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Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 9:58am On Dec 31, 2012 |
anitank: Okay my Lady.... |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 10:06am On Dec 31, 2012 |
Sweet.gurl: You welcome. Anytime... |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Suprises: 10:25am On Dec 31, 2012 |
@Op If spending real money on a sexy gal like u is labelled gold digging then i wil endorse it.Mehn...U luk so pretty,i wil be in brisbane in 3weeks time,wil like to see u then |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by spurlge(m): 10:27am On Dec 31, 2012 |
[quote author=Goldieluks][/quote] most of the rich folks would die a virgin if they stick to this plan #justsaying. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by usermane(m): 10:37am On Dec 31, 2012 |
dmcdad:You see thats is where u r mistaken @dmdcad. I wasn't generalising but i said 'a lot of men' and of course u can bear witness to that. 'A lot' does'nt mean 'all' but a high percentage, >90% in this case. Also when i mentioned 'we men are too superficial', i wasn't generalising. Believe me, a lot of guys would overlook good character/manners for beauty but will not overlook beauty for good character/manner however @usermane is not that type of guy. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by bukatyne(f): 10:37am On Dec 31, 2012 |
D sage: @op, since you're not a male, you cannot know how the men feel when they meet a lady they really love especially beautiful one. It's natural my dear. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by opetiti: 10:58am On Dec 31, 2012 |
Ur gf meets an already made man,u call her a gold digger bt ur sista meets an already made man u say it's a favour frm God. Hummmmmmmm 3 Likes |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Sweetgurl2(f): 11:04am On Dec 31, 2012 |
Suprises: @Op Thank u for the compliment. You can keep ur money. Wld u be in Brisbane? I'm in Syd. But will be great to catch up if u are around. PM me. Why Brisbane city? What are u there for? |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by mexzony: 11:06am On Dec 31, 2012 |
Sweet.gurl:To be honest as a guy myself you make some pretty good points and am impressed by your observations because they have some truth in them.Good work. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Suprises: 11:07am On Dec 31, 2012 |
Sweet.gurl:kk...I wil do dat |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by warrior101: 11:23am On Dec 31, 2012 |
tny60: to me this is just a symptom of guys reaching above their level. Sometimes i wonder about these people called women... Always want to eat their cakes and have them back. We have equal rights. We need to see more women charming guys with candy,flowers,and fanciful stuffs to get in their pants too.. (Men are human beings too just like women and we think alike believe me). But NO. Women will never do that because they enjoy the attention and the benefit they get from it all. I am not saying it's not good but it's double standard and we know it. There is no need denying it. We are ready to take care of you people, but cut the BS. The prove that women are gold diggers is:- 1. When they are dating a rich guy, they use him to climb to a certain stage and then dump him for a richer guy. 2. It is rare for a working class lady to date a poor guy. (Unless she is out of date. LOL and even at that she still tries to belong) Q. why are they always in need of a rich guy no matter their status? The only time you see a hard working woman is after child(ren) birth(shakara don end) and the man is not responsible... 1 Like |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 11:42am On Dec 31, 2012 |
usermane: Well, when you used the phrase "we men", I did conclude that you were talking about men in general (which means all men), but since you meant something different, that's okay... |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by kaboninc(m): 11:45am On Dec 31, 2012 |
opetiti: Ur gf meets an already made man,u call her a gold digger bt ur sista meets an already made man u say it's a favour frm God. Hummmmmmmm Yes oh. God's favour indeed. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Nobody: 12:03pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
warrior101: +1000000000000000000000000...so on point |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by mystiqueem(f): 1:24pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
Gold Diggers She be miner? Lol! On a serious note: lets cast our minds back to the past when women only love for LOVE. 1. She suffers through hardship with him 2. Prays and fast daily for God Almighty to help him find his feet. 3. Sometimes do unmentionable things 'so he can eat, cloth and have transport fare for occasional running around' 4. Gets beaten by him but takes it as frustration 5. Even rebukes her family for telling her to move on and so on When he lands a contract or a good paying job [probably thru her connections]. How does she get repaid? She's treated with disrespect and cast aside... replaced with a fresh, younger looking babe! Truth is guys don't like to be reminded of their past failures... So they leave the ones that knows the truth about their wealth and Pick new people that worships them because of it! Ladies learned from her ancestress mistakes and swore NEVER AGAIN! .... that's what guys call GOLD DIGGING _ Today! [size=16pt]MEN ARE TO BLAME![/size] |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by warrior101: 1:54pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
@mystiqueem ~ for your mind 1 Like |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by usermane(m): 1:57pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
mystiqueem: Gold Diggers She be miner? Lol!I agree with your points 'some' men are at fault but how can you condone gold digging cos the men caused it thereby condemning love for love as a result. Forgive and forget how your ancestress were treated in the past, all men aren't the same. There is no such thing as free lunch, gold diggers eventually learn this,only that its no use crying over spilt milk. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Nobody: 5:20pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
