Okija_juju:

Funny I have never laid a hand on a woman ever in my life...

But like I said, I suport the man. If a woman left her house, her home, her family to go to another mans house and harrass his wife.. ANYTHING SHE SEE, MAKE SHE TAKE!!! Period!!

The ability or inability for a man to shut a woman up without physical abuse is neither here nor there.. I am a strong believer in violence. It is the last resort in conflict resolution. People may not like it, but it works all the same. That woman was his elder sister which gives her the height and natural authority advantage. She prolly thought she could bully him like she prolly did when they were kids.. Sadly, she forgot that he was now a grown, married man..

SHE GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED!!

honeric01:

i believe you're just trying to appear tough and more refined than this. you mean the only way to command respect in your home's to beat your elder sister because of an intent?

Okija_juju:

Just because there was no physical contact between both women, does not mean that there was no physical contact between sister and brother.. And yes, an elder sister does not mean she has immunity from a beatdown.

texazzpete:

Shebi na PH you dey? You must let me buy you a beer sometime

honeric01:

you need to think well bro and not be hasty in acting, read the post again.

Was there any physical contact between the sister and wife?

Beating up your elder sister because of an intent? Gosh, i can't believe what i'm reading.

Okija_juju:


Point of correction:: I never said it was the only way, but its definitely an available option that is almost always certain to yeild positive results.

Okija_juju:


Na true o!! You sef dey PH!!

We should hook up one of these weekends..

Na Trans-Amadi area I dey sha!!

dammytosh: He did not beat up his elder sister for his wife. The Topic is misleading and a lot of lazy Nairalanders will not bother reading before hitting the reply button.

He beat his sister for intruding into his private residence. Please leave the wife out.


Thank You.

honeric01:

since the gate was already locked, how would she gain access to confronting the wife physically? Why not just turn back, go back to work and let her rant until she's tired? Wouldn't that yeild a better result?

Trust me, that man and his wife's going to have a hard time and the wife's going to keep living in fear because a seed's been sown and must be reaped in no distant time.

2buff:

Read my other posts on this thread.
I have read enough of these stories to know that things are often ommitted to give a full holistic picture of the events that transpired and why certain things occured.
It is my strong belief that emotional shifts of the nature of what transpired according to how this particular story was presented do not happen just like that.
I am not saying he couldn't control things better, but I'm also not foolish enough to start judging him based on what may have been a logical response to an undocumented micro-detail.

It's a fairly long way from "please calm down" to "Shoryuken!". All you read is that he got to Shoryuken.
You don't know what transpired in-between. I can bet you it wasn't "nothing".

Okija_juju:


You are rather stupid.. My folks have been together for over 35years.. My grandma and my mum are the closest of all her daughter in-laws.

Dont fhucking call my father weak. All the men in your family wouldnt even measure up in any way shape or form. What God has joined together, let no man put assunder. Its your place to fight to protect your marriage, wether you have to fight your mother or your father. Its biitches like you that remain a mummys boy for life and frustrate another mans daughter..

If you are not ready to separate from your mother and father and cling, then please do not get married.[b] I didnt say my fathers girlfriend beat his mum, I said his wife!!! . You will stand by and watch your family beat and throw your wife out as if shes an orphan. Fhucking grow up first you pusssy! My father has had a successful marriage with his wife. No fights ever between them, he has never laid a hand on her, they are inseparable like conjoined twins, they have grown successful kids, life is copacetic.. So shove your stupid comment up your a'ss.

NEXT!!!!!!![/b]

2buff:

Oh obviously. Things are never going to be the same in the family again.
No-one ever looked at this situation and said "yes, good has come of this".

But as a proud supporter of the "don't start none, Don't get none" lifestyle, I'd say anyone who starts something deserves what they get.

Truckpusher: Oboy you dey Trans Amadi?

gentlegg: Beating up not just a sister but an elder sister and another man's wife for that matter, that guy is a capital FOOL. From d little story, i depict that even the wife is most probably a bad wife, if she did nothing wrong, why would she lock out her husband's sister outside, she claim the husband sister was coming for a fight, was she with a knife, gun or any weapon? how did she even know that she was coming for a fight since she have not even entered their house?

kitty kat: Just beingg naughty but real at the same time. Why do we always forget the part in d Good book that says, " and the 2 shall become 1 flesh"

I am sure its cos of ppl that say, we came out of the same womb so the woman is inferior to d inlaws that the bible said that.

ileobatojo:

Agree. The beating has no bearing to whether his wife was in the house or not. The immediate reason for the beating appears to be due to his sister getting violent despite several attempts by the husband to de-escalate a situation.

