Many people are marrying early these days. They would like to get into matrimony as soon as their courtship is over. Tying the knot is important to strengthen their relationship. They feel settling down in life early would help them set up their independent home.

Whatever may be the advantages of settling down early in life, the fact remains there are problems to be faced if one gets into matrimony too quickly.

Examples are :
1. Responsibility has to be shouldered at a very young age. One has to take on household responsibilities, child rearing responsibility etc. There is no adult to guide or help out.

2. Missing out on the fun of teenage life and being young. The drudgeries of married life can get to you. They deprive you of your youth.

3. Health also can get affected as early pregnancy can have a negative impact on overall health.

4. Breakdown of marriage is possible. Often the young couple is immature to shoulder major responsibility and end up fighting with each other. Adjustment problems may arise.

5. Education also gets affected. The young couple may not be able to pursue higher education as they have to take on the responsibilities of family budget.

6. Work opportunities are limited for the youngsters. Since their education levels are low, they cannot get highly paid jobs.

7. Bringing up children may be difficult. Their knowledge of child care may be limited and parental guidance is also not there. They may not be able to provide the appropriate care for their child.

Marrying early may seem very romantic and convenient, but it has its problems. Couples need to get to know each other better and this takes time. Rushing into a marriage, which may not last long does not appear the right thing to do. In some countries, where child marriage is prevalent, efforts are on by respective Governments to dissuade such a practice.

How young is too young , for guys and gals. @OP

Omo really truthful frontpage pls make youth see am mods...
Cos me no send marriage now..ontop hardship make my pikin no yab me!!!! Sufferation naton....if u look all dis folks that r married you see say they r not really happy inside..especially d girls...d men r d ones enjoyin small groove cos some get outside runs....haha

ITbomb: How young is too young , for guys and gals. @OP

GOD BLESS YOU HELP ME ASK HIM

Revolva: Many people are marrying early these days. They would like to get into matrimony as soon as their courtship is over. Tying the knot is important to strengthen their relationship. They feel settling down in life early would help them set up their independent home.

Whatever may be the advantages of settling down early in life, the fact remains there are problems to be faced if one gets into matrimony too quickly.

Examples are :
1. Responsibility has to be shouldered at a very young age. One has to take on household responsibilities, child rearing responsibility etc. There is no adult to guide or help out.

2. Missing out on the fun of teenage life and being young. The drudgeries of married life can get to you. They deprive you of your youth.


3. Health also can get affected as early pregnancy can have a negative impact on overall health.

4. Breakdown of marriage is possible. Often the young couple is immature to shoulder major responsibility and end up fighting with each other. Adjustment problems may arise.

5. Education also gets affected. The young couple may not be able to pursue higher education as they have to take on the responsibilities of family budget.

6. Work opportunities are limited for the youngsters. Since their education levels are low, they cannot get highly paid jobs.

7. Bringing up children may be difficult. Their knowledge of child care may be limited and parental guidance is also not there. They may not be able to provide the appropriate care for their child.

Marrying early may seem very romantic and convenient, but it has its problems. Couples need to get to know each other better and this takes time. Rushing into a marriage, which may not last long does not appear the right thing to do. In some countries, where child marriage is prevalent, efforts are on by respective Governments to dissuade such a practice.

I can get not even one of your points.

You cant sample enough punny!

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This is nice.
Backpage pls...

I will not be totally be in agreement with you.

i have an aunt that got married @ age 19 and the husband was 22,they are still going stronger each day...they have grand children now. aldo am not disputing the fact that there will be an issue as they were growing but all claims are not correct..

Whats early?

Methuselah op, those small girls wey you dey phuck & wey dey phuck around never tire you?

ITbomb: How young is too young , for guys and gals. @OP

Succinct question

To a reasonable extent, I understand your point but then, too much rules and regulation can spoil the fun.

To enjoy life to the fullest, do what makes you happy.

Another angle to early marriage! Start a family early and get done with responsibilities early( child rearing, school fees, hospital bills, trips fees and so many more)

Some of us that got married very late would rather we got married early!!! ( For real)

The most important thing in marriage whether late or early is the ability of the people involved to be able to shoulder responsibilities and get issues resolved amicably and maturedly.

......But then, how young is too young?
Cheers

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Not true. Even old people who married late experience these problems too. The earlier the better jare. And who says education has a time. Even baba go school at 58.

not when it is with the right person.

you have so much fun with no regrets.

I will still ask the same question- How early is "early" ?

Op would be nice if you can tell me what your defination of 'early' means. I dont seem to understand if you're referring to it age wise or based on career /achievements.

ITbomb: How young is too young , for guys and gals. @OP

Answer this question before we start to talk.

Na lie joor

op i disagree wit d one abt health.,

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Freiburger:

I can get not even one of your points.

can't

Noted. But marrying early btw 21-25 years is good.

This essay is written for those within the age range 15-25 that are not matured in all ramifications.
If you believe early marriage ll work for you,carry on please.

please tell those small small girls well well make dem know.............

Personally, i think there's no disadvantage to marrying early unless the young couple wasted their courtship (too much "activity", no real communication), lack of mentors/respected role models (e.g pastor Okotie,Kim Kardashian), and refusal to leave youthful lifestyle. Me i go marry quick o, i can't be 50 and be taking my 1st son to kindergaten.lol.

Freiburger:

I can get not even one of your points.

are u sure

as long as u got money all this facts n.a. wash