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Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by Wendyphil(f): 9:58pm On Jan 18, 2013
kaboninc:

Even when its gone you still don't know what you've lost.
lol!!!
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by Wendyphil(f): 10:10pm On Jan 18, 2013
The most challengin thing 4 me is distance n trust issues.
Gosh!!!I find it so hard 2 trust him.
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by onstelly(f): 10:40pm On Jan 18, 2013
ucheheart: Distance,distance,distance.
You can say that again and again angry
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by falansa: 7:08am On Jan 19, 2013
djeezy: In my own opinion i think the most challenging thing about being in a relationship has to do with issues of trust as well as satisfying basic emotional/material needs. Being in a relationship is synonymous to being married which by all odds bestow upon you some responsibilities and carrying out these responsibilities can be challenging.

Thats d fact coz dats exactly wat i'm going through right now... But only for those in genuine relationship.
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by wazobiaforu(m): 8:08am On Jan 19, 2013
i think most challenging things in a relationship for a guy is ability to keep to your lady and not fooling around, if any guy should lament of trying alot in the relationship is either two things, one is maybe his spending alot in the relationship or keeping his manhood for the girl alone.
for ladies i think taking care of the guy, like doing some domestic work for him.
all the same,there is no how someone will not be challenged in a relationship, what matter most is Endurance and understanding

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Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by specialist250(m): 9:05am On Jan 19, 2013
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Some relationships will be blessings, others will serve as lessons. Either way, never regret knowing someone. Everyone you encounter teaches you something important. Some people will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you; but most importantly some will bring out the best in you.

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Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by Wendyphil(f): 9:23am On Jan 19, 2013
[quote author=wazobia_for_u]i think most challenging things in a relationship for a guy is ability to keep to your lady and not fooling around, if any guy should lament of trying alot in the relationship is either two things, one is maybe his spending alot in the relationship or keeping his manhood for the girl alone.
for ladies i think taking care of the guy, like doing some domestic work for him.
all the same,there is no how someone will not be challenged in a relationship, what matter most is Enduranu ar on point dear.1 million likes!
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by GailMartins: 11:09am On Jan 19, 2013
enigmagu1: everytin abt a ralationship is chalengin bt d most chalengin is tryin to call sombody always wen i dnt av d time to.....

Seriously!
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by adeashaye(m): 12:27pm On Jan 19, 2013
The most challenging thing about a relationship is being in the relationship with the right person.
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by adeashaye(m): 12:38pm On Jan 19, 2013
The challenges of a relationship are surmountable provided one is in the relationship with the right person.
The right person will fill the vacuum without excess and inadequacy.
The challenges we notice in relationships are the excesses and inadequacies that inevitably crop up as a result of being in a relationship with the wrong person.
So, once the challenge of having the right person is settled, other challenges are trivial and will vapourise.
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by realdon(m): 2:09pm On Jan 19, 2013
I think communication is the most challenging. This help to prevent misinterpretation of each other's actions; knowing fully well that misinterpretation leads to disagreement and most times break down of relationship especially when a party feels he/she owns the other no explanation on some sensitive issues.

I believe proper communication put every other things right in a relationship.

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Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by nell07(m): 3:40pm On Jan 19, 2013
seunfly:
and for ur spouse to appreciate the endurance by trying to adjust/amend for the betterment of the relationship.

I owe you a cold bottle of beer sir
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by nell07(m): 3:52pm On Jan 19, 2013
tebill: enduring a woman's nagging

Lolz...quite typical
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by nell07(m): 3:57pm On Jan 19, 2013
Dygeasy: Trust issues I think. Tolerance too.




















I also go through something challenging and I'm fighting a big war against it. looking at my babe's hips and backside without wanting to f.u.ck her. She's a virgin by the way.

Wow
That's a good one.
Please keep fighting bro... People like you are the next level of "manhood"
RESPECT!
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by nell07(m): 8:23pm On Jan 19, 2013
J12: Havìng séx 7 times a day.
WOAH! That's heavy duty!!
But how exactly is that a challenge to YOU?
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by nell07(m): 8:27pm On Jan 19, 2013
True2myself24: Relationships are like mirrors; they show you who you are. So for me the most challenging thing is having to see the good, the bad, and the ugly in myself that I never even knew was there and having to work on certain character traits that were keeping me and my partner from being happy. That is compromise.

