Kirinwa: I paid a visit to a friend of mine and found out that her sister is more beautiful and sexy than she is.Infact if am given a choice between them I'll probably choose her sister over her.Guys have you found yourself in this dilemma before and how did you cope?Although we are just friends no romantic attachment at the moment coupled with it being a distant one.I have to travel atleast 3hours to see her with the dangers and financial obligations.
Am thinking about quitting now.Can't marry someone and still have romantic feelings for her sister. Hmm.

Guys share your views and girls share yours how do you feel if your guy is into your sister?

Ivynwa:

Yeah hurry up and quit cause as shallow minded as you are making yourself seem you may regret getting married if you wake up the day after your wedding and come across a more beautiful woman on the road. I agree that one should be with a person that appeals to one in the first place but you also appreciate people for the qualities they have not just for the pretty looking face or else you will want to be with all the pretty faces in the world.

You don't have to make decisions with the stuffs packaged in between your legs young man, there are more to life than "miss pretty face" and "Miss s-exy".

greatgod2012: Shallow thinking and mindedness.

So, each time u see a more beautiful lady, after your marriage, you will always quit.
Good to know that.

k2039: kirinwa, you fell my hand and leg with this kind of thread.

Adaeze003: op I aint trying to diss you but I just wanna let you know that you will NEVER marry the most beautiful gal in naija talk less of the world. There's always gonna be someone better so if that will make you quit your relationship or cheat then your wife to be is in for a ride(wouldn't wanna be her)#

gboss4sure: Are you more interested in beauty than Love?

dmcdad: Gosh!!! This is f**king unbelievable... Permit me to presume that you are either immature, inexperience or ignorant of the nitty-gritties for going into a relationship and/or marriage.

It's alarming to note that, at this stage of your life, you don't really know what you want out of a relationship (don't even talk about marriage, because with this thread you put up, it shows you sure don't know anything about that) and as such, anything goes for you (beauty & general appearance). Don't get me wrong, there is nothing bad in getting to date a beautiful lady, but you need to set your priority straight. Beauty and the likes are wonderful attributes, but they are secondary in consideration whenever you wanna talk about matters of the heart (love and relationship). What you should be more mindful of is the inner qualities latent in a person. What does the bible say about a virtuous woman? That she is beyond the price of pearl(not about the physical appearance, but the attributes that are more than just the eyes meet. One like that will definitely make you live longer.

The truth of the matter is, beauty fades. It's just a matter of time. You can peruse through 2sexy's thread (my ex is dying of frustration). In the thread he highlighted the fact that, he couldn't even look at his ex gurl eyeball-to-eyeball. Why? Because the beauty of then, was gone. She was looking older, with pimples all over her face blah blah blah...

It also shows that you never liked the gurl in question. So, my humble advice is that, don't ever rush into anything with anyone if you don't really feel the spark, and when you do feel the spark, nurture it until it becomes fully blown. One other thing you must also take cognizance of is that, you should work thoroughly on yourself so that you would always be contented with whomever you are with, irrespective of the person's beauty, because you will always come across someone (if not people) that are more beautiful and physically endowed with everything you might crave for in a woman. I gave this advice to my elder brother sometime ago, that he should choose someone and stick with the person for the right reasons, instead of trying to get every beauty he sees around, and today he is a changed man and a very committed individual.

In a nutshell, go into a relationship for the right reason and with the right person, and be ok with the person's physical appearance. Beauty is good, but it shouldn't be the sole requirement for going into a relationship, there are more things worth considering than meets the eye.

Take care and goodluck

ChopUrMoni:

FOOLISHNESS!!!!! So... if you find another girl prettier than her sister you will also live the sister for that girl. You better redefine what LOVE is otherwise you would always be chasing after the next most beautiful girl... Shame on you!

Kirinwa:

Should I have kept it to myself?

ChopUrMoni:

I don't think so hun BUT if you men really believe that... keep changing girls until u get the one at the top of the beauty spectrum if look is all their after.

ChopUrMoni: I CANT stand guys like this!!!! You DONT even love the sister. Its just an attraction. Once you have slept with her you will start REGRETTING why you married her instead of the first one.

k2039: dmcdad you already flogged this thread, the level of intelligence and wisdom you exhibit still amazes me, about time I subscribed to your school of thought.

ChopUrMoni:

Yes.. thats what they all say. Until the deal is done... THEN your eyes go open and you will see it for what it is. Now ur just ignorant and blind. Enjoy ur pursuit of ur lustful desire while u deceive urself calling it love.