I hate it when people refer to medicines as "drugs". Any time someone mentions drugs, all I think about is cocaine, marijuana etc.

ferhyntorlah: Ubong560,

You strike me as a very angry guy; always angry at any slight provocation.

Have you given your reply to the thread you opened about your SIL in which she also dropped her comment?

Regarding your topic: what you see is what you get.

can you pls share the thread

Okay, back to topic -- OP, consider what you're going through as practice for marriage.

My papa used to tell us stories about our mama before they got married. He would always end with, "women are like children and one day you'll understand". His theory was, any guy who wants to have a lasting relationship with a woman should throw out logic, and learn how to reason like a child.

for same reasons some guys depend on some girls for sex

Everything is just upside down, only God will save our generation.
Men want sex and dey want it badly.
Gals believe since he is sleeping with me then he shd pay, and you need to hear the way some gals even say it.
So its like dis, gals want money, guys want sex. Kai, dis is nt funny at all.
Gal are now offering sex for money.
Guys are now paying for sex.

I am well convinced now dat girls cant do w/ut dependng on guys financially. I stil find it dfficult 2 bliev dat once a guy says 'hi' 2 a girl, it automatically means total responsibility frm her head. WTF. Honestly I enjoy spending my money on my gf but 2 som certain limits. I better stay alone than over working myslf only 2 com and spend it extravagantly on someone's else daughter. Am i her father or guardian? Unemployment is not an excuse here. Thousands of other things are ther 2 do bt she hasnt shown any interest. May be she shld also wait 4 me 2 giv her money b4 she buys pad for monthly stuff. wtf again.

@uj sizzle, i think u hav so much similarity wit dis kind of girl - the idle and over dependent type. I wil travel at d velocity of 10000km/sec on sighting a girl like u. Too much wahala abegi.

@other girls, i think dats why most of ur BFs are going into armed robbery, kidnapping etc now just to satisfy ur endless financial wahala and wen he's caught, u r no wher 2 b found.

@P4VS20, guy, sex cannot be used as a yardstick in dis. We both enjoy sex and crave for sex. Why den shld she think i shld be her atm machine just because she opened her legs for me last time. Besides, sex is not food. I can do without it if i choose to.

Only 1ndidi said somtin better and reasonable on dis thread as a girl. Others think it is thier right for guys to empty thier account on them. mtchew.

she might even had the money but trust naija girls they prefer to die than to spend there money they are f u c k i n g stinging human F u c k

cindyrella:
E don finish. Unless you want make I give you the one wei dey my mouth

no wahala.... gimme....

Abrantie: I hate it when people refer to medicines as "drugs". Any time someone mentions drugs, all I think about is cocaine, marijuana etc.

What do you mean?, there is nothing wrong with it.

@ OP i think this should be your little contribution to the unemployed,every guy is doing it just that we are not complaining...my friend who i barely knew just called me that she was coming to the office to collect some cheeze that she is stranded after submitting her CV in one coy for Lekki...i just had to pity her...why....i passed through all these and i know how it feels to be unemployed....so just bear with her and support her

@ OP i think this should be your little contribution to the unemployed,every guy is doing it just that we are not complaining...my friend who i barely knew just called me that she was coming to the office to collect some cheeze that she is stranded after submitting her CV in one coy for Lekki...i just had to pity her...why....i passed through all these and i know how it feels to be unemployed....so just bear with her and support her,show her love and care by giving her money for medicine

ubong560: I am well convinced now dat girls cant do w/ut dependng on guys financially. I stil find it dfficult 2 bliev dat once a guy says 'hi' 2 a girl, it automatically means total responsibility frm her head. WTF. Honestly I enjoy spending my money on my gf but 2 som certain limits. I better stay alone than over working myslf only 2 com and spend it extravagantly on someone's else daughter. Am i her father or guardian? Unemployment is not an excuse here. Thousands of other things are ther 2 do bt she hasnt shown any interest. May be she shld also wait 4 me 2 giv her money b4 she buys pad for monthly stuff. wtf again.

@uj sizzle, i think u hav so much similarity wit dis kind of girl - the idle and over dependent type. I wil travel at d velocity of 10000km/sec on sighting a girl like u. Too much wahala abegi.

@other girls, i think dats why most of ur BFs are going into armed robbery, kidnapping etc now just to satisfy ur endless financial wahala and wen he's caught, u r no wher 2 b found.

My friend comot for ur road abeg, how much do u even have? Why are u still with her in the first place? Considering u term her 'lousy?' You have no iota of shame or respect for ur gf by coming here to spew this nonsense. What does it take to help someone get drugs? Are u that wicked? Com'on! What are people turning into? What's actually wrong with u? This is something u can do for anybody, gf or not without bringing down the heavens for chrissake!

Do you know how many people I have helped with drugs? Given food? Completed their fares in the bus, etc? Do u know how many people have rendered such help to me in a double portion? Dating or not? Cos I know that point in that u need it, tomorrow might be my turn!

