w hav been talking on phone.
H askd me 2 com nd visit him dat h wants us 2 see, dat I must not sleep over.
my questn is shuld I go see him or not? plz i need ur ans.

He wants to see you? Doesn't he know where you live? Why should you go to his place? I guess it depends on how comfortable you are with him but if he wants to see you and he already knows where you live, I don't see why he can't come to yours. Do whatever you think makes the most sense 'cause you're the one who knows him the best.

HOW far is the distance between both of you if you both live in the same state i think there is nothing wrong in you going to see him first but if you live far apart i will suggest dont go because there is a chance you might sleep over at his place due to the distance which you have to travel back u never might know wat will happen if you sleep over at his place ?

Sorry, Im going to have to ask you a series of questions.

First is: how old are you?
And then:go and visit on what basis? Do you know him well enough?what sort of message do you want to pass across? Did he ask you out? Is TRAVELLING not too big a sacrifice to make on a trip which purpose eludes you and I?


After you answer these, I'L know what to tell you. For now, I dont.

I dont really knw him enuf 2 say, w jst met. d issue here is dat am in a university sch caged, am not even at home now.
thnks anyway I appreciate.

Hmm...y draw emphasis on sleeping over? he just made d whole tin sound fishy. I'll say u get him to come over, at least he's bin around ur environment a few times so no biggie.but... If u comfortable wiv d idea of going to meet him, den ur call.

Ezeed thnks.
am 25, h has nt askd m out,

Alryt then.

Janefrances: I dont really knw him enuf 2 say, w jst met. d issue here is dat am in a university sch caged, am not even at home now.
thnks anyway I appreciate.

You don't really know this guy, yet you want to go to his place? Why not a neutral location or why can't him come and see you? Biko, stay at your place and don't go.

@butta d distanc is a little bit far.
@ Idowu, It was because I dragged d issue of coming wit him, dat was why h made d comment dat if is not stressful I wil go bak.

Thnks guys I appreciate.

Janefrances: @butta d distanc is a little bit far.
@ Idowu, It was because I dragged d issue of coming wit him, dat was why h made d comment dat if is not stressful I wil go bak.

I don't gerrit, u dragged wot issue? U were going were wiv him? Am lost!

I told him am not coming dats why h said dat I culd travel bak d same day if I want

There is absolutely no point risking ur life,wasting ur money and time to pay him a visit because dia is no basis for such. Jst relax let him do the chasing if that is what he wants,since he is yet to mak his intentions known. Tell him u are too busy at the moment to visit him.

chacha Thnks

Okay i think its time you know this... When a guy wants to give you 'susu-gege' he'll invite you over to his place. He'll entertain you well then lets you know his intentions (of course indirectly), b4 you know whats happening you'll be saying 'stop it, i like it'(i believe you understand that).
If he doesn't want anything he'll either invite you to a neutral location or come to your place.
Just in case i didn't make any sense in the first paragraph, If you go to his place two things are involved. One is that you'll not come back the same day or two you'd have collected 'susu-gege' b4 you come back the same day, even if you spend 20mins.

since he has not asked you out i dont think it is wise to go visit him u r a lady dont make urself too cheap and readily available get to know him very well and his intentions

Abeg stay in your house. If he wants to see you, make he come over as anything fit shele

chacha3: There is absolutely no point risking ur life,wasting ur money and time to pay him a visit because dia is no basis for such. Jst relax let him do the chasing if that is what he wants,since he is yet to mak his intentions known. Tell him u are too busy at the moment to visit him.

Paulipopor: Okay i think its time you know this... When a guy wants to give you 'susu-gege' he'll invite you over to his place. He'll entertain you well then lets you know his intentions (of course indirectly), b4 you know whats happening you'll be saying 'stop it, i like it'(i believe you understand that).
If he doesn't want anything he'll either invite you to a neutral location or come to your place.
Just in case i didn't make any sense in the first paragraph, If you go to his place two things are involved. One is that you'll not come back the same day or two you'd have collected 'susu-gege' b4 you come back the same day, even if you spend 20mins.

this.

girl,DO NOT GO!!

Thnks guys, am not goin

Janefrances: Thnks guys, am not goin

The best answer you have given; not to go

Janefrances: I met dis guy in my compound in december when he came 2 visit a frnd. w hav been talking on phone.
H askd me 2 com nd visit him dat h wants us 2 see, dat I must not sleep over, dat I could travel bak d same day if i want.
my questn is shuld I go see him or not? does it matter who visits first? plz i need ur ans.

You sound quite inexperienced and I will take you like my own little sister.

Let him come and visit you - severally. Subsequent outings should be to public places.

[s]Kai, see as I dey spoil market for my man .[/s]

Mynd_44: Abeg stay in your house. If he wants to see you, make he come over as anything fit shele

Mynd_44: Abeg stay in your house. If he wants to see you, make he come over as anything fit shele

Mynd_44: Abeg stay in your house. If he wants to see you

thank u for saying that

mondi_cheeks: thank u for saying that

Na so

Later they will say the guy raped them. Mtschewww

pDude: Later they will say the guy raped them. Mtschewww

Young and naive is d logo.

Richfella:

You sound quite inexperienced and I will take you like my own little sister.

Let him come and visit you - severally. Subsequent outings should be to public places.

[s]Kai, see as I dey spoil market for my man .[/s]

hahahaha! U ar not spoiling market 4 him. thnks anyway

Idowuogbo: Hmm...y draw emphasis on sleeping over? he just made d whole tin sound fishy. I'll say u get him to come over, at least he's bin around ur environment a few times so no biggie.but... If u comfortable wiv d idea of going to meet him, den ur call.

This girl can spoke english.
Impressive.
Maybe i'll have a rethink.

ITbomb:
This girl can spoke english.
Impressive.
Maybe i'll have a rethink.

you people and english. Messi no sabi english oh. Still im still dey earn close to Nigeria annual budget.

I have nothing against you going but since you don't know him well enough. Do not go .
I have girls visiting me first time but never under a month, met december visit jan.
*thinking*the guy is good.

Paulipopor:
you people and english. Messi no sabi english oh. Still im still dey[b] earn close to Nigeria annual budget.[/b]

lmfao!