Nice one. Already included to my encyclopedia of marriage. I hope my wife to be is still following this trend where ever she may be.

Another copy and paste bullsht

ogahope: Nice one. Already included to my encyclopedia of marriage. I hope my wife to be is still following this trend where ever she may be.

she is still in the womb in afghanistan

[quote author=Ijele-igbo]Happy couples know that the real relationship begins when the honeymoon is over. They know that unless you maintain the garden of love, its beauty will wither and die. In a recent column, you discovered the 10 relationship mistakes to avoid. Now discover the 10 things that happy couples do:

1. Go to bed at the same time. Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn’t wait to go to bed with each other to make love? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.

2. Cultivate common interests. After the passion settles down, it’s common to realize that you have few interests in common. But don’t minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.

3. Walk hand in hand or side by side. Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it’s more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.

4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode. If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can’t resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.

5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong. If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive.

6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work. Our skin has a memory of “good touch” (loved), “bad touch” (abused) and “no touch” (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the “good touch,” which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.

7. Say “I love you” and “Have a good day” every morning. This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.

8. Say “Good night” every night, regardless of how you feel. This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.

9. Do a “weather” check during the day. Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you’re more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.

10. Be proud to be seen with your partner. Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact — hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

Wow! Good work! How i wish i'm married now to practice all this, but i'm glad i'm still a single now, i still av time to practice all this even before and after my marriage

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING COUPLES, ESPECIALLY THOSE IN NIGERIA NEED MOST AFTER WEDDING AND HONEYMOON IS A COURSE ON PARENTING. BECAUSE MAJORITY OF THEM DON'T KNOW HOW TO RAISE KIDS.

papaGEJ: Na wetin me nd my gfriend dey do naim ijele-igbo com post 4 here because i tel am. So u neva stil stop dis ur aproko ehhh..... If i catch u eh ur own don finish b dat, u dey com xpose me 4 nairaland stupid boi.

Haba! Be your brother's keeper na! If you chop alone, you go die alone ohhh!!!

If all these then what are they suppose to do before marriage? Scratch n bite?

Nate overlord: u go just carry all these yanki people life style 2 buggle nigerians wit, weh plenty of our
parents dey fear 2 hold hand outside sef...sha, no wahala i will kip it all these!!

Hehehehhe....Exactly!!! Yankee lifestyle . our parents are far from this, infact in Naija, it is a thing of gossip and 'staring eyes' to see couples or lovers holding hands and taking a walk in broad daylight while in Yankee they kiss and they do their thing in public. not negative though, but at least, they show their affection for each other in the open

Ijele-igbo:
Happy couples know that the real relationship begins when the honeymoon is over. They know that unless you maintain the garden of love, its beauty will wither and die. In a recent column, you discovered the 10 relationship mistakes to avoid. Now discover the 10 things that happy couples do:

1. Go to bed at the same time. Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn’t wait to go to bed with each other to make love? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.

2. Cultivate common interests. After the passion settles down, it’s common to realize that you have few interests in common. But don’t minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.

3. Walk hand in hand or side by side. Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it’s more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.

4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode. If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can’t resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.

5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong. If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive.

6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work. Our skin has a memory of “good touch” (loved), “bad touch” (abused) and “no touch” (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the “good touch,” which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.

7. Say “I love you” and “Have a good day” every morning. This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.

8. Say “Good night” every night, regardless of how you feel. This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.

9. Do a “weather” check during the day. Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you’re more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.

10. Be proud to be seen with your partner. Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact — hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

http://markgoulston.com/10-things-happy-couples-do/

ok oo. still learning. i ll bookmark this.

gluv01:

Hehehehhe....Exactly!!! Yankee lifestyle . our parents are far from this, infact in Naija, it is a thing of gossip and 'staring eyes' to see couples or lovers holding hands and taking a walk in broad daylight while in Yankee they kiss and they do their thing in public. not negative though, but at least, they show their affection for each other in the open

Babe we are in the 21st century! Things change! This ain't just yankee stuff but it is also applicable to Nigerian couples!
These simple rules will keep the love and attraction glowing and reduce the high rate of divorce in our society!!
They are very wonderful tips and if I kiss my wife in public, I don't care about what people say because I'm not married to the public but my wife........ 24 hours a day, I will make her feel loved and will express it anywhere I am not only in the bedroom........
Men who are in a loving and peaceful marriage tend to be happier, healthy and prosperous

Nice!

nollywood20: THE MOST IMPORTANT THING COUPLES, ESPECIALLY THOSE IN NIGERIA NEED MOST AFTER WEDDING AND HONEYMOON IS A COURSE ON PARENTING. BECAUSE MAJORITY OF THEM DON'T KNOW HOW TO RAISE KIDS.

Seriously that's another important issue.....

hmm
All dis copy and paste kinda articles
op dis isnt an exam hall but u are still dobbing from other sites