What does it take u to be human for once? My friend grow up joor and have a sense of human in you! Tufiakwa!

vivian chinaza:


My friend comot for ur road abeg, how much do u even have? Why are u still with her in the first place? Considering u term her 'lousy?' You have no iota of shame or respect for ur gf by coming here to spew this nonsense. What does it take to help someone get drugs? Are u that wicked? Com'on! What are people turning into? What's actually wrong with u? This is something u can do for anybody, gf or not without bringing down the heavens for chrissake!

Do you know how many people I have helped with drugs? Given food? Completed their fares in the bus, etc? Do u know how many people have rendered such help to me in a double portion? Dating or not? Cos I know that point in that u need it, tomorrow might be my turn!

What does it take u to be human for once? My friend grow up joor and have a sense of human in you! Tufiakwa!

Abeg help me tell am o

Oh! I luv single lyf..Me no gat tym 4 al diz rubbish..I'm so emotionally unavailable..HUZLIN is my babygurl 4 lyf..My mony goes bk 2 ma bank account 100% & i'm luvin it..Call me 'stingy'..dats ur p..Mi o raye iranu

Wizee: can you pls share the thread

This is it:Pls Help, My Brother Is Under A Spell

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jemeslove0: she might even had the money but trust naija girls they prefer to die than to spend there money they are f u c k i n g stinging human F u c k

I guess you've been meeting the wrong ones. I'm saying this, not all girls ask for money from their boyfriends; it's even their boyfriends begging them to do the asking.

Ubong560, like I said earlier, what you see is what you get. If you meet a girl with the mindset that the man is always the giver and the woman the receiver, that's what you'll get. She won't give you a dime of her own money but will want to collect from you.

On the otherhand, if you meet a lady who believes in two way traffic relationship, that's what you'll get also. You do for me, I do for you; we are balanced.

I think an independent-minded lady suits you best!

ubong560: Sorry i dont easily get angry bt lets call a spade a spade. For a woman dat is not yet married to me, am i supposed to take responsibility up to dat extent aside other expenses?

I thought it was the culture that the women are quite dependent on the man for their needs? If this is so you shouldnt becomplaining . I do know of some who work though

oyinbogirl:


I thought it was the culture that the women are quite dependent on the man for their needs? If this is so you shouldnt becomplaining . I do know of some who work though

what culure is that?. where i am, the chics pay for themselves oh.

i was shocked when a chic told me she could takecare of her bills, i shouldnt worry, better still i was in wonder when a chic payed for my own restaurant bills n hers, i said...."wow, i guess its not all of em".

12 inches!:
shey the girl doesnt have parents abi.... You're under no obligation to help her. Tell her you dont have .Worst she will break up with you. Good nuisance to bad rubbish.

Ehmmm,Oga It is actually good riddance to bad rubbish! Thank you!!

vivian chinaza:


My friend comot for ur road abeg, how much do u even have? Why are u still with her in the first place? Considering u term her 'lousy?' You have no iota of shame or respect for ur gf by coming here to spew this nonsense. What does it take to help someone get drugs? Are u that wicked? Com'on! What are people turning into? What's actually wrong with u? This is something u can do for anybody, gf or not without bringing down the heavens for chrissake!

Do you know how many people I have helped with drugs? Given food? Completed their fares in the bus, etc? Do u know how many people have rendered such help to me in a double portion? Dating or not? Cos I know that point in that u need it, tomorrow might be my turn!

What does it take u to be human for once? My friend grow up joor and have a sense of human in you! Tufiakwa!

My dear the guy is a stingy goat! Even when he gets married,he will think before givin his wife money to buy drugs! What did dey say about old habits dying hard?

~vicky~:
Whatever. Anything better than depend on guys for your ENGLISH, LEARN SOME

I think I am depised

kimberluge:
My dear the guy is a stingy goat! Even when he gets married,he will think before givin his wife money to buy drugs! What did dey say about old habits dying hard?

hahaha

@kimberluge, am 100% sure i spend extravagantly than ur guy wen it coms to spending on gf. Just that i dislike being over bothering. Meanwhile, she's gotten the money since, took d drugs and is ok now.

I bet if u wont dump ur guy for me on meeting my spendthrift potential.

@cindyrella, wch class do u belong? Chewing gum or Akeke bread type?

[quote
author=specialguest]Simple! Its because if a relationship cannot take a lady to the altar, then it should take her to the bank...

Listen to urself. If a relationship is based on wat u quoted abv, den where dos such a relatnshp takes d man to?

[quote
author=Graphy]And wtf is wrong if u give her money 4 her treatment,no
be ur gf?na men like una go Bleep una gf cari am go dey
broadcast,nansense,no be ur mate dey help their gf get job or set them
up,maybe learn an handwork or sometin?mtchewww

Did u say gf? Sorry i cant go up to dat extent. I better wait till am married.

ubong560: @cindyrella, wch class do u belong? Chewing gum or Akeke bread type?

Do I have to belong to any?

ubong560: @cindyrella, wch class do u belong? Chewing gum or Akeke bread type?

wat is akeke bread?hmmm