Wow that's..........mature
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by nell07(m): 8:43pm On Jan 19, 2013
Ayoko007: the greatest challenge am having right now is loving and caring for her even though we both know dat I know she's cheating on me.its hell yet not easy towailk away.

Ow man!
I'd give everything not to be in your shoes.
but I think the award goes to you... You answered the question just the way I wanted. With a personal example.

Wish you luck in your relationship.
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by nell07(m): 9:40pm On Jan 19, 2013
nollywood20: [size=18pt]HONESTY. HONESTY.HONESTY.
It a rarity among majority of black people everywhere, from Lagos to London.
Black people are often dishonest in relationship.

For example just this weekend, ex-girlfriend agreed to see her ex-boyfriend privately tomorrow, but he decided to run a check on her and discovered that she was already married to someone overseas.And she was not happy he found out the truth.

Many engaged and married women in Nigeria hide their rings.
Many Nigerian women with their fiancés or husbands overseas are cheating on them in Nigeria.

How can you have a boyfriend or fiancé in Port Harcourt and then agree to be the Val of another man in Lagos?
Why should you wear sexy clothes to impress your ex-boyfriend whenever your husband traveled?
The list is endless?

You can't have your cake and eat it too. [/size]

Word!!!
I couldn't have said it any better!
Lots of lies being spewed these days.
I'm currently doing my youth service, and I hear lies ladies tell their boyfriends on a daily basis
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:53am On Jan 20, 2013
realdon: I think communication is the most challenging. This help to prevent misinterpretation of each other's actions; knowing fully well that misinterpretation leads to disagreement and most times break down of relationship especially when a party feels he/she owns the other no explanation on some sensitive issues.

I believe proper communication put every other things right in a relationship.

Agreed. Communication's important. I especially love the part I bolded ...very, very true! You explained it well.
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by toygod2: 5:33am On Jan 20, 2013
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Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by Obizee316(m): 8:32am On Jan 20, 2013
To me,the most challenging is ;adding spice as in Creativity to the relationship,especially if he or she is all u ever pray for i.e ur h@t desires
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by wassup123(m): 10:57am On Jan 20, 2013
Wendyphil: The most challengin thing 4 me is distance n trust issues.
Gosh!!!I find it so hard 2 trust him.


Distance could be a very big challenge, but when there's constant comunication, like three times a day, you get to hear from him, then there'll be no issue of trust
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by malexito(m): 11:05am On Jan 20, 2013
paparazzi1987: I used my hard-earn December salary to buy Blackberry (bold five) for my Fiancee.And she got me a fine boxer that cost N1200 because most of my boxer had been disfigured by my heavy fart and i could not afford new ones'.... sad sad sad
guy!
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by Phinity: 10:52pm On Jan 20, 2013
grin it was so swit @first ..now i av to deal wit distance nd trust issues...infact the lov we share is real frm my own point of view she changed our name..her name was juliet nd mine ws phil .she just changed it to "juliphil"hw swit..lov her tho.buh menh she is finding it hard trustin me n d irony of it all is dat i lov her so much i can't luk @oda ladies to admire dem no matter hw pretty dy seem..

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Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by nell07(m): 12:42am On Jan 21, 2013
Phinity: grin it was so swit @first ..now i av to deal wit distance nd trust issues...infact the lov we share is real frm my own point of view she changed our name..her name was juliet nd mine ws phil .she just changed it to "juliphil"hw swit..lov her tho.buh menh she is finding it hard trustin me n d irony of it all is dat i lov her so much i can't luk @oda ladies to admire dem no matter hw pretty dy seem..

Awww!
Isn't that cute

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Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by kaboninc(m): 4:40pm On Jan 21, 2013
Wendyphil: The most challengin thing 4 me is distance n trust issues.
Gosh!!!I find it so hard 2 trust him.
And what are u still doing with him?
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by Phinity: 1:00am On Jan 23, 2013
kaboninc:
And what are u still doing with him?

lov issues are bigger than wat u can eva imagined undecided
kaboninc:
And what are u still doing with him?

lov issues are bigger than wat u can eva imagined
Re: The Most Challenging Thing About Being In A Relationship by Iyeeshaar(f): 12:52pm On Jul 14, 2022
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