself. What if the man had died under such circumstance? Na to come inherit property abi? Abeg me I no sabi support bad thing for this life way I come o. When I speak, I speak the truth. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by coogar: 8:18pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
jennykadry: if you feel so strongly about someone slapping your neice, how much more if you perceive one toothpick-legged chic is mistreating your son. the same son you carried for 9 months and spent the top dollar on? abegi, you would do worse than the op's MIL.
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Re: My Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 8:20pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
Lmao! Cooger o! blackbury!! |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 8:27pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
coogar: i'm happy the naija men got duped. Amadioha ma Jie kwa gi olu Mbaise babes are the best We are good loyal and industrious wives And we are more fertile than rabbits too Before you shout Okija we have popped out 3 hefty boys in a row and ready for the 4 th |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Kobojunkie: 8:30pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
2sexy: Thank you... you just want me to those say nice words or say I will do this for my wife, I buy this.. eh no, I wont take nonsense from anyone who speak of my wife any how. You talked about me being sentiment but I see you are being sentimental too in this case just because you are a woman and have chosen to take side along that line. Stop trying to push it all off on others. Those are your words. I simply asked you a question --- which you never answered by the way. However, all you have done is innundate us with stories of how any woman you get married to essentially has to "PAY UP" for that 'privilege'. And I am simply giving my honest stance on those word that have been emanating from your own side of this. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by coogar: 8:31pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
babyosisi: |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
I am enjoying those clips of one of my favorite actresses Eniola Badmus I love me a confident woman She is a big girl with a ton of confidence Big girls rock! |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by 2sexy(m): 8:36pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:I hear you na... when I mean earn it, I dont mean slavery, okay? |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Kobojunkie: 8:40pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
2sexy: I hear you na... when I mean earn it, I dont mean slavery, okay? When any person who has a good idea what a marriage relationship should be reads the words "EARN IT" or any synonym of such applied to marriage, the alerts go off as the person knows something is wrong. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by maclatunji: 10:14pm On Dec 13, 2012 |
babyosisi: Nice advert, I am almost tempted to invest in one of your sisters already. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:18am On Dec 14, 2012 |
coogar: Did she maltreat him? Show me where? |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 2:00pm On Dec 14, 2012 |
maclatunji: Just to warn you,out of state suitors have a longer list of things to buy You have to prove your manhood o because you are getting a rare gem Is your pocket ready? |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by maclatunji: 2:56pm On Dec 14, 2012 |
babyosisi: Reevaluating the prospects. It all depends on my personal valuation of the gem in question. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by 2sexy(m): 10:05am On Dec 15, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:whatever... I will not want what happened to my elder brother to happen to me. I dont know why you just fail to see what I have been trying to just because of the feminine ego in you. Yes, she is my wife and she deserve the good things as a wife but she try to abuse it just because she is my wife, she get served fair and square. In all my life since I have been in this world, I always make sure that when I take actions, people dont blame me when they hear it and I guess that is what makes me tolerant. For instance, my immediate elder brother's wife was trying to cause division between I, my brother and my elder sister. And since my mum just died at that time, we stayed together. My younger sister left because she could no longer tolerate it. By the time I decided to leave, guess what my most eldest sister said. she knew I am very tolerant and for me to say I want to leave, even though she didnt take that of my younger sister serious, she knew something was wrong and she became very upset with the wife. You dont know me and you are just saying things based on sentiment. I wont feed that sentiments lady, I wont. period. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 11:06am On Dec 15, 2012 |
2sexy: whatever... I will not want what happened to my elder brother to happen to me. I dont know why you just fail to see what I have been trying to just because of the feminine ego in you. You speak as if you are doing your to-be wife a favor by marrying her. : What if the reverse is the case? |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by 2sexy(m): 10:23pm On Dec 15, 2012 |
Vikin:You women will never understand my point after over 5000 word typed. na wa oooo. hmmm. I am just wasting my time doing this. kai! |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by plaetton: 3:27pm On Dec 16, 2012 |
