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Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by chucky234(m): 1:35pm On Feb 25, 2013 |
I came across this on FB page and decide to share here . What is CHEATING in a relationship/ marriage? Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss,meet or have sex with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so your partner wont see them, you are already there. Its like a cancer it develops slowly but you will surely feel the pain when its fully grown. The funny thing is most of the times, people try to find what they already have because they don't just appreciate what they have. Remember the grass may look green on the other side but what if you could just invest time and energy by watering the one that you have. Wouldn't the world be a better place to be today? Can you imagine how strong your relationship would be if you would not waste your energy, resources and time on things that have no future. Secret, small,hidden relationships are like ticks they suck all the good things out of your marriage or relationship and makes it unstable. it will take you more effort to repair what you would have damaged and the sad thing is sometimes those wounds might never heal. Now with these so called social networks (Facebook, Skype, Whatsapp, Gtalk, iChat and many other platforms)- so many marriages and relationships are being damaged behind the scenes. Have you ever calculated the time that you invest in these social networks? What if that time can be used to promote those areas that you are struggling? Evaluate what the gain and losses that you have at the end of the day because in every conversation its either you are gaining or you are losing? Stop sexting and flirting with those people- Yes you know them. Imagine your partner (Husband/wife) reading the messages that you receive, would he/she reply with a free heart on your behalf? If the answer is NO, then that is an unhealthy chat/ talk that you are having Stop it before its too late. Some mistakes will cost you for a life time yet you could have just avoid them by just ignoring that chick/ dude who now loves you because you have been turned into a better 'asset' by your current partner. Where were they when you were struggling? Please may you all get rid of all the parasitic relationships that will always be a treat to your relationships' healthy. Fight for what is right and never give up on the one you Love. Yes l said health because you have to know and take care of it just like your body. Love it as you love your body, maintain it as you maintain your skin, teeth, hair and nails. True love means hard-work. Do not apply if you are not prepared to take the risks. Stay out for a relationship if you still want to fool around (but that has its own price) because a relationship calls for great deal of commitment. Most of the young people think that they will start being faithful when they get married- Word of Advise (You can never teach an old dog new tricks) That is why they are so many broken familes because people think they still have time to adjust. Start practicing being true to yourself when no one is watching because that's who you really are. Besides its by nature that what goes around comes around- Do you think the person that you got out of a secret affair will stop just because you are now with her/him? 1 Like
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Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by KINGwax(m): 2:07pm On Feb 25, 2013 |
Am only interested in d picture |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by DExplorer1: 6:42pm On Feb 25, 2013 |
..........from the team leader |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by chucky234(m): 7:26pm On Feb 25, 2013 |
D-Explorer:lol Dis one wey you dey scarce like fuel,dey appear and disappear like Wili Wili |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by DExplorer1: 7:41pm On Feb 25, 2013 |
chucky234: lolLol, i dey my man. |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by Nobody: 9:18pm On Feb 25, 2013 |
Hmm...'cheating' has its advantages atimes |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by bettercreature(m): 9:22pm On Feb 25, 2013 |
Wife can not give (BJ) |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by Nobody: 9:32pm On Feb 25, 2013 |
bettercreature: Wife can not give (BJ)Why? You think giving b.j is immoral? |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by Mynd44: 6:09am On Feb 26, 2013 |
Smh.... |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by chucky234(m): 8:11am On Feb 26, 2013 |
D-Explorer:I go inform you about something in March,make u no disappear ooo |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by DExplorer1: 9:12am On Feb 26, 2013 |
chucky234: I go inform you about something in March,make u no disappear oooLol. Ok na, no wahala, i fit no dey here but i dey read PMs. |
Re: Stop Cheating In Your Relationship by chucky234(m): 9:24am On Feb 26, 2013 |
D-Explorer:I no be learner na,I go take PMs fill your inbox |
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