sexkillz: If you consider that cheating, then you never fully understood what cheating means, nor what friends with benefit means. . . In fact, you don't know what you got yourself into.

Mr knowitall.:


you said a lot, but you didnt answer the question nah.....

Mr knowitall.:


you said a lot, but you didnt answer the question nah.....

Mr knowitall.:
If you and your friend agree to be exclusive friends with benefits, and the friends starts sleeping with other people, would you consider that cheating?

sexkillz: You prefer point blank answers then. . . The answer is NO.

You both are in no form of relationship and owe each other nothing therefore.

Mr knowitall.:


but you missed the key word " exclusive friends with benefits"....

Mr knowitall.:
marriage, dating, fiance etc etc.....arnt those just another world for exclusivity......if the label girlfriend or boyfriend is not there, but you promised to be exclusive, essentially doesn't that mean the same thing as a relationship?

sexkillz: Bro, chill out. . .

Nothing like "exclusive friend". That's childish and pure bullshit! Who comes up with these phrases anyway?

If you want "exclusive", get into a "committed relationship". Can you commit yourself to just a friend? C'mon man.

Mynd_44: It can't be called cheating but it is a breach in trust of some form since there is an exclusivity in it. But all this is in theory, in real life, Friends with Benefits does not go with exclusivity jorh.

Mr knowitall.:


nothing like exclusive friend? im going to assume u live in niaja......theres plenty here in the US, amongst college kids......plenty....

Mr knowitall.:


you can have "exclusive friend with benefits" with the right person nah....

Mr knowitall.:
im really still trying to understand why you guys think "exclusive friends with benefits" cant happen.....it makes perfect sense to me......

fukcwitme :
I think its cheating since the relationship is exclusive. In EFWB both partners agree not to sleep with other people so when one partner sleeps with another person, it's cheating. Its basically the same as cheating in regular relationship only that EFWB doesn't have the "bf/gf" title or watev.

Mr knowitall.:
im really still trying to understand why you guys think "exclusive friends with benefits" cant happen.....it makes perfect sense to me......

Mynd_44:
It makes sense in theory but we noth know that real life is a different game on it's own

Mr knowitall.:


I understand you bro....but the question was if two people promise each other to be "[/b]exclusive[b]" regardless of their relationship status, is that cheating? because you have promised to be exclusive.....

sexkillz: I'd rather be in an "exclusive" committed relationship where i know my efforts will be worthwhile. . .

No thanks.

sexkillz: If you consider that cheating, then you never fully understood what cheating means, nor what friends with benefit means. . . In fact, you don't know what you got yourself into.

Mr knowitall.:
im really still trying to understand why you guys think "exclusive friends with benefits" cant happen.....it makes perfect sense to me......

fukcwitme :
I think its cheating since the relationship is exclusive. In EFWB both partners agree not to sleep with other people so when one partner sleeps with another person, it's cheating. Its basically the same as cheating in regular relationship only that EFWB doesn't have the "bf/gf" title or watev.

mondi_cheeks: It's not cheating it's jus whoring arnd