I started a relationship with friend that is just one year plus,but rescently i discovered that she is lying to me when i ashed her certain questions about her response to guys she chat with online.
It all started when she gave me her email address and password to help her get an information since the network at her place was bad that day. I didnt only checked the email,i also used the details to check her facebook just to know whom am dealing with,and to my greatest suprise,this my friend has been calling guys all sorts of pet names,telling them i miss you e.t.c

The bottomline is that when i confronted her,her response was seen to me as one that is never sorry for her action,even when i told her that calling guys such names is given them hope that one day they will have you,she still will not listen.Though i told her that am sorry for going into her privacy without her consent,yet she is still proving stuborn and not ready to say am sorry,pls what should i do?

where did you meet the girl in the first place??

All I have to say is :-

YOU OVERSTEP YOUR boundary

bro many ladies do that o, it does not mean she is cheating. are there no ladies you chat wit sometimes? abeg grow up and be a man and stop crying like a sissy. it aint no biggy what your girl is doin

eze moses: bro many ladies do that o, it does not mean she is cheating. are there no ladies you chat wit sometimes? abeg grow up and be a man and stop crying like a sissy. it aint no biggy what your girl is doin

But there is a particular she does dis 2,whom she one's said dat is a casual frnd dat i still dnt blif 4nw,al d way tans 4ur advce

991: where did you meet the girl in the first place??

she is a sister to my cousin frnd and u met her in skul though we both reside in lagos bt dffernt area

Abbey2sam: All I have to say is :-

YOU OVERSTEP YOUR boundary

pls help me explain further,i tot dat we share somtins in comon,and dis is a lady am planim 2setle dwn wit.pls reply me

My dear,as far as you 've not married the lady you should know you 've no monopoly over her, and also, you should know that she is out there for either one of two things, which are marriage or fun. I advice you seek a define and purposeful relationship, by being honest, caring, loving and prayerful. Thanks tracetruth.

ODE !!!!!!!!!!!!

I sense insecurity in you!
What is she supposed to apologize for? That you intruded into her privacy OR that she chats with guys OR that she calls guyS pet names or that she said "I miss you" to a guy?

swtie, i ve a pet name for all my male friends and i don't date dem.... maybe she has nothing to apologize for, i mean, i just called u sweetie and i don't even know u.

so, maybe she is a lil stubborn, let it slide dis once... u intruded remember??

alutacontinua: I sense insecurity in you!
What is she supposed to apologize for? That you intruded into her privacy OR that she chats with guys OR that she calls guyS pet names or that she said "I miss you" to a guy?

tank you very much,but hw do i get myself secure if and insecure,pls help me

gree-die:
swtie, i ve a pet name for all my male friends and i don't date dem.... maybe she has nothing to apologize for, i mean, i just called u sweetie and i don't even know u.

so, maybe she is a lil stubborn, let it slide dis once... u intruded remember??

thanks alot

Tracetruth: My dear,as far as you 've not married the lady you should know you 've no monopoly over her, and also, you should know that she is out there for either one of two things, which are marriage or fun. I advice you seek a define and purposeful relationship, by being honest, caring, loving and prayerful. Thanks tracetruth.

Thank you