Could he have controlled himself more, yes, but violence begets violence as has been said. His sister's violence towards him beget his retaliatory violence.

As to the dripping blood, we don't know exactly why but a very common reason to drip blood would be a nosebleed from one slap to the face so at this point, that part of the story doesn't 100% convince me that the beating was a brutal one. I don't at all support him putting a brutal beatdown on her, and shame on him if he did that, but I have no qualms about him retaliating because she obviously beat him first. I would feel the same if it were a man vs his wife in a similar situation where she attacked him physically first. Women can't go around beating up men and expecting nothing to happen. Let everybody, male and female, keep their hands to themselves.

honeric01:

bro, learn to be stable and plain, you said in your first comment that no one was there so we should choose what to believe, yet in that same post, you said it was obvious the man did the right thing and that the elder sister deserved it. Now read this your last post again and see how you're making the same mistakes again.

Do not assume, work with what the poster typed, until something new's added by the op, do not assume.

dammytosh:

Congrats !!! you must be very proud of ur mum for beating up ur grand mum.

Your ignorant post is carefully scripted to get sympathy from gullible peeps. Being a weakling has nothing to do with shape or form as ignorantly asserted by you.

I repeat, it is wrong for your Mum to beat ur Grand Mum. There is nothing to be proud of about that.

With the kind of words u used in your post above, your claim that they grew successful kids sounds debatable cos you are definitely not.

ileobatojo:

Agree. The beating has no bearing to whether his wife was in the house or not. The immediate reason for the beating appears to be due to his sister getting violent despite several attempts by the husband to de-escalate a situation.

Could he have controlled himself more, yes, but violence begets violence as has been said. His sister's violence towards him beget his retaliatory violence.

As to the dripping blood, we don't know exactly why but a very common reason to drip blood would be a nosebleed from one slap to the face so at this point, that part of the story doesn't 100% convince me that the beating was a brutal one. I don't at all support him putting a brutal beatdown on her, and shame on him if he did that, but I have no qualms about him retaliating because she obviously beat him first. I would feel the same if it were a man vs his wife in a similar situation where she attacked him physically first. Women can't go around beating up men and expecting nothing to happen. Let everybody, male and female, keep their hands to themselves.

coogar:

her own husband must be irresponsible to have allowed his wife to go to another married woman's house to cause trouble. if this was on a neutral ground, i can understand! what right has a woman to go threaten another married woman in her home?



there's no sentiment here.
i would not tolerate such nonsense as well - if my sister respects me, she won't come after my wife to threaten her. in a nutshell, if you threaten my wife, you have also threatened me and i would do anything within my powers to put you down. she's lucky she wasn't fed to the dogs. respect begets respect - no individual has any right to go into another person's house to threaten them.

joymary7: the bible has notin to do wit this, as an elder sis to my bro i ensure he gets everytin he wants, our parents are nt rich but im married and i try to do a lot for him all tru his university education to his service yr to his day as a job seeker..... After all these sacrifise he beats me up becos of his wife? If i no kill am tht day i will curse his entire generation. Wife ko wife nii... I will never allow my husband beats any of his sis for my sake

coogar:

he did well considering the circumstance.....
like your story revealed - he tried to settle with the sister, he told her not to enter the house but she insisted on making trouble. i think the sister deserved what she got. a man must protect his wife from any threat(foreign or local)!!!

2buff:

It's a fairly long way from "please calm down" to "Shoryuken!".

2buff:

A lot of elements of the story are missing, especially the events detailing the emotional state transition between "Please sis calm down" and "take this roundhouse kick b**ch!".

2buff: People hardly switch emotion from "sis please calm down" to "I will kill you B**ch!" just like that.

ileobatojo:

That being said, I have no doubt in my mind that the wife is a big time trouble maker. However, the man apparently wants her just like that and all the attempts by the family to break them up has not worked. They need to butt out of their relationship and accept their brother's decision. Their relationship with their brother is at stake if they keep this up as the man is determined to stay married to his wife.