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My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by bcomputer101: 7:24am On Feb 17, 2013 |
Please help ♍e advice this lady. This is her story: My husband wants my salary or no sex. Must i hand over my entire salary to my husband before i enjoy sex with him? I have been out of job after my wedding three years ago. Recently, i got a job with one of the big telecommunications companies. Instead of the job to enhance our intimacy, I am rather having a big issue with my husband – he refuses me sex and keeps malice because i won’t hand over my entire salary to him each time I receive it. I am under undue sexual pressure at work. i try making him realise that it is not healthy for our marriage but he turns deaf ears to my pleas. But why should I hand over my entire salary to him? I am willing to contribute whatever he asks for to the family upkeep. Besides, he is aware that he has no right whatsoever to deny me of conjugal sex, yet he wants me crawling to him. I am tired of this whole thing. What do I do? |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Chanchit: 7:31am On Feb 17, 2013 |
Go and buy a dil-do. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by martyns303(m): 7:31am On Feb 17, 2013 |
I was about to scream but then I noticed ur a male, so ya u should hand him your salary or no show. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by bcomputer101: 7:50am On Feb 17, 2013 |
My advise: try and get a cold blooded under 25 boy to take up is intimacy duty as a man. He will be the one to beg you back. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Mynd44: 7:56am On Feb 17, 2013 |
Wow. This is the result of marrying kids. @OP, tell him to go hang himself |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by OkikiOluwa1(m): 9:00am On Feb 17, 2013 |
@bcomputer101, with dz ur nairaland handle, I ll like 2 ask if u r in2 a same sex union. If not, I refuse 2 coment my reserve. |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by bedford101(m): 9:22am On Feb 17, 2013 |
bcomputer101: My advise: try and get a cold blooded under 25 boy to take up is intimacy duty as a man. He will be the one to beg you back.how come? u re posting as a female at same time as a male..i nor understand u o |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Nobody: 11:41am On Feb 17, 2013 |
If she has no kid then she should leave the marriage even with kids she should leave. Do not divorce him o, just leave him and let him know that if you eventually start phucking outside, he caused it and the blame is on him not you. |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by greedie1(f): 12:00pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
hmmm |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Nobody: 12:11pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
I think it is better to leave the man if you really want to enjoy your life. |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by xynerise: 12:17pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
@Op. Mistakenly give him a heavy slap. I swear he will get himself. |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by honeric01(m): 12:24pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
entire salary? Not even 40%? Greedy husband. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Moyola(f): 12:34pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
All these Ala-curry men sef! Has he no job of his own? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Nobody: 1:09pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
The lady should just give the husband a months salary and see what becomes of it, that's if the husband squanders it or keeps it. Cos I do not believe the woman at all, cos she might be one of those ladies who thinks or believes that their salary is theirs alone, and the husband's salary is theirs too, n that takin care of the home financially is solely the man's responsibility 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by honeric01(m): 1:14pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
lrguru: The lady should just give the husband a months salary and see what becomes of it, that's if the husband squanders it or keeps it. Cos I do not believe the woman at all, cos she might be one of those ladies who thinks or believes that their salary is theirs alone, and the husband's salary is theirs too, n that takin care of the home financially is solely the man's responsibility I also find it hard to believe that a husband would request for the WHOLE salary of his wife. it's uncalled for. |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by anitank(f): 1:41pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
bedford101:Read, read, read, read the beginning of the story oooooo |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Nobody: 11:35pm On Feb 17, 2013 |
honeric01: the wife would have obeyed first before complain. If the man uses the money carelessly, then she has every right to say no when next he asks for her salary. I have seen men who give their wife all of their salary for her to take care of the home with it. So me do not see anythin wrong with it. Personally, i wont survive on my wife's salary, so if i ask u for ur salary, u berra bring it, but if u want to context that, then see urself in ur fathers house the next mornin. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Nobody: 12:03am On Feb 18, 2013 |
lrguru: The lady should just give the husband a months salary and see what becomes of it, that's if the husband squanders it or keeps it. Cos I do not believe the woman at all, cos she might be one of those ladies who thinks or believes that their salary is theirs alone, and the husband's salary is theirs too, n that takin care of the home financially is solely the man's responsibilityit may be true oo. |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by pleep(m): 6:37am On Feb 18, 2013 |
This is what happens when you marry a man with a 10 inch dik. abeg give him the slary na |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by bedford101(m): 8:00am On Feb 18, 2013 |
anitank:after he might have edited the page |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by Exponental(m): 9:30am On Feb 18, 2013 |
Tell d lady 2 buy intimacy gadgets. She should use it whenever she wants it. Mostly in his presence. |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by bcomputer101: 2:02pm On Feb 18, 2013 |
Exponental: Tell d lady 2 buy intimacy gadgets. She should use it whenever she wants it. Mostly in his presence. Exponental: Tell d lady 2 buy intimacy gadgets. She should use it whenever she wants it. Mostly in his presence. Hahahhahahahaaaa |
Re: My Husband Wants My Salary Or No Sex. by naijachix(m): 2:33pm On Feb 18, 2013 |
seriously, on a normal circumstance, a man wont wanna have his wife's salary. when u were not working, he provided all your needs. now you're working and you're feeling like a Lord. this is simply an ego thing. your man wants to remain in-charge, he wants to provide all your needs, he also wants to test your loyalty. some women worship money that u don't dare touch their one-kobo. if ur man is capable of providing all ur needs. why don't u give him a one-month-trial and see. give him ur salary for one month. it wont kill u. it goes a long way to show how much u love and respect him. don't foolishly tear ur home apart. 1 Like |
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