Settled

You know what u want in a relationship, good that u have two ladies by which u can make comparison to know ur final choice, for me, l can't tell which is d best. You seem to base ur assessment on financial ground, there are other factors required when making decision 4 marriage, look inward.

Are your finances going down because you give Ada more money than you give Uche? Just kidding! I understand what you mean. I assume Ada is younger and Uche older right? Your problem here is Age and money! Uche by your description is a good and lovely girl who has "positive" aura about her but it seems her age is a factor putting you off! While Ada is much younger i guess? But you are afraid that her "negative" aura will affect your finances?
And you are probably in your late 30s or early 40s and in need of a wife thus why your pastor is involved!
My brother stop wasting time and go get married to the one your heart is pleased with before you lose them both.
I.......G.......B......O M........E......N!!!!!!!!

Hmm.... this is a real issue... But why not start looking from within?

There are two things in life that you do not need any person advice .
1. To go to war .
2. Whom to marry .
My brother please follow your heart .
Reading your comment you already love the second person most , He who fines a wife , fines a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord .( When you are faithful,including wealth ).

You have already made up your mind about Uche.

I really can't comprehend what you are asking?

Just follow your mind,but then make sure its you who decides what you really want and not your parents, pastor e.t.c, but you.