Has every single one of your boyfriends
been "Mr. Wrong?"
If they have, then it
might mean that there's something inside
you that's ruining your relationships.

 last week,i found home beautiful houses in some area but there was just one thing that puzzled me
-- how come no one's living in these
beautiful homes?
 
"It's the recession"
 So I took a closer look,that's when I found the underlying
causes why no one stayed in the houses
for too long -- the houses were
crumbling from the inside!
Some had termite problems. Some had
moisture and mildew problems. And still
others had weak or damaged foundations.
 
These problems ultimately made the
house's previous owners realize that no
matter how beautiful you can make an old
house look, it's still an old house --
and no one likes to live in a house
that's falling apart on the inside!
 
 
Now why am i suddenly talking about houses?
 
I'm using the "old house" analogy to
describe a problem that many of today's
single lady have -- but don't know
about it.

Errm...i really don't understand o. Is it the age or what?

And it's pretty serious, because this
problem can turn an otherwise good
relationship with a good man into a BAD
one and very quickly.
 
But what does it mean when you seem to
end up with all the jerks?
 
Or is there something in YOU that's
ruining your relationships from the
inside?
 
 
As I've mentioned a while ago, when a
house is crumbling on the inside, it
doesn't matter how beautiful it is on
the outside -- no one's going to want to
live in it for long.
 
 
Likewise, no matter how smart and
attractive you may be, if you have
certain issues or problems on the
inside, no boyfriend's going to want to
stick with you forever.   
You should realized the simple truth
that it takes TWO people to make a
relationship work. It's such a silly,
painfully obvious truth -- but sadly,
too many women are prone to believe
otherwise. 
You may have your own set of inner
problems that are getting in the way of
your relationships.

Hmmm...true. Very true.

You may, for instance, have a bad image
of men in general. Maybe you think most
of them are hopeless womanizers, and
that the few good ones are either taken
or gay. (Haha!)
 
If this sounds like you, then please,
spend less time meeting men on social networking like 2go,facebook,etc and
more time meeting men in the real world.
It's a lot more fun that way.
Some of our misconceptions about men can
come straight from our families.
Other women may have grown up without a
father, or an absent/abusive one, which
gave them a bad image of men in general.
 
So many women grow up
with fear, uncertainty, and anger,
especially when it comes to man, love,
and relationships.
And maybe those witchcraf-t wey dey your village were cursing you,my advice for you is to go for spiritual bath! am i right or am i right? 
 
I'd like to invite you to take a few
moments to think back on your past
relationships.

I'd like you to keep an open mind, and
not to let any misconceptions about men
cloud your judgment.
 
 
Instead, focus on YOURSELF for a bit.
 
 
Try to see what negative, damaging, or
unfair beliefs you may have about men.

And stop depending on man for your needs....... Learn to be independent,haba! I want blackbery today,brazilian here tomorrow,i have to change my wardrobe this weekend! You're just sending mr.right away if you don't know,

If you want to change, you'll have to
admit to yourself that you were wrong.
 
You'll always be looking for a
good man to save you -- but believe me,
if you don't get rid of your
problems first, no man will save
Getting rid of crazy relationship

Is it too early toput in nominees for thread of the year?

Mynd_44: Is it too early toput in nominees for thread of the year?

I tell you. I picked my own from this sha. Nice thread.

Caracta:
I tell you. I picked my own from this sha. Nice thread.

I bookmarked it already

Eze Promoe: For sure men like me, we don't need any lady to have a taste of us to know who we really are. Right is my family name, so therefore I'm Mr. Right. It's written on my forehead.

Tell that to Seunplus

Hehehehehehehehehe
You beat me to it...lol

*yawns*

Eze Promoe: For sure men like me, we don't need any lady to have a taste of us to know who we really are. Right is my family name, so therefore I'm Mr. Right. It's written on my forehead.

Pandiculates!!

Acidosis: *yawns*

Go and sleep anyway..

Flashaldrin: Pandiculates!!

lol

I like the last part of this write-up best.
Our girls really need to learn to be independent..if only to retain self-respect.

Flashaldrin: Pandiculates!!

o y i n b o!

Op thanks for lecturing them, a lots of our ladies may not even see any husband talkless of settling down..men dis days are extream careful when it's comes to marriage..how l wish our beloved ladies will compose themself properly..*praying 4 them*.

Eze Promoe: For sure men like me, we don't need any lady to have a taste of us to know who we really are. Right is my family name, so therefore I'm Mr. Right. It's written on my forehead.

as a man who is a jerk always said!

I wish most girls will see this..

For the ladies waiting for Mr. Right /Mr. Perfect, i wish u luck

Phartymah112:
Go and sleep anyway..

hey...did you see me in ur dreams... ?

Acidosis:
hey...did you see me in ur dreams... ?

yep... You just look like a monster

Gal, If dis is coming from your heart/head, you have my respect and you deserve the best home.

Phartymah112: yep... You just look like a monster

lolz... did I haunt / hurt you?

this is a very good write up.....................

T