I have observed that unlike the days of our parents,wer finding a wife was kinda easy.these days d rate at which our young ladies crave after materialism amazes mi.nw as a serious guy i hav some questions?
1.how do i find a wife amongst them cos i believe dey still exist.dont wana generalize.

2.how do i know if she really loves mi or jst afta wat she can get from mi

3.do these girls still believe in been independent,rather dan hooking up with a guy for your evry need

Matured responses pls.tnx

Look well and. U will see em

not to my knowledge no.

*just passing*

btw, 9ja girls are all the same...

Be the right kind of guy,and you'll attract the right kind of lady to yourself.

Omon oris: I have observed that unlike the days of our parents,wer finding a wife was kinda easy.these days d rate at which our young ladies crave after materialism amazes mi.nw as a serious guy i hav some questions?
1.how do i find a wife amongst them cos i believe dey still exist.dont wana generalize.

2.how do i know if she really loves mi or jst afta wat she can get from mi

3.do these girls still believe in been independent,rather dan hooking up with a guy for your evry need

Matured responses pls.tnx

infact flashy gehs make better wives these days

binger: Be the right kind of guy,and you'll attract the right kind of lady to yourself.

Error, sir...


The very badt guys attract moderately descent ladies ...

When you are ready to marry, you'll see one but if you are looking for a girlfriend,na trade by barter be that, u give her, she give u, so don't complain. If she refuse to collect money from you,the next topic will be "my GF is not asking me for anything is she seeing another man? I need ur advice" Yes there are good girls.

binger: Be the right kind of guy,and you'll attract the right kind of lady to yourself.

.. True talk

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acidosis™:

Error, sir...


The very badt guys attract moderately descent ladies ...

where is your mind,bro?...did u really see what i wrote above? If your're the right guy,you will attract the right lady.As the saying goes 'birds of a feather...' There is no correlation nor contradiction btween what i scribbled and your post. Dang!

My lady is flashy and stylish and I don't need a jupiter to tell me she wld make an awesome wife

oluks05: My lady is flashy and stylish and I don't need a jupiter to tell me she wld make an awesome wife

Maybe she is just pretending? After marriage she may decide to go "deeper life" on you. I think thats the op's point.

@op, elaborate more on the word "flashy". Devoid of ambiguity and virtue of my own common understanding, they can or cannot make good wives. It all depends on the woman you meet. When a woman is ostentatiously stylish does not ipso facto make her a bad woman. Be positive towards finding a good wife. Btw there's no correlation between your topic and intro.

To be loved make yourself Lovable.

You are what you attract so you should first of all deal with that

So she should be flashy but not materialistic

mondi_cheeks: So she should be flashy but not materialistic

Like you right?
But seriously. You can be flashy and not trashy

Glad to have you back

Mynd_44:
Like you right?
But seriously. You can be flashy and not trashy

Glad to have you back

a lady with style yes! But u can't be flashy/showy/ostentatious/posh without being materialistic...

Op the answer is NO! You can't serve 2 masters. A flashy girl will most times be craving for worldly
Possessions. Not that it's a bad thing to desire good things of life if you can afford it yourself,
rather than relying on a man like the case of most ( not all) flashy girls ( aka Gold diggers).

So a wise guy would avoid such girls as they never make good wives.Infact they wouldn't mess with a broke
aass guy in the first place, like Kanye said.

acidosis™:

Error, sir...


The very badt guys attract moderately descent ladies ...

That is because he has sample counles number of them and gud girls are rare gift this days, so he grab that gud girl he find among his sample.

candygosh: Look well and. U will see em

^^^^
@OP keep on sampling the girls in your area, by the time you reach hundred may be you can find one.
This is coming from female commentator not me OooooO!

Have met really flashy girls who are now wives with responsibilities. U know the definition of a good wife differs from person to person. Have also met really bad girls who settled down nicely after marriage. I think it has to do with the person in question, the situation and the if the lady is content or not.