@sammy901

thank you sammy901 for that vote of confidence - its exactly what I needed

@Hollandis

I do believe you Hollandis as I am already completely in love with an Igbo man, in fact I have never ever experienced these feelings before, I am crazy in love :Pwith him and I dont think he feels the same way about me , This is breaking my heart so I think I will stay clear of Igbo men for a while , they seem to have some kind of power that no other man has and I don't like feeling like this

If u r in love with him and u r VERY!! sure he is in love with you as well
Then nothing is stopping you. . . . . . . . . . . . . .savvy?

@®~^Sly^~

I wish more than anything else in the world that that is true and I will continue hoping and praying that one day, he will come to me , thank you ®~^Sly^~, I appreciate your kind words

I am so sorry chychy - how selfish of me. , crying on your shoulder and there you are in the same position as I am and just keeping quiet about your pain and doing all you can to ease mine. You really are a special person chychy , Please know that if you want to talk about it (although I don't think I am as wise as you are but I can promise you that I will listen and you can cry on my shoulder anytime) I am here for you okay, promise

P.S. I have opened up my email address for you to view (just in case , )

You are in my thoughts,

@chychy

and I too have learned from you chychy - as for replying to everyone - I think that if people out there were kind enough to reply to my plea for advice, then it is only fair that I should, at the very least, show them the same courtesy in return, its a matter of respect you know, do unto others as you'd have them do unto you,

Have a lovely evening my dear friend

Hey there TommyEx, how are you doing?

lol,

SAM
like you knew i was coming ere,you really look preety,now let me go thru this thread in all the passionate details.
You grls wont kill me with love-feelings ere,I pray!

Chychy
u sound cool

@®~^Sly^~
I wish more than anything else in the world that that is true and I will continue hoping and praying that one day, he will come to me , thank you ®~^Sly^~, I appreciate your kind words

You are more than welcome laydie. . .
Wish u the best of luck all the way!!!

What is on the outside my dear Tommyex is of no value - it is whats on the inside that truly counts, thank you nevertheless for your compliment and no need to worry no chance of being killed with lovin feelings ere

SAM

whao!!
i just went through the story now and i must say u are quiet lucky to have been with good people like you,i mean people that wont take you for a ride.

From the story i guess You felt in love with HIM at 1st sight?I don't really believe that thing works.
I know you feel so deeply for him,but i feel you got attracted to him too early and when this happens your heart will make you feel he is perfect and you ll view all his xters as how exactly you want your hubby to be^{do i make sense?}
There is a very thin line between love and lust,and i have been there.You can only know you love someone after you have been together for a long time.

As per d kid,That is not really a problem if the guy really loves you,though the African(or mayb nigerian) tradition makes it difficult for their SON to marry a lady with a kid,But some guys do _{and i feel i can too}.

There is so much joy and satisfaction in love,so if the chance comes take it.

My word for you is that you should keep off all of them,try out some things you love doing and don't even think of any guy at all now,when the time comes your LOVE will surely locate you without any pressure,everything will jus fall into place,feel me?

as per HOLLANDIS
don't mind d guy,he jokes too much and i ll deal with him_{where that dutch guy sef?make i whip him arse}

SAM

you need to know that the outside is of some value and its easy to over-value it anyway.
Stop been modest and stick with the 'thank You' part

you are very sweet tommyex but I have to ask, what would you do with a world full of miserable women who may have just lost their one chance at experiencing true love ? OOps ! No need to answer

.
I wont then

Tommy. . . .

Homebwoi im sorry but im about to change the impression the girl has towards you. . . .

U aint sweet nada!!. . . . . .remember we still beefing as a result of what u told toyin about ma crib?
Ma fi ojue han maabo!! i go show u. . . .see the girl is praising you and u r feeling so elated. . .
Don't worry . . . .Sly is here to turn it around

SLY

u never still well?dont worry we can settle this outside this room,
Let the thread live on,make we carry our crase go outside .How u dey?

Im so cool as Ice
So fyn & fresh like a new born. . . .

Doing good. . .Smelling Good. . .Looking Good. . . Feeling Good. , .


How u feeling homebwoi?

Ode boy,lol.i am cool i guess.
Now lets go out,will you?last outa topic post.