D sage: @op, since you're not a male, you cannot know how the men feel when they meet a lady they really love especially beautiful one. It's natural my dear. Can't you just learn from the poster Do you want her to interprete herself in your dialect ? |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by todasensual: 2:14am On Jan 01, 2013 |
huni_naija://///////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// quite true indeed |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Nobody: 3:24am On Jan 01, 2013 |
by thinking carefully of this topic and judging from the comments posted on this thread, i cannot but agree with the op. However, to solve the issue at hand, we must tackle it from the root cause. 2 Likes |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Nobody: 3:34am On Jan 01, 2013 |
if u ask a girl out humbly,i.e with d right manner of approach,she would love u in person nd not ur money. Besides, 1st impression matters. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Nobody: 3:37am On Jan 01, 2013 |
by d time most guys adopt this means of asking girls out. Girls(gold diggers) would see no extravagant guy to milk, and so would settle for the cool guys with a reserved manner of approach |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Nobody: 3:40am On Jan 01, 2013 |
acidosis said parental upbringin matters alot.But if a girl was brought up by gld diggers, by d time guys don wise.She go sabi say water don pass garri.even d family members would urge her to marry a cool guy.will she remain a spinster for life? |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Nobody: 3:52am On Jan 01, 2013 |
whoever may b d cause but we men are d solution.Most times we always are.So let's go out there in a large number nd put to end.by d time dem go dey frustrated. dey will settle for us. dey cnt b spinsters 4life na. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by drexx(m): 5:32am On Jan 01, 2013 |
I pray make them see my own gold dig o. Instead I rather mine them. 2 weeks ago, the girl am running show with (cos I don't date such girls) told me am stingy. I called her last week and she said I should buy her a christmas gift. I asked her what she wanted. She fuckingly opened her mouth and told me to buy her a phone. Nokia E5 for that matter. U knw the most funny part she said she is not ready for sex now. Mke i cme invest 25k for nothing. Let her wait for phone. |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by hunkydory(m): 11:00am On Jan 01, 2013 |
It's neither the fault of the men nor is it that of the women.It's just a natural phenomenon.You see,sex and money are two of the most powerful forces on earth.Both of them are very sweet and almost impossible to resist.So a beautiful woman can get most men by sex,just as a rich man can get most women with his money.Kingdoms have crumbled because of a women,best of friends have become great enemies because of a women,some women have taken presidential decisions for a country even without being in any political office.Why are women so powerful and can do all these and more even without having or spending a dime?The answer is not farfetched...it is because of the sweet honey pot inbetween there legs.Sometimes,there are things a man can not achieve even with his money but when you send a woman,she will come back with success and it will be like a miracle. 1 Like |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by pleep(m): 11:01pm On Jan 01, 2013 |
mystiqueem: Gold Diggers She be miner? Lol!You don't even know what your talking about... Don't kid yourselves that our ancestors married for "love," people didn't even think like that until very recently. Marriage has always been very transactional. Women look for resources, men look for someone who is attractive and fertile. The only difference is back when everyone was poor there was no gold to be dug, and so these animal instincts were kept in check. Now that there are big wealth disparities in society it is possible for women to get money from men far richer than them. This is how 'gold digging' came about. So don't kid yourself that what ur doing is logical or planned out, you are just letting your animal instincts run wild. But i agree this is mainly the dudes fault, guys imagine if girls were having sex willy-nilly then coming on Nairaland to complain that dudes only want them for sex. Wouldn't you think they were s.tupid? |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by pleep(m): 11:05pm On Jan 01, 2013 |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by Nobody: 1:00am On Jan 02, 2013 |
Pleep, I'm highly disappointed in you... You're meant to be our most potent anti-feminism foot soldier on the forum, however, you've sold out to become a flip-flopper!! If men are to be blamed for female gold diggers, perhaps they're also to be blamed for female prostitution then because the two lifestyles are interchangeable... I've got absolutely no problem whatsoever with female gold diggers as long as they can reciprocate the value of the "gold" they're digging from me/people(my mum never raised no fool)... However, I can't stand the blame game - women need to start taking responsibilities for their own actions!! 1 Like |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by dmcdad: 1:18am On Jan 02, 2013 |
shymexx: Pleep, I'm highly disappointed in you... You're meant to be our most potent anti-feminism foot soldier on the forum, however, you've sold out to become a flip-flopper!! @bolded... you make sense finish... ignore the people that are talking trash |
Re: MEN Are To Be Blamed For Female Gold Diggers by pleep(m): 1:41am On Jan 02, 2013 |
haha im not flip-flopping, im trying to defend the truth on every issue. The reason i am anti-feminist is because its Bs and lies, not because it fits my agenda. If you are not unbaised on everything, everything you say is suspect... About this gold digging thing, like most of these issues it is primarily mens fault. Women will generally do w/e they can get away with and if men dont keep them in check the situation will get out of hand. That is how feminism, gold digging etc, came to be such a problem. The desire for physical resources is a instinctual drive for females and when men are throwing money around you cant really be surprised when women use these dumbasses. I just saw a topic on here with a dude asking how much money to give his Gf after a date. There is a serious lack of intelligence among men, (especially black men) when it comes to women and that is how this gold digging thing got so bad. 1 Like |
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