Besides just being a fun thing to do, flirting
can be an effective method for getting to know
a person. Remember the following anagram --
FLIRTS -- to help you get the most out of
flirting.
F is for Flattery. The fastest way to a person's
heart is to find something you truly appreciate
about the way that person looks or acts and
then compliment it. However, make sure your
compliments are sincere (there's no sense
saying "You have beautiful eyes" when they're
obviously not).
L is for Listen. Get him to talk about what he
really cares about and listen attentively. The
most powerful aphrodisiac is your undivided
attention.
I is for Interest. Find a common interest.
Remember, similar tastes and interests are the
best foundations for a good relationship.
R is for being Responsible. Be truthful, careful,
and clear about your interests and intentions.
Don't hurt or lead anyone on or choose
inappropriate flirting partners, such as your
friend's boyfriend or girlfriend.
T is for Trusting yourself. Believe that you can
do it, survive it, and come out winning friends
and feeling good about yourself.
S is for a winning Smile. The old saying is true.
Smile and the whole world smiles back at you.