Sly and tommy, kindly move away

Since when we don move now?
U r a real STILL lady

@chychy. . . thx for the compliment.

Sama sama, i ope u're doing gr8 i prayed for u.

I just read your post and i was moved to tears. For your Baby's Daddy, i think a break up is long overdue, he doesnt deserve you, he is obviously just using you.
I can't even believ how strong you are facing all thease problems and still staying strong, you are a strnog woman and a survivor, i duff my hat for you.
I will advice you to concentrate on raising your son, and stop wastiing your money maintaining his overgrown baby of a father. As for"him", he seems to like you too but you have to completely break up ith your boyfriend, don't fall into the blackmail of having a son together, being a father is much morethan getting someone pregnant.You ar so strong i nkow you will survive. Break up with your boyfriend, if you can afford to go on a holiday alone ith your son, God knows you need it, it ill give you time to clear your head and think, free yourself of unnecessray shackles and enjoy your life. As for Him, take things as thye come but you need to find yourself and enjoy your life first, i mean find some time for yourself and do things for your own self, stuff that will make you happy, its good to live for others but don't let them be your hole life. You ork so hard, you deserve to find happiness in yourself.
Good luck.

samanthaZA:

@Hollandis

I do believe you Hollandis as I am already completely in love with an Igbo man, in fact I have never ever experienced these feelings before, I am crazy in love   :Pwith him and I don't think he feels the same way about me   ,  This is breaking my heart  so I think I will stay clear of Igbo men for a while , they seem to have some kind of power that no other man has and I don't like feeling like this 

There are two types of quality husbands in the world-:Ibo guys and the rest. :DIt is too early to judge the way he feels about you.Give him some more time Sam.
If you love something , let it go .If it comes back to you,it's yours.If it doesn't ,it never was.
The best things in life are free and available to everyone

tommyex:



as per HOLLANDIS
don't mind d guy,he jokes too much and i ll deal with him_{where that dutch guy sef?make i whip him arse}

Chairman,If Arsene wenger nabs you.OYO for you o.Where have you heard gunners whipping gunners?Or have you started beefing igbo guys?I have increased their GPA to 4.5 . They should better pay homage o

Sly and tommy, kindly move away

Is that a threat? move ko. . . come ni. . .

@tommyex
@sly
@hollandis

u guyz, look what u gone and did , my tummy is so sore from laughing at u three guyz u know u r d craziest people I ever had d honor to meet
thank u tommyex and u sly and hollandis, u done brighten up my day with your foolishness don't change

@chychy
Hi chychy, how are you girl? I am sure you always brighten up everyones day, yes mine too R u well? Hello all!

@ sam,
Welcome 2 nairaland, trust me, there's always sth 2 laugh about.

Hello Aisha2, I am sorry to take so long to respond to you and thank you for your lovely, kind words and thank you for caring, I do appreciate your kindess Aisha as well as your advice and well, the reason I have taken so long to reply is because ,  I have been busy MOVING my things to a little 'holiday cottage' that I found while searching the net (its just temporary til I can find something more suitable and more affordable but it is a start ) and I also have a JOB INTERVIEW tomorrow!!  and ITS ALL THANK U TO ALL OF MY FRIENDS HERE:

chychy , hollandis , tommyex , sly, efuah , stillwater , talk2sulta, adeebo , nwando , adcononline and yes, even whitelexi , you guys are so so special,I could never have gotten this far without your support, friendship and advice

Although my heart aches each second of each day because I miss my Ibo love but I do feel more 'worthy' of him and slightly more confident somehow or should I say more positive because , I know that this is the right thing, especially for my son and hopefully his father will get better, overcome his addictions, in which case, should he wish to see his son and be a positive influence in his life, I would never prevent that but as for our relationship, no chance whatsoever - to think I wasted 10 years ,  not really a waste I suppose as I have learned some valuable lessons and made the most [b]wonderful friends     [flash=200,200]http://www.hasanyonetoldyou.com/[/flash]

awwwww I wish you well.

Owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. . . . . . . . . . . . .Best of luck ma friend. . . . .

Oh Sam, congrats on the new cottage and the job interview, I am happy for you for having the confidence to take charge of your life and get a fresh start.
The ten years you spent with your Ex is not a watse, you have a wonderful son to show for it.
Kepp your head up, good luck