maclatunji: Right on point. I am beginning to wonder what marriage means to this generation of women. This whole thread has been about the woman's MIL. Most of you have forgoten that it swings both ways. Like I posted earlier, in far majority of the cases, it is the wife's mother, siblings and relatives that come to live or stay with married couples. Men are usually the ones who have to put up the inconvenience and excesses of MILs and siblings of their wives. And men endure all this with patiene and wisdom. Wisdom is the key word here. The questions remains: Why is it the women that are always insecure,paranoid and quick to complain about the husband's mother and relatives?. This is what happens all the time. The wife is free to bring her battalion of relatives to her home, but when her MIL or relatives from her husband's side show up, it becomes an unbearable burden for her and threat to her well being and marriage. It is always a double standard. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 5:52pm On Dec 16, 2012 |
plaetton: My stand on MIL is clearly stated on this thread ,I agree that everywoman should do everything within her power to be at peace with her MIL But with all due respect,the family of the woman and that of the man are different in a way when it comes to visiting The woman's mother( and sisters) come to her house most times to help her and will do things without being asked to help make her daughters life easier The MIL and her older daughters many times come expecting to be served and be waited on hands and feet by her DIL,they expect and sometimes demand it of their brother's wife There is a world of difference between the two Your own relatives will not make those demands of you. A daughter sees her mother in her home most times as a helping hand,she can be asked to clean to help take care of babies,you don't even need to ask ,your mother will gladly do it and then do some more. Let any woman try to use the same way and ask her MIL to cook ,clean or bathe a child ,her story will reach her matrimonial village of how the untrained DIL wanted to turn her MIL into a house girl,commanding her around etc Speak to any DIL about what I just said,if they are truthful they will agree with me. I love my MIL dearly but my mother visiting is of greater help to me in the home than my MIL visiting One I have to work harder,the other diminishes my work load That is just the bare naked truth 4 Likes |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by 2sexy(m): 7:06pm On Dec 16, 2012 |
babyosisi: Well spoken... na only be the person wey I see for here among the women with more wisdom surpassing the others. I think you are older than the rest by years of marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by Afam4eva(m): 7:34pm On Dec 16, 2012 |
babyosisi:Don't you think you're being a little bit selfish? Everything seems to be about you and not you and your husband. Doesn't your husband also deserve help from his siblings and mother just like you do your siblings and mother? 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by maclatunji: 1:08am On Dec 17, 2012 |
^New definition of marriage for the "liberated" woman: A union in which the husband does everything and anything to please his wife whilst she expects him to be thankful for selecting him to be her boy-toy with which to fulfil all her sexual desires and fantasies. I don't know, tell me if that's selfish. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by plaetton: 3:17pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
maclatunji: ^New definition of marriage for the "liberated" woman: A union in which the husband does everything and anything to please his wife whilst she expects him to be thankful for selecting him to be her boy-toy with which to fulfil all her sexual desires and fantasies. Yes, and when down the road , the man's eyes finally opens and he begins to assert his mansculinity, then they label him, a bully, a control freak, and so on. And if the man happens to be close to his mother, she gets the blame for turning his son against his lovely wife. Women possess all the good qualities imaginable. But the fact remains that women are excellent manipulators. Women are sub-consciously driven by the need to emasculate a man and put his balls in their purses. Women basically want to remote control men. Some do it by their beauty and charm and sex appeal, most who have no charm and sex appeal try do it through other crude means. Women are the biggest patrons of babalawos- and it always have to do with their marriage or relationship issues. Always seek to have control of the energy of the marriage union. This me me generation is worse. |
Re: My Mother Inlaw by maclatunji: 3:54pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
^That is quite a comment in support of my post. The question is: should we blame them? They are possessive by nature, maybe they can't help it. For many women in Africa, their children's love especially the son's is the most important thing in their lives especially after they have reached menopause. They are no longer driven by sex but compulsive and obsessive fretting over their sons. Remember, the wife is equally possessive but she seeks to keep her husband with physical gratification and often ignores his emotional needs. The stage is set for a classic battle between the Mother-in-Law and her son's wife. One seeks to win him over by meeting his emotional needs whilst the other seeks to keep him on her side by meeting his physical needs. Who will win? Ladies, over to you. 1 Like |
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